I've found a girlfriend :)

[Something Funny]

My first girlfriend ever. At 25 years old. I still can't fully believe that this is real... Everything happened so quickly.

And she is so awesome too. Super kind, gentle, and sensitive. 

Yesterday I was a bit sick, but she still came to visit me. And we had been having sex/cuddling/sex/cuddling non stop for like 3-4 hours. 

@Sincerity she is a girl from this post, btw

So I guess it could be salvaged 

[Sincerity]

That’s awesome man! 😃 Congrats!

Now the work begins.  

[Michal__]

Nice

[Something Funny]

@Sinceritythanks  

[Ulax]

Congrats !

[BlueOak]

Happy for you
I did too, after a long time without. I am also sick, and she also has cooked for me while ill. It was about that point that you and I might have realised we found a good woman.

Genuinely the best wishes for you, and all the happiness you both can have.



 

[Something Funny]

@BlueOak thanks <3 

[Sugarcoat]

Congrats 😊 There’s lot of opportunity for growth and development in relationship, that can increase stability, communication and long term happiness. It’s nice when both people are open to try to improve. 

[Schizophonia]

3 hours ago, Someone here said:

 

Yeah something like that is definitely happening. Or just the moustache. 

Could you edit your message and remove the quote from my messages please.

 

I wrote this because I feel humiliated and frustrated by my (lack of) romantic situation for various reasons and by my karma in general.

So I compulsively play the tough guy; but it's actually a form of castration, a refusal of the phallic position, because I'm denying (castrating myself) my true desires.

It's true that I've fallen deeper into antipathy, even dysthymia; but the fundamental truth is that even dysthymia—the perceived lack of movement, energy, consideration, and so on—is still the positive result (in the mathematical sense; "more of," "that which is added") of the illumination of consciousness; of awareness.

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia sure no problem. i deleted the whole comment .

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Could you edit your message and remove the quote from my messages please.

 

I wrote this because I feel humiliated and frustrated by my (lack of) romantic situation for various reasons and by my karma in general.

So I compulsively play the tough guy; but it's actually a form of castration, a refusal of the phallic position, because I'm denying (castrating myself) my true desires.

It's true that I've fallen deeper into antipathy, even dysthymia; but the fundamental truth is that even dysthymia—the perceived lack of movement, energy, consideration, and so on—is still the positive result (in the mathematical sense; "more of," "that which is added") of the illumination of consciousness; of awareness.

Basically you want a girlfriend? 

[Rishabh R]

@Something Funny Congratulations from a fellow 25 year old.

[Salvijus]

🤧 Beautiful. 

 

 

Edited December 30, 2025 by Salvijus

[Schizophonia]

17 hours ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia sure no problem. i deleted the whole comment .

 

Thanks.

Quote

 

Basically you want a girlfriend? 

Short answer : yes.

A bit more complicated answer : If I truly wanted it sincerely I would already have it now.

Edited December 31, 2025 by Schizophonia

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia I thought @Sugarcoat is your crush?  I remember you both saying you guys actually meet in real life .I'm not sure if the whole thing is just online.i actually thought she is your girlfriend. 

[Sugarcoat]

26 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia I thought @Sugarcoat is your crush?  I remember you both saying you guys actually meet in real life .I'm not sure if the whole thing is just online.i actually thought she is your girlfriend. 

I could answer but maybe it’s sensitive topic for him so ill let him answer 

[Someone here]

@Sugarcoat OK. In either case he said he wants a girlfriend so maybe that's a step in the right direction away from the "phallic postion" oh well 😂..

[Sugarcoat]

2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Sugarcoat OK. In either case he said he wants a girlfriend so maybe that's a step in the right direction away from the "phallic postion" oh well 😂..

😆Jung would be proud 

[Salvijus]

50 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I could answer but maybe it’s sensitive topic for him so ill let him answer 

Uuuh, the suspense. 

 

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia I thought @Sugarcoat is your crush?  I remember you both saying you guys actually meet in real life .I'm not sure if the whole thing is just online.i actually thought she is your girlfriend. 

She is good and we talked a lot in private but she lives too far away +we're probably not that compatible.

 

I probably seemed exaggerated due to a scarcity mentality (in denial) and because I like to troll/tease.

 

And I've evolved; there are posts/jokes that I wouldn't have made now because they were a bit cringe virgin stuff; the thing about guys unconsciously chasing their anima Mari louise von Franz talked about for those who mention Jung on the topic lol.

 

Edited December 31, 2025 by Schizophonia

[Sugarcoat]

11 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

She is good and we talked a lot in private but she lives too far away +we're probably not that compatible.

 

You’re good too thanks and yes I’d agree