Is socialization the key to have a romantic relationship?

[Never_give_up]

I go to certain clubs lately and socialize more than i have ever done in my whole life and I already meet a lot of people and women too. Most women ignore me but some are very polite and want to talk to me. It's like what Leo says that socializing gives you the opportunity to meet many people. 

I start to think that some day I am going to meet a woman and get to know her naturally and maybe it will evolve in something more. It almost seems not that difficult anymore (but time will tell). 

 

Is my intuition right? Is socialization the key to meet women and have a relationship?

[Schizophonia]

Women are mirrors.
You can't make huge quantum leaps, so socializing allows you to shift your frequency gradually, over a few hours, but in the same time in a particularly strong way.

Edited 1 hour ago by Schizophonia

[Leo Gura]

How else could it be??

[Sugarcoat]

Yes I think it’s good idea 

I find one challenge with socializing tho is that if you’re not naturally very social (gain a lot of dopamine from social interactions in general) then you’re gonna be quite selective about which people you click with, you’re only gonna gain significant satisfaction and feel flow when you click with someone

So when you meet people you’ll gonna go through a lot of convos that you feel aren’t flowing so good and you don’t click with them. And at times it can feel discouraging. But you gotta keep going because eventually you’ll find that person you click with well

 

Edited 38 minutes ago by Sugarcoat

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

There's gotta be a more customized way to go about this rather than go to some fuckin clubs and try to do some fucken small talk or perform rizz, the way socialization works nowadays is completely fucked imo. It doesn't help how disguisting all of these places are

All party places are such a nasty peasant places to be in. Can't believe most people don't care but they really don't. LoL

Edited 15 minutes ago by NewKidOnTheBlock

[aurum]

Of course.

It's very easy to believe your problem isn't being attractive enough, when in reality you're just not socializing enough.

 Socialization not only gives you actual opportunities, but also calibrates you over time if you learn the lessons.

[koops]

Yes, but if you are attractive you can use tinder or Instagram also.

Get a date ASAP and follow up from there in real life.