Is Seeing an Escort an Ethical Choice? Let's Talk Honestly

[manigoldo]

Hi everyone,

I’d like to open a respectful and thoughtful discussion on something that’s often whispered about but rarely addressed with real openness: the ethics of going with an escort.

Some argue that, as long as it’s between consenting adults, it’s simply a transaction like any other — no harm, no foul. Others feel it raises questions about power dynamics, emotional emptiness, or the commodification of intimacy. And then there’s the broader context: legality, safety, and whether someone is choosing that job freely or out of necessity.

I'm not here to judge or preach, just to hear what people think. Have you ever faced this question personally? Do you believe it's possible to approach it in an ethical and human way? Or do you think it always carries some form of moral compromise?

I’d love to hear different perspectives — especially if you’ve ever changed your mind on the matter.

Thanks for keeping it civil and real.

[Sincerity]

Welcome to the forum. Please familiarize ourself with our Forum Guidelines: 

Be honest: did you use AI to write this post?

Please keep in mind that one of the rules is:

Quote

What’s NOT allowed:

• Posting AI-generate content like text, images, or video without disclosing that it was sourced from AI

[Schizophonia]

Personally I wouldn't care, it's not my problem as long as I'm satisfied.

It also depends on the escorts, but even "exploited" escorts would be even poorer without it.
There's a reason their cerebral cortex chose to be escorts rather anything else.

States would probably do better to legalize brothels and regulate this activity if they don't already.

It's also probably healthier for men than pornography.

Edited 7 hours ago by Schizophonia

[Lyubov]

Generally speaking it’s fine but also has associated health risks and is a dead end. It’s like fast food. You can rarely indulge and not have any issues but if you build your diet around it you will have issues. 

[Schizophonia]

16 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

health risks 

Don't lick your escort's ass if she hasn't showered.

That's why I always have my mini Hawaiian coconut mango shower gel...

bottle opening noise 

Edited 2 hours ago by Schizophonia