How to give a Man the best sex of His Life (for woman)

[Joshe]

On 6/22/2025 at 11:45 PM, Emerald said:

But one thing that was really interesting about these perspectives, when it came to understand what men are really drawn to relationship-wise, is that they are attracted to the Feminine tendency towards emotional expression and like to vicariously experience feelings and emotions through connection with the woman. 

So, anytime you can communicate raw feeling states... either positive/joyful ones or sad/scared vulnerable ones... it will tend to make him want to get closer... that is, if he's the connecting type and he already sees you as a potential candidate for a longterm relationship.

True for me. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

13 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You've got some telepathic feed into the smut of the forum 😅 direct tap-in lol 

[Schizophonia]

I still need to make a YouTube video for my journal.

I should do this tutorial for the Actualized females. 

"COMPILATION OF THE BEST SEX POSITIONS (I'm a virgin but very imaginative)"

Edited July 5 by Schizophonia

[Natasha Tori Maru]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I still need to make a YouTube video for my journal.

I should do this tutorial for the Actualized females. 

"COMPILATION OF THE BEST SEX POSITIONS (I'm a virgin but very imaginative)"

Draw some stick figure illustrations on flash cards and hold them up, analogue creativity 😏

I'm picturing busted positions that would result in broken arms in real life, and you snickering in the background 

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Draw some stick figure illustrations on flash cards and hold them up,

Ofc

Just hesitate between scientific uniform or police one to pay homage to my favourite pornographic videos.

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analogue creativity 😏

Valentin's big prefrontal neocortex to your service

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I'm picturing busted positions that would result in broken arms in real life, and you snickering in the background 

Spinning top position

Edited July 5 by Schizophonia

[Natasha Tori Maru]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Ofc

Just hesitate between scientific uniform or police one to pay homage to my favourite pornographic videos.

Valentin's big prefrontal neocortex to your service

Spinning top position

I CAN'T STOP LAUGHING

WHAT THE FUCK IS EVEN GOING ON HERE 🤣

[Emerald]

5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

 

It looks like a four-armed woman man-handling a limbless man and turning him upside down and cracking his head open on her knee.  

Edited July 6 by Emerald

[soos_mite_ah]

5 minutes ago, Emerald said:

It looks like a four-armed woman man-handling a limbless man and turning him upside down and cracking his head open on her knee.  

I LITERALLY CANNOT SEE ANYTHING ELSE IT COULD POSSIBLY BE LMAOOO 

[Emerald]

Just now, soos_mite_ah said:

I LITERALLY CANNOT SEE ANYTHING ELSE IT COULD POSSIBLY BE LMAOOO 

Exactly... it's just precisely what he drew.  

[Schizophonia]

@Emerald 

My previous post was probably written in anger (anima?  ) for some reason so I'll try to be more reasoned here.

On 04/07/2025 at 5:58 PM, Emerald said:

My experience has been that mature men tend to want a woman who is roughly on the same page as them, sexually and otherwise. 

After years of extreme insomnia and a life of diverse issues i'm not going to talk about here in don't see how it would be possible for me to be disappointed by an inexperimented woman; from my pov it's like if I had been a miner all my life working 50 hours a week for not that much to substain a familly and you're telling me that a grown man needs a first-class plane ticket because "they're too old to fly economy 👩‍✈️"

On the contrary, there is by projection a process of empathy develops and a desire to take care of the other, to help them discover things, etc.

Unless you're so fundamentally subservient to your own circumstances that the projected affect is actually negative, like, "Oh, I work enough already, I'm not going to deal with an inexperienced girl!"
But that's not being a mature man, that's being a slave.

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And men who are over a certain age who are all about virginity just come across like they never quite grew up.

I don't necessarily want a girl who is a virgin, I say that I am not disinterested and even that I prefer inexperience.

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This may be something that you're not tuned into as a guy in his early 20s. But it's important to be aware of how it's perceived by adult women and adult society in general.

I don't care.

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But the main issue with what you're posting here is that you're making these posts off of random conjectures when you haven't even had sex yourself.

And it's not a problem that you haven't had sex yet, in itself. There is no shame in being a virgin. Lots of guys your age are in the same boat.

You said that as if it were a stain.

What is a stair is is to degrade oneself by sleeping with randoms, and potentially creating unnecessary suffering.

Perhaps society would also have less demographic problems if people stopped behaving in a fickle manner. 

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But you should recognize that you really don't even know what you're going to like yet. All you have is fantasies. And those fantasies may not be all they're cracked up to be in actuality.

For example, when I was fantasizing before I lost my virginity, I thought that I was going to be into 69ing and BDSM switching with all the ropes and accouterments. (I just thought the BDSM look was sexy, so it had become short-hand for sex)

What is the link with what i say.

I didn't talk about sexual practice.

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And I had my first serious boyfriend what I was 16 who I lost my virginity to. And I lived with him and his family until I moved away for college at 18.

So, over the course of about a year and half living together, we tried out a lot of things sexually... including those fantasies.

And I was really surprised to find that those things I'd been fantasizing about, just didn't do it for me.

First off, 69ing is super annoying because trying give and receive at the same time is awkward and no one can surrender to the receiving because there is a responsibility to keep giving. I don't see why anyone likes it at all. 

And the BDSM thing just didn't do much for me. It was cool looking... but it didn't push any buttons.

And then, things that I hadn't fantasized or even thought about before did do it for me.

Like I was surprised at how much I liked the feeling of skin-to-skin contact. I hadn't even considered that I might enjoy the more vanilla or cuddly parts of sex because they weren't part of my pop culture/porn education about sex... and they didn't seem as interesting as other more "flashy" sexual acts.

Again i never talked about sexual practice

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Point being, you don't even know what you like yet.... let alone other men your age... let alone fully grown mature men.

???

What's gotten into you why are you bitchy  Did I upset you in any way to make you write that? 

I'll get a girlfriend when I'm available and find someone good. I already know someone, but the situation is a bit complicated. I have a knack for getting myself into complex situations.

Edited July 6 by Schizophonia

[Emerald]

@Schizophonia I really wasn't being bitchy to you. I really do mean that it's normal for someone your age to not have experience yet. That probably describes at least 1/3 of guys in their early 20s.

I was just saying that you'll need some more experience before you're able to speak on what men (ages 18-90) generally enjoy (and what it implies about their level of Masculinity and psychological state).

And you'll even need more experience to know what you like specifically.

Once you have some experience, you'll find that a lot of what you think about and fantasize about now may not actually be the experiences you'd like to have, in real life.

It's best to not get too bogged down in extrapolating theories based on your current fantasies before you have the actual experience. That's the point that I'm making.

But it also makes sense that you'd want to have that experience with a woman who has similar levels of experience to yours. Like I said, people tend to want to have experiences with others who are on the same page.

[Schizophonia]

2 hours ago, Emerald said:

@Schizophonia I really wasn't being bitchy to you. I really do mean that it's normal for someone your age to not have experience yet. That probably describes at least 1/3 of guys in their early 20s.

I was just saying that you'll need some more experience before you're able to speak on what men (ages 18-90) generally enjoy (and what it implies about their level of Masculinity and psychological state).

And you'll even need more experience to know what you like specifically.

Once you have some experience, you'll find that a lot of what you think about and fantasize about now may not actually be the experiences you'd like to have, in real life.

It's best to not get too bogged down in extrapolating theories based on your current fantasies before you have the actual experience. That's the point that I'm making.

But it also makes sense that you'd want to have that experience with a woman who has similar levels of experience to yours. Like I said, people tend to want to have experiences with others who are on the same page.

I don't have fantasies in particular, I'm basically vanilla, making love is making love.

I don't even remember how the conversation started lol nevermind.

 

Edited July 6 by Schizophonia

[Husseinisdoingfine]

The only good sex position is the helicopter.

The man in this position is supposed to be spinning 360 degrees numerous times over and over. 

Edited July 7 by Husseinisdoingfine

[Princess Arabia]

12 minutes ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

The only good sex position is the helicopter.

The man in this position is supposed to be spinning 360 degrees numerous times over and over. 

Lol. Looks like the best and most effective push-up sexercises ever.

[MsNobody]

@Husseinisdoingfine what’s happening here lol 

I always wondered why the best sex of their lives (for men) is always a one night stand/ random woman, and for women is always their most profound relationship. 

[Princess Arabia]

55 minutes ago, MsNobody said:

@Husseinisdoingfine what’s happening here lol 

I always wondered why the best sex of their lives (for men) is always a one night stand/ random woman, and for women is always their most profound relationship. 

I think it's because there's no history and baggage with the random one-night stand and no one to judge their performance and for them to know about it if it wasn't good. So they get in their heads and use the opportunity to unleash their fantasies with her because she's like an empty vessel. Women usually have sex with the person and not the body parts and it's more mental and emotional for them; so that takes some knowing the guy intimately already for the sex to be awesome even though not necessarily.

[Emerald]

5 hours ago, Husseinisdoingfine said:

The only good sex position is the helicopter.

The man in this position is supposed to be spinning 360 degrees numerous times over and over. 

There's probably a good reason why these kinds of unusual positions are unpopular... things like the wheel barrel and stuff like that.

I honestly can't imagine that feeling very good, as it would be in at an awkward angle that he couldn't go very deep and would easily slip out. And the spinning would probably just be awkward and cause chafing from weird angles. And the angle might put pressure on her public bone.

That's what I imagine it feeling like when I look at this image.

I also can't imagine that the man would be properly stimulated here... and he'd have to do a tons of work for not a lot of return for him or his partner.

[Joshe]

Ignorance is bliss when you livin’ butt to tip 

Irrelevant but funny sex humor. 

 

[theleelajoker]

10 hours ago, MsNobody said:

@Husseinisdoingfine what’s happening here lol 

I always wondered why the best sex of their lives (for men) is always a one night stand/ random woman, and for women is always their most profound relationship. 

Had good ONS. Had shitty ONS.

But best sex was always when I met the woman more often, building intimacy, trust, understanding, harmony, balance over time. 

Edited July 7 by theleelajoker

[Schizophonia]

11 hours ago, MsNobody said:

@Husseinisdoingfine what’s happening here lol 

I always wondered why the best sex of their lives (for men) is always a one night stand/ random woman, and for women is always their most profound relationship. 

It's very false