The Purpose Of A Girlfriend Is To Dream Deeper Into The Matrix

[Alexop]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

How's me responding to the use of the word 'submit' shitting on his work. There was nothing to ignore as I wasn't addressing you in the first place.

Whatever have a nice day.

[Alexop]

12 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

 Stop making women feel unwelcome here.

Leo, please don't glue this nonsense to my persona! She being a woman has nothing to do with it. My banning comment was rage based, inappropriate and I apologize.

I am very careful how I treat women and in fact I found Natasha's comments on this thread to be the most interesting. 

Of course you cannot just ban people willy-nilly and I understand there are high stakes on your back. I should've just ignore her. I really appreciate the patience you have with these people! 

I was active here in the last times especially because of this subject, I wanted to gather all the possible perspectives. And I learned a lot! I learned that some people will never get this subject and because of this, their lives might be ruined. I write a book about it.

This comment is for you all. I lived in fucking Romania all my life and now blended among Swedes for the last three years. Women are living in hell, no matter if it is fkin Morocco or progressive Scandinavia.

I remember how a woman in some third world country said that she could better raise her kids without her man, he just made her life a hell. Let that sink in

My ex Swedish girlfriend told me that her girlfriends are just coping, not enjoying their relationships with thier partners. Let that sink in

In the feminist Iceland, over 40% of women reported being abused in one way or another. Let that sink in 

Those yes-men nice guy kiss-assers also make women suffer, and even beat them as statistics show. Even if they are perceived as being so sweet and cool in some social situations because they never rock the boat.

Just because we talk nice loosy goosy, gender blind ideas about masculinity and femininity won't solve this problem. The uncomfortable truth is that men and women are different and in general they need different stuff. I as a man feel very responsible for my woman's happiness. If a woman is not happy, it is mostly because some man in her life was or is shit. Leo himself said that a man has to be forged like a sword.

Be a forged sword and take care of your women!

Edited Wednesday at 11:27 AM by Alexop

[Keryo Koffa]

11 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Being the boyfriend of a female cult leader is an impossible position, I feel like.

It works much easier being the girlfriend of a male cult leader. It's more natural.

What if both are cult leaders, what's the dynamic there? 

[Alexop]

On 6/18/2025 at 6:59 AM, Leo Gura said:

She had never done that. She's always respectful and kind.

Quote: "It's guys like you that tries to oppress women and think we're masculine because we have something to say"

This is a very serious offense and I never said women cannot be good intellectuals, it is that they can break the polarity in the relationship by always competing with the man, being in her masculine and not needing his containment. You yourself said that women should give this shit up and just be cute or that we should  treat them like children. I understood your ideas without calling you a woman opressor even if it sounds  fishy at first glance. After some contemplation I got you. But some people just spin it as they want.

All the fucking time people interpreting stuff as they want on this topic. And before you talk nonsense I'd invite y'all to live in Sweden and see what happens when this subject cannot be discussed anywhere. Come and talk with some women here about how they feel in regards to their men.

Edited Thursday at 10:14 AM by Alexop

[AION]

MATrix = maternal = world of the mother 

[Emerald]

Just now, AION said:

MATrix = maternal = world of the mother 

Yes precisely! That's why the Earth is called the mother.

Maternal - Matter - Matrix 

Similarly, in Hungarian, the word for mother is "Anya" and the word for matter is "Anyag". Many languages also reflect this archetypal truth.

Hence why the Feminine spiritual path has to do with embodiment within Maya rather than transcendence of Maya.

Also, in the same way there is an etymological connection between the "world of matter" and the "world of the mother".... we see that the words paternal and pattern have a similar etymology.

And that makes sense because the Divine Masculine is like sacred geometry... and has to do with that which is non-physical and abstract.

In this way that Feminine is matter itself on the level of being... and the Masculine is the non-physical currents and patterns that engender doing/movement to that which is.

[LordFall]

23 hours ago, Emerald said:

I tend to think it's quite common for people who get into things like personal development... and spiritual seeking.

But truthfully, average people seem to get on okay most of the time.

The main drawback of lacking the drive towards divergence is that people can tend to stay in a reactive state to life as opposed to an initiatory state... which requires a questioning of the status quo and a level of individuation such that they can realize a different vision to what is.

I feel like the average person is broke(depending on where you get your stats, 33-60% of adults live paycheck to paycheck, even older ones in their 40s to 60s), nowhere near living a life purpose, in a non ideal relationship and with no idea where to start to improve their life. That's in the western countries, in the less well faring ones the average person is fucked. Perhaps there's a lesson in acceptance of hardship and not always seeking a better situation but still I will take the road towards exceptionalism any day. 

Edited Thursday at 03:40 AM by LordFall

[Emerald]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

I feel like the average person is broke(depending on where you get your stats, 33-60% of adults live paycheck to paycheck, even older ones in their 40s to 60s), nowhere near living a life purpose, in a non ideal relationship and with no idea where to start to improve their life. That's in the western countries, in the less well faring ones the average person is fucked. Perhaps there's a lesson in acceptance of hardship and not always seeking a better situation but still I will take the road towards exceptionalism any day. 

That makes sense, if you're defining extraordinariness as correlated with wealth and relationship success.

But being exceptional doesn't necessarily solve those money or relationship problems either.

I know very average people who are doing very well financially. And I know people who are exceptional who are paycheck to paycheck.

[AION]

7 hours ago, Emerald said:

Yes precisely! That's why the Earth is called the mother.

Maternal - Matter - Matrix 

Similarly, in Hungarian, the word for mother is "Anya" and the word for matter is "Anyag". Many languages also reflect this archetypal truth.

Hence why the Feminine spiritual path has to do with embodiment within Maya rather than transcendence of Maya.

Also, in the same way there is an etymological connection between the "world of matter" and the "world of the mother".... we see that the words paternal and pattern have a similar etymology.

And that makes sense because the Divine Masculine is like sacred geometry... and has to do with that which is non-physical and abstract.

In this way that Feminine is matter itself on the level of being... and the Masculine is the non-physical currents and patterns that engender doing/movement to that which is.

Movie matrix explains it well. Actors have to choose between living in fantasy but emotionally compelling lives or living in the truth but emotionally difficult lives. It is masculine truth versus emotional comfort. Usually taking a girl out of her matrix won’t be appreciated by her. If you want to get along in the matrix you basically have to cater to her emotions and illusions to some degree but at the same time guys have an individual path of being the one to get out the world of the female/mother and enter the world of the father while agents of the matrix attack him but he (Neo) in the story has her beloved who helps him. It kind of reminds me the expulsion of Adam and Eve and their quest back to the garden. The movie plot has so many nuances and symbolism. Perhaps I will write a topic about it one day. 

Edited Thursday at 06:39 AM by AION

[Emerald]

8 hours ago, Alexop said:

Quote: "It's guys like you that tries to oppress women and think we're masculine because we have something to say"

This is a very serious offense and I never said women cannot be good intellectuals, it is that they can break the polarity in the relationship by doing that. You yourself said that women should give this shit up and just be cute or that we should  treat them like children. I understood your ideas without calling you a woman opressor even if it sounds  fishy at first glance. After some contemplation I got you. But some people just spin it as they want.

All the fucking time people interpreting stuff as they want on this topic. And before you talk nonsense I'd invite y'all to live in Sweden and see what happens when this subject cannot be discussed anywhere. Come and talk with some women here about how they feel in regards to their men.

Number one, she's actually one of the nicer people on this forum.

Number two, I don't see anything remotely offensive (nor even technically incorrect) about what she said in that quote that you've written above.

If the perspective you subscribe to is that intellectual women should just suppress their intellectual nature and just be cute, so as to maintain the polarity, that is an oppressive perspective by definition. (The same is also true for the "treat women like children" bit.)

To give an imperfect analogy, it's like a white person saying, "Black people should just stop sharing intellectual ideas because white people don't enjoy it as much." 

Oppression has a lot to do with marginalization of perspectives and the subjective truth of a group of people.... and saying "women should give that (intellectual) shit up" is 100% an attempt to silence and marginalize women's perspectives.

It's like, "Shut up. Stand there, and look pretty." But that's not how any real human being operates and lives a fulfilling life. 

Plus, holding that perspective will just scare women away from you. I can't imagine that you've seen much success with women in operating this way. Have you?

[Emerald]

43 minutes ago, AION said:

Movie matrix explains it well. Actors have to choose between living in fantasy but emotionally compelling lives or living in the truth but emotionally difficult lives. It is masculine truth versus emotional comfort. Usually taking a girl out of her matrix won’t be appreciated by her. If you want to get along in the matrix you basically have to cater to her emotions and illusions to some degree but at the same time guys have an individual path of being the one to get out the world of the female/mother and enter the world of the father while agents of the matrix attack him but he (Neo) in the story has her beloved who helps him. It kind of reminds me the expulsion of Adam and Eve and their quest back to the garden. The movie plot has so many nuances and symbolism. Perhaps I will write a topic about it one day. 

The difference between the Matrix in the movie is that it was created by machines to feed off of humanity. And the Matrix we live in is created by God as a means to serve its own expansion through the conduit of limitation. 

So, the intention behind the creation of the Matrix is quite opposite... as it exists as an expression of God's love for itself.

And seemingly, I (meaning, that which I truly am underneath the illusion of Maya) have gone through some pretty great lengths to create this immersive virtual reality illusion for myself. And I certainly didn't make a mistake when I created this Matrix.

The Matrix is my own creation, and it's a really interesting and beautiful piece of work.

But the Masculine and Feminine path are two sides to one coin...

The Masculine path is one of being a human being who is caught up in the illusion of being a human who is devoting themselves to Truth and trying to escape the Matrix and realize that he is God. 

The Feminine path is one of being God in its infinite expression... and then deliberately deluding yourself into believing you're human so as to have an excursion into the illusions of limitation. 

The Masculine path is kind of like the relationship between Bruce Wayne and Batman, where Bruce Wayne goes through great lengths to embody the Batman persona.

The Feminine path is like Superman. Where God is like Superman... but he disguises himself as mild-mannered Clark Kent. (Only God even tricks itself into believing that he is Clark Kent)

The vast majority of human incarnations (men and women) prefer that latter game. Hence why we're here having this experience in the first place.

But a small percentage of people (like monks) genuinely prefer the "escape from the illusion" game.... where God takes the Feminine path to delude itself into being a human. But then, that human devotes themselves to monastic life and decides to use the delusion as a contrast through which waking up can happen.

Like, God cannot wake up to itself in its infinite form as it is already infinitely knowledgable.

But God can delude itself into being human... and then wake itself up from within the delusion. And it's only through contrast with the delusion that God can get an "outside perspective" of its nature as Truth.

Sometimes God wants to simply immerse itself in the delusion, and that's the Feminine path.

And sometimes God wants to use the delusion as a launching pad to wake up to its own nature, and that's the Masculine path.

Edited Thursday at 07:22 AM by Emerald

[AION]

@Emerald Machines represent the industrial complex that came with SD orange. Today’s humans are just wheels in the giant machine called civilization. It is inhumane and soul sucking. Go ask your regular 9-5’er. Civilization is like a basic soul sucking bitch. So in that sense AI will help people to leave their boring jobs and give them the opportunity to free their soul by doing spirituality in their free time. But most of them will use this opportunity to delve into the matrix (female world) even further by engaging in their addictions. Addictions is an interesting word in Turkish: it means addicted to matter(mother’s world). If one doesn’t have a strong animus, the pull of the anima is too strong and one gets sucked in the belly of the matrix(illusion that addiction will gratifying to the soul). In that sense the matrix is ever all-loving but ruthless, mechanical, beautiful, scary, unconscious and all-devouring. While the “patrix” is the opposite. 

Edited Thursday at 08:00 AM by AION

[Alexop]

5 hours ago, Emerald said:

Number one, she's actually one of the nicer people on this forum.

Number two, I don't see anything remotely offensive (nor even technically incorrect) about what she said in that quote that you've written above.

If the perspective you subscribe to is that intellectual women should just suppress their intellectual nature and just be cute, so as to maintain the polarity, that is an oppressive perspective by definition. (The same is also true for the "treat women like children" bit.)

To give an imperfect analogy, it's like a white person saying, "Black people should just stop sharing intellectual ideas because white people don't enjoy it as much." 

Oppression has a lot to do with marginalization of perspectives and the subjective truth of a group of people.... and saying "women should give that (intellectual) shit up" is 100% an attempt to silence and marginalize women's perspectives.

It's like, "Shut up. Stand there, and look pretty." But that's not how any real human being operates and lives a fulfilling life. 

Plus, holding that perspective will just scare women away from you. I can't imagine that you've seen much success with women in operating this way. Have you?

Thanks for the gaslight but I prefer my LED lamp.

I won't engage in any debate about this subject with you, you are too ideological and closedminded about this subject. Maybe you are better in regards to other subjects but strictly here, you are mediocre at best. If you interpret what I said as opressing women then you just waste your time with this subject.

 

Edited Thursday at 12:00 PM by Alexop

[How to be wise]

On 16/06/2025 at 11:32 PM, Leo Gura said:

I don't.

I don't pursue women much.

Finding a woman who is actually worth dating is extremely hard for me. So much so that I barely think about it.

You need to date more women until you find that gem.

[Leo Gura]

4 minutes ago, How to be wise said:

You need to date more women until you find that gem.

It's just too shallow for me relative to philosophy and God.

No woman gives me depth. Especially not any woman I would want to sleep with.

Edited Thursday at 11:46 AM by Leo Gura

[How to be wise]

29 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

It's just too shallow for me relative to philosophy and God.

No woman gives me depth. Especially not any woman I would want to sleep with.

You should attend philosophy events and do pickup there. 

[LordFall]

6 hours ago, Emerald said:

That makes sense, if you're defining extraordinariness as correlated with wealth and relationship success.

But being exceptional doesn't necessarily solve those money or relationship problems either.

I know very average people who are doing very well financially. And I know people who are exceptional who are paycheck to paycheck.

Exceptional at what? Life doesn’t all have to be about finance but there are things that matter more than others. Plenty of people are exceptional at quoting anime or collecting figurines; doesn’t make them particularly valuable human beings. 
 

@Leo Gura Why can’t you lead a hot girl towards interesting topics and adventure? Most women are quite open to leadership, they say a great woman is not found she’s created. Just need someone that’s not super egotistical and stubborn. 

Edited Thursday at 12:38 PM by LordFall

[Leo Gura]

50 minutes ago, How to be wise said:

You should attend philosophy events and do pickup there. 

Do you understand that I have higher priorities?

[Terell Kirby]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

No woman gives me depth.

Is this the case for all of your human relationships? 

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Terell Kirby said:

Is this the case for all of your human relationships? 

Pretty much.

Humans are shallow puddles. God is a bottomless ocean.

Edited Thursday at 01:20 PM by Leo Gura