Don't tell me that this insane approach actually works on girls

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Schizophonia said:

I take out my binoculars

Watching from a safe distance.

[Schizophonia]

Just now, Sugarcoat said:

Watching from a safe distance.

Pervert but respectful

[Sugarcoat]

Just now, Schizophonia said:

Pervert but respectful

Hahahaha best pervert

[Eskilon]

49 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Some woman should do the opposite experiment: walking around naked and seeing if she gets approached. lol

Hardcore mode = do that in India

[Sugarcoat]

7 minutes ago, Eskilon said:

Hardcore mode = do that in India

Loll

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

Some woman should do the opposite experiment: walking around naked and seeing if she gets approached. lol

This is why women are the prize, shouldn't sleep around without getting some kind of value, men chase, approach, ask our hand in marriage and we shouldn't have to lift a hand in doing anything to get a man other than the obvious and just be. 

Here comes the naysayers. 

Edited Sunday at 10:37 PM by Princess Arabia

[AION]

9 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

This is why women are the prize, shouldn't sleep around without getting some kind of value, men chase, approach, ask our hand in marriage and we shouldn't have to lift a hand in doing anything to get a man other than the obvious and just be. 

Here comes the naysayers. 

Top 20% of men are the prize and they know it. Women chase them. But the other 80% of men have to chase to get some. 

Edited Sunday at 10:47 PM by AION

[Princess Arabia]

11 minutes ago, AION said:

Top 20% of men are the prize and they know it. Women chase them. But the other 80% of men have to chase to get some. 

Those women that chase end up getting left behind. I didn't say women don't chase but that's not what keeps a guy interested no matter who he is. He will just settle and take the bait while he eyes the true prize. You're taking about sex and/or money and status. I'm talking about what's in the make up, the feminine/masculine energy. I use the word prize loosely, but men are natural competitors and people compete for a prize.

[AION]

43 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Those women that chase end up getting left behind. I didn't say women don't chase but that's not what keeps a guy interested no matter who he is. He will just settle and take the bait while he eyes the true prize. You're taking about sex and/or money and status. I'm talking about what's in the make up, the feminine/masculine energy. I use the word prize loosely, but men are natural competitors and people compete for a prize.

Women compete with each other too in terms of looks and their other ways of doing that. For what? 

Edited Sunday at 11:45 PM by AION

[Raze]

2 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

This is why women are the prize, shouldn't sleep around without getting some kind of value, men chase, approach, ask our hand in marriage and we shouldn't have to lift a hand in doing anything to get a man other than the obvious and just be. 

Here comes the naysayers. 

Guys wouldn’t have a problem with this if women weren’t constantly doing everything in their power to make this as hard as possible 

Edited Monday at 01:28 AM by Raze

[Princess Arabia]

11 minutes ago, Raze said:

Guys wouldn’t have a problem with this if women weren’t constantly doing everything in their power to make this as hard as possible 

No great prize comes easily.

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, AION said:

Women compete with each other too in terms of looks and their other ways of doing that. For what? 

Natural tendencies. Everything the ego does you can say "for what to" to and it'll pretty much all have to do with survival. For what?

[aurum]

34 minutes ago, Raze said:

Guys wouldn’t have a problem with this if women weren’t constantly doing everything in their power to make this as hard as possible 

Dude, no.

Women are not trying to make things as hard as possible for men. If that was the case, things would be way worse.

[Ajay0]

7 hours ago, Eskilon said:

Hardcore mode = do that in India

Highly unlikely.

The only naked women I have seen in India are naked western tourists in bikinis. 

Indian women even in the beaches wear full body covering swim suits. There is a lot of emphasis in India on looking respectable and decent to ensure dignity and authority , probably due to social conditioning.

[something_else]

16 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

This is why women are the prize, shouldn't sleep around without getting some kind of value, men chase, approach, ask our hand in marriage and we shouldn't have to lift a hand in doing anything to get a man other than the obvious and just be. 

Here comes the naysayers. 

If some women want to use this strategy then they can. Other women can also behave however they like.

Some guys like to chase, some don't, some enjoy games, some don't. Everybody is different and your approach to dating all depends on what kind of partner you want.

Some men and women enjoy more dramatic and transactional relationship dynamics (which is fine) and this approach will work for them. If you want a more equal/partnership relationship (also fine) then this approach will not work for you.

[Princess Arabia]

3 minutes ago, something_else said:

If some women want to use this strategy then they can. Other women can also behave however they like.

Some guys like to chase, some don't, some enjoy games, some don't. Everybody is different and your approach to dating all depends on what kind of partner you want.

Some men and women enjoy more dramatic and transactional relationship dynamics (which is fine) and this approach will work for them. If you want a more equal/partnership relationship (also fine) then this approach will not work for you.

Yes, dear. Agreed. 

[Hardkill]

19 hours ago, Emerald said:

I know you wouldn't do it. I wasn't really directing that advice towards you in particular... just addressing the post more generally.

But I would guess that, if he's not in the exact Jackass-like night-life scenario that I mentioned in my previous post, that it's probably pre-planned and staged to get clicks and views from guys who are trying to learn to be more confident approaching women so that they can marvel at it and go, "Wow! How was that guy able to do that!?!?!"

Otherwise, it would definitely end up with him ending up in jail because it's such an aberration to the norm and against the law.

And even if (theoretically) a woman on the busy street in broad daylight was receptive to it (which I doubt... but yet again, crazy likes crazy), somebody else would definitely call the cops on him.

Like, if you're going to act crazy, you have to be in an environment where crazy is normal and where you have social proof from friends that crazy is normal... like at a rock concert/festival, spring break beach party, or rowdy club environment.

Like, when I was 17 years old and I went to my first rock festival show (Livestock 2006), the first thing I saw upon entering the festival was a woman giving a guy and blowjob on top of an rv while a bunch of people cheer them on. 

So, in these kinds of environments that are already crazy, it's like the Wild West.

And in most environments, you have to a very young person too. Or it's going to still read as weird and crazy no matter the environment.

Like a bunch of 21 year old guys going out to a wild place and a friend in the group starts streaking to be funny is just read as young adult hooligan antics.

But a 30+ year old group of guys going out to a wild place and a friend in the group starts streaking, it's like "Good lord! John's gone crazy."

It wasn't 100% pre-planned or staged.

The parts of the vids that were spontaneous:

• Freddy walked up to random girls.
• He started talking, flirting, even taking off his clothes.
• Girls laughed, reacted, sometimes gave a number or flirted back.
• spontaneous social experiment or ballsy prank.

 

The parts that might've been pre-planned or controlled:

• He revealed afterward that it was a prank or social experiment, and the women gave verbal or written consent to appear in the video after the fact.
• Camera crew was perhaps positioned safely to avoid legal blowback
• No angry blowups, police arrests, or actual chaos are shown. Perhaps edited out any serious consequences

He actually chose areas where I guess nudity is more okay.

• Norway (generally relaxed attitudes)
• San Francisco (nudity in protests and public events is common)

[Raze]

15 hours ago, aurum said:

Dude, no.

Women are not trying to make things as hard as possible for men. If that was the case, things would be way worse.

They are, but paradoxically they also make it hard for men to not approach them, and they’ll always refuse to acknowledge any contradiction.

[meta_male]

@Hardkill Haven't you learned it works two out of three times?

[aurum]

1 hour ago, Raze said:

They are, but paradoxically they also make it hard for men to not approach them, and they’ll always refuse to acknowledge any contradiction.

This totally confuses the situation.

Both things are true:

1) Women are interested in attracting men

2) Women will filter and test men in that process

So there's no contradiction. It's part of the same strategy for women. And it's pointless to berate them about this, even if you don't like it. They are not going to stop filtering or testing men, nor should they. Stop wanting women to make things easy for you.

 

The idea that women are making it "as hard for men as possible" is also absurd. If this was the case, no guy would ever be getting laid.

In reality, women give you indicators of interest. Smiling, laughing, attention, agreeing with your frame, physical touch, playing with their hair, turning their body towards you, and even just talking with you at all. If she's willing to just talk and be in your presence, that can be enough of a green light. Sometimes interest can be subtle. It's your job to recognize it.

If she's feeling really bold, she may even initiate or lead things herself. Or she might just tell you point-blank what she wants. Although I would not rely on that.

Edited Monday at 07:12 PM by aurum