Leo's Blog Discussion Mega-Thread

[Joseph Maynor]

This is not intended to be preachy by any means: But I feel like if you have calm, grounded, and abundant energy it's not hard to attract.  The question becomes more about not wanting to use someone or lead someone on than it is about missing an opportunity.  It's ethics that limits engagement.  You're looking for a win-win for friendship and all relations that require friendship.  

[lostingenosmaze]

https://actualized.org/insights/women-will-never-satisfy-men

Gaymen/porn addicts/gooners, we are so back 🌈😎🍆

Edited 11 hours ago by lostingenosmaze

[Leo Gura]

35 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

it's not hard to attract.

Attract all you want, it won't solve the problem.

[mmKay]

Imo being able to be sexualy satisfied obviously depends on your sex drive and genetics.

There is a huge variety there, just like everything genetics 

[Miguel1]

It’s always nice to get lost in the world and survival for a while and then come back here to read the blog and insights Leo provides and reminds us. Feel like coming back home, and that the unconsciouss of the world is not the only thing there is in this life.

I truly do feel like I was born a thousand years too early.

[Rafael Thundercat]

List os books to amplify or go deeper on the post about Civilization is built on Abuse:

"Capital" (ou "Das Kapital") - Karl Marx
"Bullshit Jobs: A Theory" - David Graeber
"The Utopia of Rules: On Technology, Stupidity, and the Secret Joys of Bureaucracy" - David Graeber
"The Burnout Society" - Byung-Chul Han
"24/7: Late Capitalism and the Ends of Sleep" - Jonathan Crary
"Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prison" - Michel Foucault
"Simulacra and Simulation" - Jean Baudrillard
"The Society of the Spectacle" - Guy Debord
"Manufacturing Consent: The Political Economy of the Mass Media" - Noam Chomsky and Edward Herman
"The Conquest of Bread" - Peter Kropotkin
"Fragments of an Anarchist Anthropology" - David Graeber
 

[Rafael Thundercat]

By the way. i would be interested in any powerful material to study more on the topic of Civilization is built on Abuse. I case nobody notice we are in Civilizational Colapse, we are late on understanding the root causes of our colapse.

[LoneWonderer]

59 minutes ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

List os books to amplify or go deeper on the post about Civilization is built on Abuse:

"Capital" (ou "Das Kapital") - Karl Marx
"Bullshit Jobs: A Theory" - David Graeber
"The Utopia of Rules: On Technology, Stupidity, and the Secret Joys of Bureaucracy" - David Graeber
"The Burnout Society" - Byung-Chul Han
"24/7: Late Capitalism and the Ends of Sleep" - Jonathan Crary
"Discipline and Punish: The Birth of the Prison" - Michel Foucault
"Simulacra and Simulation" - Jean Baudrillard
"The Society of the Spectacle" - Guy Debord
"Manufacturing Consent: The Political Economy of the Mass Media" - Noam Chomsky and Edward Herman
"The Conquest of Bread" - Peter Kropotkin
"Fragments of an Anarchist Anthropology" - David Graeber
 

Thanks bro, where did you get that from?

[LifeEnjoyer]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

I already got Part 4 on my phone

Looking forward to it!

6 hours ago, Uddi said:

@Leo Gura Part 4 of what?

Part 4 of the music playlists.

[Terell Kirby]

Went down the Zebra rabbit hole a bit after the blog post on why Zebra was never domesticated.

Didn't know Zebra life was so brutal:

 

[aurum]

I feel like sexual quantity is easy for me to satisfy.

I can have sex 1-2x per week and be perfectly content. Maybe even less.

The bigger problem I've had has been variety. It's easy in a LTR for sex to start to feel mechanical, or to start fantasizing about other women. 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

2 hours ago, aurum said:

I feel like sexual quantity is easy for me to satisfy.

I can have sex 1-2x per week and be perfectly content. Maybe even less.

The bigger problem I've had has been variety. It's easy in a LTR for sex to start to feel mechanical, or to start fantasizing about other women. 

Many of my male friends/colleagues report novelty is what is not satisfied in LTR. Just an observation, but it appears sexual novelty is a larger component of the male sex drive. This is just from my experience in the social domain (family, friends, colleagues). When I reflect on it, this need for novelty would be an essential ingredient to perpetuate the species. Without men's drive for sex, I suspect we would not have proliferated the planet so extensively  

I think there is also a huge variance in sexual appetite for qty amongst the population - as @mmKay raised. Some men may have a very high ceiling there. One if my mates is completely asexual.

[Miguel1]

I enjoyed great novelty and variety with my previous girlfriend. We tried all sorts of different toys, kinks, roleplays and positions.

And we were always coming up with new to try. It was amazing.

[Someone here]

Look at the pathetic dude called Hugh Hefner( founder of PlayBoy). Watch his interviews on YouTube. He is dead now btw.he died not so long ago. in his 80s and basically only a sneeze away from dying and he is saying pathetic shit like "all I care about is high quality Viagra ". Because guess what .. age is not just a number ..when you are in Your 80s your dick is going to soften like tomato juice and go limp but you will still be obsessed with sex in your head if you were obsessed about it in your youth . So Leo is spot on about ditching women. But he got even worse by saying satisfy yourself .if he means fucking cum to porn he is definitely kidding. 

 

[aurum]

3 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Many of my male friends/colleagues report novelty is what is not satisfied in LTR. Just an observation, but it appears sexual novelty is a larger component of the male sex drive. This is just from my experience in the social domain (family, friends, colleagues). When I reflect on it, this need for novelty would be an essential ingredient to perpetuate the species. Without men's drive for sex, I suspect we would not have proliferated the planet so extensively  

I think there is also a huge variance in sexual appetite for qty amongst the population - as @mmKay raised. Some men may have a very high ceiling there. One if my mates is completely asexual.

Something like that, yes.

But I also think anything is going to start to feel mechanical once you've done it enough.

We just place a much higher standard on sex to be exciting.

Sign my petition to sometimes allow sex to be boring, please