Fighting back

[Lila9]

On 4/14/2024 at 8:03 PM, Princess Arabia said:

I knew I would be the one, reprimanded, like I said. This is why the gender wars will continue. When a woman speaks up, she gets shunned. Nothing this guy says is of value to anyone who hates women. @Emeraldgives results. This guy spreads hate. I will leave this thread but it is not without thinking that men will get away with more disgraceful things than women will. They get empathy for their hate, while women get reprimanded for speaking out. I've seen where OP told  @Sugarcoatcurse words probably worse than what i said to him and nothing was said to him. Hes constantly speaking down to forum members and nothing is publicly said. If he gets warnings, they are useless because he's still doing it. Not just expressing his opinions, but actually cursing.

Unfortunately men here feel too humbled in our presence and more so, when we speak our truth, so they have the need to humble us back by limiting our freedom of speech.

The world will be a beautiful place when men cease to feel so insecure and humbled near us. No spiritual pretty words or God awakenings can hide this pity and embarrassing behavior towards women.

[Thought Art]

@Lila9 She told someone to fuck off and didn’t even get a warning point.

I asked her not to respond because I thought she was gonna contribute to the thread being a worse conflict than it was. Not because of her gender solely. This thread is contextually sensitive.  
 

I had to make a judgment call in the moment, this isn’t an exact science. 
 

Of course, it’s up to her. But, I’d appreciate us working this out and sharing resources and constructive opinions. 
 

I don’t appreciate being demonized like that actually. 
 

Perhaps I could have communicated with her better, and I acknowledge that. I’m always growing as a person. 

—

People have been making some meaningful contributions to this thread and I appreciate that. 
 

Posts about:

1. Self reflection

2. Self honesty 

3. Vulnerability 

4. Questioning thoughts and beliefs

5. Taking ownership of your triggers

6. Self love and self forgiveness..

7. Introspection 

8. Healthy relating

9. Dating advice 

10. Understanding 

People have posted about lots of positive things despite the conflict nature of this thread. 
 

I am bulldozing here for a reason. 

Edited April 15 by Thought Art

[Myioko]

On 4/13/2024 at 9:48 PM, bebotalk said:

They're humans. they aren't special. who says they are or should be seen as such? pretty women are universally toxic.

Humans are as special as you make them out to be. Have you ever had a pet dog, cat, anyone you viewed as special in your life? Cats are experienced as magical and divinely amazing by some, and like annoying repetitive poop monsters by others.

What makes pretty men universally toxic?

 Saying pretty woman are universally toxic is a toxic statement/belief in itself but you seem 100 percent certain in your view, so there doesn’t seem to be anything to say

[Myioko]

My older sister is pretty and growing up with her I can say with confidence that she was not toxic, at least not by human standards, only an uplifting force towards everyone.

So 1 not toxic woman, against the statement all pretty women are toxic, simply does not compute. Unless you view yourself as the absolute center of the universe

Edited April 15 by Myioko

[Thought Art]

What if something was so painful it looked evil and toxic?

What would a mature view on women be?

What if I was consuming a bunch of toxic media telling me lies and only showing me a small sliver of what was true?

What if what was popularly shared on social media was actually a misrepresentation of women?

What if I was wrong? What is the risk of admitting this to myself and others?
 

How would I feel without these painful thoughts and stories I’ve been repeating?

Is it true to make broad sweeping statements about a group or entire gender in this context?

Deep under my pain and hate what do I desperately want but fear I can’t have it don’t deserve?

Is it absolutely true I can’t get what I want? Is it absolutely true there isn’t goodness around me?

If I really feel into this, am I holding double standards? Am I hiding from a  truth I know is there deep down? 

Am I willing to admit I don’t know?

Is it really true that I’m imperfect or broken in some way?

Edited April 16 by Thought Art

[Lila9]

9 hours ago, Thought Art said:

@Lila9 She told someone to fuck off and didn’t even get a warning point.

I asked her not to respond because I thought she was gonna contribute to the thread being a worse conflict than it was. Not because of her gender solely. This thread is contextually sensitive.  
 

I had to make a judgment call in the moment, this isn’t an exact science. 
 

Of course, it’s up to her. But, I’d appreciate us working this out and sharing resources and constructive opinions. 
 

I don’t appreciate being demonized like that actually. 
 

Perhaps I could have communicated with her better, and I acknowledge that. I’m always growing as a person. 

—

People have been making some meaningful contributions to this thread and I appreciate that. 
 

Posts about:

1. Self reflection

2. Self honesty 

3. Vulnerability 

4. Questioning thoughts and beliefs

5. Taking ownership of your triggers

6. Self love and self forgiveness..

7. Introspection 

8. Healthy relating

9. Dating advice 

10. Understanding 

People have posted about lots of positive things despite the conflict nature of this thread. 
 

I am bulldozing here for a reason. 

I understand that your intention wasn't to stop her from commenting solely based on her gender.

I didn't look exactly at what was happening between you, so my post is not directed towards you specifically.

I saw her post and could relate to the feelings she expressed because I feel the same.

Many men here might not be very conscious of their gender bias when they interact with women here, but we as women are very conscious of it, and it's painful.

We are not many women here, and it's nice to see another woman expressing a feeling that I share.

 

[jimwell]

On 4/13/2024 at 1:22 AM, bebotalk said:

Over the past few weeks, I've had the following discourse with pretty women:

 

- Shouted at a group of pretty women, as they purposely cut in line in front of me at McDonald's. they looked shocked, but I didn't care. it's the norm not to cut lines. Being born with a pretty face or nice body doesn't give one a right to circumvent social norms. If that bothers people, then not everybody comes from your shoddy environment or possesses similarly shoddy comprehension. 

- Told one in their face on a train not to touch me, as she and her friend were literally leaning into me on a train station platform. Mind your own space, one doesn't need to touch another. 

- Scolded another hottie, when she asked me for directions to the nearest supermarket whilst I was sitting in a city centre park, eating sandwiches. As she asked me when literally had a mouthful of food, and thus couldn't speak, but she got "irate" at me not responding immediately. Yes, the world revolves around you. You're so cognitively shot that you don't get that basic truth that it DOES NOT revolve around you, since you were raised in a shoddy and pushy environment, like most pretty women seemingly. 

 

Since women are hot are enemies, and act as such, I treat them as such.

You and I know that the core reason you hate and harm beautiful girls is because you love and admire them, but they don't love you back.

You reminded me of Elliot Rodger. I read his manifesto a few years ago. He hated girls because of the same reason I stated above. Initially, he did the things you did. I even remember him pouring hot coffee to a beautiful girl who he couldn't get.  You and he are dangerous, but also pathetic.

I'm issuing a strong warning: If you continue down that pathetic and twisted path, you'll end up the way Elliot did. After all the harm he inflicted on beautiful girls, he eventually murdered them before murdering himself.

Here's a recent case of mass murder committed by a twisted Australian a few days ago, who might have been walking a similar path to you and Elliot. The 40-year-old Joel Cauchi also struggled with sexually attracting girls because of his poor social skills and schizophrenia.

 

 

I know you're too selfish to try to put yourself in the shoes of beautiful girls. But I think it's better if I talk about their perspectives. Yes, many of them may come across as rude, arrogant, or entitled because they possess the power of physical beauty. And you can't really blame them. If you were a man with a beautiful face and body, emitting masculine energy, and highly sexually attractive to girls, you couldn't help but be very self-confident or even arrogant.

Beautiful girls capture the hearts of dozens of boys in person, and hundreds, even thousands more on the internet, every day. That's how powerful they are. It's the reason they can earn a living without exerting as much effort as everybody else does. That's the power of their physical beauty. Their entitlement and arrogance are understandable. The beautiful girls who are confident but not arrogant are the mentally mature ones.

Another strong reason beautiful girls can appear rude and arrogant is because they feel they need to. Throughout their teenage and adult lives, tens of thousands of boys have hit on them. At work, male colleagues hit on them almost daily. Every time they walk down the street, a dozen male pedestrians hit on them. Inside the mall, another dozen horny boys, including pickup artists, hit on them. This constant, repetitive sexual aggression from boys makes beautiful girls feel repulsed and exhausted. It's important to note that almost all of these advances are UNWANTED from the perspective of the beautiful girls, constituting forms of sexual harassment.

How would you feel if an ugly and dirty male Indian homosexual with bad English approached you and initiated unwanted sexual contact? You would feel repulsed, correct? Now, imagine experiencing that scenario multiple times every day. It would undoubtedly make you feel extremely repulsed and annoyed; you might want to murder that homosexual.

That's how beautiful girls frequently feel. They endure various forms of sexual harassment almost daily, leading some to develop defense mechanisms such as aggression, rudeness, or arrogance to deflect unwanted advances. Beautiful girls aren't as physically strong as males, so their defense mechanisms are often subtle, indirect, or aggressive but non-physical. These mechanisms are sensible and valid. Beautiful girls have the right to say NO to horny boys the same way you have the right to say NO to that ugly Indian homosexual. (I'm not being racist to Indians. I remember this user complaining about Indian callers with bad English, hence an Indian homosexual is a suitable example.)

How do I know these things? I also frequently experience what beautiful girls experience. I'm not bragging but I must acknowledge that I tend to sexually attract beautiful girls (and ugly ones), and male homosexuals and bisexuals. Possessing beauty is a gift from God but it is also a curse. I frequently endure unwanted sexual advances, and most of them leave me feeling repulsed and annoyed - it amounts to sexual harassment. There's only a small percentage of girls who I want to fuck or impregnate.

I'm lucky because I can defend myself from sexual predators. Male homosexuals and bisexuals are much more sexually aggressive than girls but they fear and respect me, hence their sexual aggression towards me is implicit and subtle. Just a few hours ago, I deflected an implicit sexual aggression from a male homosexual neighbor via screaming at him and calling him a fagg0t until he walked away. I made my defense mechanism explicit because the implicit sexual aggression had happened too many times and my implicit defense mechanism was not enough to stop it. Humans are too greedy and immature to stop their shit.  

I feel very sorry for beautiful girls because they tend to be easy targets for sexual predators. And beautiful girls tend to endure explicit sexual aggression from horny boys, resulting in significant mental-emotional pain. And in some cases, beautiful girls are even murdered by these sexual predators as documented by the video below.

If you have some remaining goodness and sanity in you. Try to understand what I said. You can't blame beautiful girls and you can't hate them that much. You are free to dislike them but STOP harming them.

[Thought Art]

https://www.facebook.com/reel/722268673072432?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v

[Thought Art]

@Myioko I forgive him and know he is a good person. He can take accountability and improve. He can have a beautiful girl in his life in a meaningful way. Give it time.

[bebotalk]

On 16/04/2024 at 7:07 PM, jimwell said:

You and I know that the core reason you hate and harm beautiful girls is because you love and admire them, but they don't love you back.

You reminded me of Elliot Rodger. I read his manifesto a few years ago. He hated girls because of the same reason I stated above. Initially, he did the things you did. I even remember him pouring hot coffee to a beautiful girl who he couldn't get.  You and he are dangerous, but also pathetic.

I'm issuing a strong warning: If you continue down that pathetic and twisted path, you'll end up the way Elliot did. After all the harm he inflicted on beautiful girls, he eventually murdered them before murdering himself.

Here's a recent case of mass murder committed by a twisted Australian a few days ago, who might have been walking a similar path to you and Elliot. The 40-year-old Joel Cauchi also struggled with sexually attracting girls because of his poor social skills and schizophrenia.

 

 

I know you're too selfish to try to put yourself in the shoes of beautiful girls. But I think it's better if I talk about their perspectives. Yes, many of them may come across as rude, arrogant, or entitled because they possess the power of physical beauty. And you can't really blame them. If you were a man with a beautiful face and body, emitting masculine energy, and highly sexually attractive to girls, you couldn't help but be very self-confident or even arrogant.

Beautiful girls capture the hearts of dozens of boys in person, and hundreds, even thousands more on the internet, every day. That's how powerful they are. It's the reason they can earn a living without exerting as much effort as everybody else does. That's the power of their physical beauty. Their entitlement and arrogance are understandable. The beautiful girls who are confident but not arrogant are the mentally mature ones.

Another strong reason beautiful girls can appear rude and arrogant is because they feel they need to. Throughout their teenage and adult lives, tens of thousands of boys have hit on them. At work, male colleagues hit on them almost daily. Every time they walk down the street, a dozen male pedestrians hit on them. Inside the mall, another dozen horny boys, including pickup artists, hit on them. This constant, repetitive sexual aggression from boys makes beautiful girls feel repulsed and exhausted. It's important to note that almost all of these advances are UNWANTED from the perspective of the beautiful girls, constituting forms of sexual harassment.

How would you feel if an ugly and dirty male Indian homosexual with bad English approached you and initiated unwanted sexual contact? You would feel repulsed, correct? Now, imagine experiencing that scenario multiple times every day. It would undoubtedly make you feel extremely repulsed and annoyed; you might want to murder that homosexual.

That's how beautiful girls frequently feel. They endure various forms of sexual harassment almost daily, leading some to develop defense mechanisms such as aggression, rudeness, or arrogance to deflect unwanted advances. Beautiful girls aren't as physically strong as males, so their defense mechanisms are often subtle, indirect, or aggressive but non-physical. These mechanisms are sensible and valid. Beautiful girls have the right to say NO to horny boys the same way you have the right to say NO to that ugly Indian homosexual. (I'm not being racist to Indians. I remember this user complaining about Indian callers with bad English, hence an Indian homosexual is a suitable example.)

How do I know these things? I also frequently experience what beautiful girls experience. I'm not bragging but I must acknowledge that I tend to sexually attract beautiful girls (and ugly ones), and male homosexuals and bisexuals. Possessing beauty is a gift from God but it is also a curse. I frequently endure unwanted sexual advances, and most of them leave me feeling repulsed and annoyed - it amounts to sexual harassment. There's only a small percentage of girls who I want to fuck or impregnate.

I'm lucky because I can defend myself from sexual predators. Male homosexuals and bisexuals are much more sexually aggressive than girls but they fear and respect me, hence their sexual aggression towards me is implicit and subtle. Just a few hours ago, I deflected an implicit sexual aggression from a male homosexual neighbor via screaming at him and calling him a fagg0t until he walked away. I made my defense mechanism explicit because the implicit sexual aggression had happened too many times and my implicit defense mechanism was not enough to stop it. Humans are too greedy and immature to stop their shit.  

I feel very sorry for beautiful girls because they tend to be easy targets for sexual predators. And beautiful girls tend to endure explicit sexual aggression from horny boys, resulting in significant mental-emotional pain. And in some cases, beautiful girls are even murdered by these sexual predators as documented by the video below.

If you have some remaining goodness and sanity in you. Try to understand what I said. You can't blame beautiful girls and you can't hate them that much. You are free to dislike them but STOP harming them.

hehehehe lol

 

What makes you think you can "read me" like this? Odd that "wise people" have this level of social discourse. What else do you "think" you know? loooool.

Your attempt to "scope" me will just lead me to being more abrasive than I normally would have been.

I don't date. your inane and comically baseless assumption has no real merit.

Moreover, what's Indian people's relevance here? I'm not Indian, nor do I think about them often. 

Your entire points are based on a misconception in your mind - Mr. "wise and expert communicator".

As for Eliot Rodgers, I'm not dumb enough to assume any pretty woman owes me dating and sex. 

I'd further argue that people of integrity and decency can acknowledge "privilege" and overcome such. We're not slaves to our circumstances, and whilst circumstances control our lives we can overcome them. 

I've said numerous times that it's not about dating. It's about their overall toxic attitude. Nobody has to contend with them. It's not my fault they lack basic awareness, and that people can and will respond to their behaviour.

 

Edited April 21 by bebotalk

[bebotalk]

What's amusing here is the double standard.

Apparently, it's fine for people to be racist. there is a right to be racist, as many would say.

but this isn't extended to all prejudices. lol.

Why not?

Surely it doesn't take much mental energy to be consistent with one's values.

 

I believe it's just how people were raised in their temples. their gurus/pastors taught them bravado and false confidence, so evidently they believe their attitudes are better off. No one person's perspectives are ever a "social benchmark". 

 

 

[bebotalk]

On 15/04/2024 at 10:38 PM, Myioko said:

My older sister is pretty and growing up with her I can say with confidence that she was not toxic, at least not by human standards, only an uplifting force towards everyone.

So 1 not toxic woman, against the statement all pretty women are toxic, simply does not compute. Unless you view yourself as the absolute center of the universe

With respect, you're not going to be very objective regarding a close family member. It's like those mothers on TV who say their criminally-minded children are such "good kids". They actually believe it. Humans can be blinded and we're not computers. none of us. it's not how humans think or reason or process the world around us.

So pretty women are not superior. they are not people who should be looked up towards. 

You'd probably use some spiritualist logic to disprove my point, when it's totally valid. People are biased. I am. Every human is! it's funny how spiritualist ignore facts to suit their own agendas, and claim to be "expert" at sociality.

"the Sun is a ball of plasma"

"cool, bruh, thanks for the fact!"

"And humans don't think nor reason like computers"

"NOOO! FALSE!!!"

 

Edited April 25 by bebotalk

[Consept]

6 hours ago, bebotalk said:

Apparently, it's fine for people to be racist. there is a right to be racist, as many would say.

Dont think anyone said that, my position is definitely its not fine for people to be racist. 

[bebotalk]

On 16/04/2024 at 7:07 PM, jimwell said:

You and I know that the core reason you hate and harm beautiful girls is because you love and admire them, but they don't love you back.

You reminded me of Elliot Rodger. I read his manifesto a few years ago. He hated girls because of the same reason I stated above. Initially, he did the things you did. I even remember him pouring hot coffee to a beautiful girl who he couldn't get.  You and he are dangerous, but also pathetic.

I'm issuing a strong warning: If you continue down that pathetic and twisted path, you'll end up the way Elliot did. After all the harm he inflicted on beautiful girls, he eventually murdered them before murdering himself.

Here's a recent case of mass murder committed by a twisted Australian a few days ago, who might have been walking a similar path to you and Elliot. The 40-year-old Joel Cauchi also struggled with sexually attracting girls because of his poor social skills and schizophrenia.

 

 

I know you're too selfish to try to put yourself in the shoes of beautiful girls. But I think it's better if I talk about their perspectives. Yes, many of them may come across as rude, arrogant, or entitled because they possess the power of physical beauty. And you can't really blame them. If you were a man with a beautiful face and body, emitting masculine energy, and highly sexually attractive to girls, you couldn't help but be very self-confident or even arrogant.

Beautiful girls capture the hearts of dozens of boys in person, and hundreds, even thousands more on the internet, every day. That's how powerful they are. It's the reason they can earn a living without exerting as much effort as everybody else does. That's the power of their physical beauty. Their entitlement and arrogance are understandable. The beautiful girls who are confident but not arrogant are the mentally mature ones.

Another strong reason beautiful girls can appear rude and arrogant is because they feel they need to. Throughout their teenage and adult lives, tens of thousands of boys have hit on them. At work, male colleagues hit on them almost daily. Every time they walk down the street, a dozen male pedestrians hit on them. Inside the mall, another dozen horny boys, including pickup artists, hit on them. This constant, repetitive sexual aggression from boys makes beautiful girls feel repulsed and exhausted. It's important to note that almost all of these advances are UNWANTED from the perspective of the beautiful girls, constituting forms of sexual harassment.

How would you feel if an ugly and dirty male Indian homosexual with bad English approached you and initiated unwanted sexual contact? You would feel repulsed, correct? Now, imagine experiencing that scenario multiple times every day. It would undoubtedly make you feel extremely repulsed and annoyed; you might want to murder that homosexual.

That's how beautiful girls frequently feel. They endure various forms of sexual harassment almost daily, leading some to develop defense mechanisms such as aggression, rudeness, or arrogance to deflect unwanted advances. Beautiful girls aren't as physically strong as males, so their defense mechanisms are often subtle, indirect, or aggressive but non-physical. These mechanisms are sensible and valid. Beautiful girls have the right to say NO to horny boys the same way you have the right to say NO to that ugly Indian homosexual. (I'm not being racist to Indians. I remember this user complaining about Indian callers with bad English, hence an Indian homosexual is a suitable example.)

How do I know these things? I also frequently experience what beautiful girls experience. I'm not bragging but I must acknowledge that I tend to sexually attract beautiful girls (and ugly ones), and male homosexuals and bisexuals. Possessing beauty is a gift from God but it is also a curse. I frequently endure unwanted sexual advances, and most of them leave me feeling repulsed and annoyed - it amounts to sexual harassment. There's only a small percentage of girls who I want to fuck or impregnate.

I'm lucky because I can defend myself from sexual predators. Male homosexuals and bisexuals are much more sexually aggressive than girls but they fear and respect me, hence their sexual aggression towards me is implicit and subtle. Just a few hours ago, I deflected an implicit sexual aggression from a male homosexual neighbor via screaming at him and calling him a fagg0t until he walked away. I made my defense mechanism explicit because the implicit sexual aggression had happened too many times and my implicit defense mechanism was not enough to stop it. Humans are too greedy and immature to stop their shit.  

I feel very sorry for beautiful girls because they tend to be easy targets for sexual predators. And beautiful girls tend to endure explicit sexual aggression from horny boys, resulting in significant mental-emotional pain. And in some cases, beautiful girls are even murdered by these sexual predators as documented by the video below.

If you have some remaining goodness and sanity in you. Try to understand what I said. You can't blame beautiful girls and you can't hate them that much. You are free to dislike them but STOP harming them.

Did you learn this line of engagement in your temple?

Does basic adult nay human engagement offend you?

Where did you gather that I was referring to dating? 

Oh, but your temple told you this, since we all have to look up to you "as better". when spiritual teachings mention the opposite looool. 

[bebotalk]

On 25/04/2024 at 6:36 PM, Consept said:

Dont think anyone said that, my position is definitely its not fine for people to be racist. 

That's a common position in the USA at least, and wider Western world.

You just seem disingenuous or pretty un-adult. 

[bebotalk]

So yeah I still stand that most nay all pretty women are scum.

So what?

People have prejudices. people can lie or delude themselves into believing humans are perfect. we're not. Funny people say this, but most here come from countries in which racism, sexism, homophobia, etc. are rife. They can say "Oh i I AM DIFFERENT!" Yes, that doesn't invalidate a trend. There are always exceptions to norms. 

I don't really see the issue. Pretty women act like scum, so people respond to them accordingly. Or I do at least. seems to be an assumption that people must respond a prior to negative conduct. no. nobody does or should. I thought it was common not to view people as better? I don't get it really. this naturally applies to pretty women. 

Moreover, it's comical that people say that people are free to have prejudices, but somehow neglect me from that "normal". They claim to be reasoned adults but have childlike thoughts on "gatekeeping". Today is Saturday, so they should spend time chilling off work or being with family, over worrying what one human out of eight billion is valuing, thinking, or feeling. Not my fault they're most likely spoilt pretty women who never learnt how to navigate life or process their interactions and thoughts accordingly. If pretty women seek to exclude, then they should get what's coming to them.

Oh, and yes I did openly diss sugarcoat. what's the issue? doesn't he believe he's uber-confident? so it shouldn't bother him. I did so because he, due to some hyper-subjective crap he learnt as a youth or teen possibly, dislikes it when I'm not super serious. i cannot be and frankly won't be super-serious all of the time. I'm a human - humans have a variety of emotions and feelings and whims. it's inane to dispute such an elementary fact. I just get how Sugarcoat thinks, and he's too arrogant to back down since apparelty he's always right, hence why he lets little Indian people here say the same. all just some internal-driven metrics. just like pretty women. So as he's proven he's not a decent person, he warrants speaking down to. Comprende? 

 

 

Edited May 18 by bebotalk

[bebotalk]

 

On 17/04/2024 at 1:17 AM, Thought Art said:

@Myioko I forgive him and know he is a good person. He can take accountability and improve. He can have a beautiful girl in his life in a meaningful way. Give it time.

Good people apply rules consistently, and not make allowances for others' faces when making judgments. and know according conduct in given circumstances and don't plot against people for their kicks since allowing them normalcy is offensive to them. and don't say normal conduct doesn't exist. go to your local supermarket and refuse to pay for your goods, and then see if they don't call the police and demand you're arrested. normal conduct...lol.

 

[bebotalk]

On 15/04/2024 at 10:18 PM, Myioko said:

Humans are as special as you make them out to be. Have you ever had a pet dog, cat, anyone you viewed as special in your life? Cats are experienced as magical and divinely amazing by some, and like annoying repetitive poop monsters by others.

What makes pretty men universally toxic?

 Saying pretty woman are universally toxic is a toxic statement/belief in itself but you seem 100 percent certain in your view, so there doesn’t seem to be anything to say

NObody is special.

pretty women are people.

therefore, they are not special.

your spiritualism isn't life. 

i dont' see why simple changes of mind or perspective bother you. it shows your social capabilities. I also don't take kindly to shifty people. i try to be straight with people, and not misrepresent my values or who i am. 

[bebotalk]

On 15/04/2024 at 2:10 PM, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

Dude, if a women were to lean into me on the train🤤....

Yes, they are more entitled. Take it as a shit test rather than them insulting you. Just step in front of them haha no need to make scenes. 

Not everyone is aware. She just saw you on the bench and was focused on her question. She wasn't focusing on "omg is he eating 😭 how much food and what is the weight of it while it's inside his mouth before I ask my question". Don't fool me and think you've never asked someone a question even when they had food in their mouth.

-->Solution: Speak gibberish with food in mouth and have some fun with them. Take a while to swallow the food, drink some water, say "excuse me", then say "can you repeat that". 🤣🤣🤣😑

 

No. maybe you're from a ghetto or some highly spiritual place.

it's unacceptable to lean on others. not everybody shares your shoddy or sloppy personality. if not, then justify doing this. There is no justification. if people do that to me, they get shoved, I don't care who they are. strangers don't touch me. i don't know their intent, nor do I know them. you're not as socially geared as you claim. people i don't know hold no right to touch me, and only a fool or. ababy has any issue with that. 

As for asking strangers for information and getting offended when they cannot respond physically, no, I've never done that. even if a person has "done something before" so what? people often lie. That doesn't mean one cannot say it's wrong to lie. the fact that lying isn't desirable is valid. one DOES NOT ask strangers for info in such a manner. or what will they do? beat me? they can try. legally and morally, they're in the wrong anyhow. seemsin your culture, things are very shoddy and flimsy. if you don't know somebody, then your ties and obligations to them are lesser. you like to infuse your spirutalism as reality. you believe you're above law or life. i bet you'd get highly offended, when I've actually made several valid and prime points. Again, you don't seem as socially-geared and make up stuff in your brain and assume it's reality. or you take in these "nice societal points" and don't get their context or application and just lie and mispresent their spirit and intent lol. I bet me merely saying that strangers have less consideration than people others know offends you to your core, since it violates some internal metric or whim. 

[Nemra]

@bebotalk

I think you are talking about entitled women. Entitled people are annoying sometimes.