Yes, it's all love but there's conscious love and unconscious love. Some romantic love is conscious love, a lot of it isn't. 
You can love from a place of ego on varying levels. Stealing something from someone is self love, without any love for the person who you stole from. You can only steal or hurt if you have the belief that there is you and there is another. When the self dissolves, when you truly love your neighbor as yourself because he literally is you, then you can love consciously. 
We ALL slip back into unconscious love from time to time, and when we do that's just a call for even more love, including loving ourselves in our failure.

I see your point , but positive thinking has more to do with not letting negative emotions to take over you, not about not looking at things that might go wrong, about how you perceive something negative that happens in your life and not let despair etc take over you.
You clearly should be taking negative outcomes as option, I hope people understand that! 

- Adyashanti lectures
Great lectures on non-duality, like Alan Watts
 
- Teal Swan
Great for emotional work
 
- JulienHimself
More profound than the RSD dating stuff. Letting go of your beliefs and feelings
 
- Kyle Cease
Up and coming (is doing the work on himself to become more concious), comedy and actualization. 
 
- Higherselfchannel
Meditations to connect with your heart
 
- Matt Kahn
Deep, great lectures
 
- Byron Katie
There is no better way to release core beliefs.
 
- teachers like David Hawkins, Shinzen Young, Peter Ralston, Kristnamurti
Very very deep teachings
There are lots more... remember; 'when the student is ready, the teacher appear'.
 

@WaterfallMachine
I like to think that way: if a person feels uncomfortable around someone with a disability - it's their problem. They are reflecting their insecurity and that they are not capable to handle it. Or they just never learned (e.g., by watching good role models) how to handle it. So, instead of getting angry about it or letting them pull you down or feeling embarrassed, one can always choose to feel a bit sorry for them instead. I give them a smile instead of lecturing them. They simply get my understanding - because everyone is doing the best they can, to their abilities. And I know where they are coming from, I know that all too well actually.

@saint_charming7  I mean it’s an inner game. Playing with my kids is my favorite part of the day. Meditating is my favorite part of the day. Picking out righteous bananas  at Kroger is my favorite part of the day.