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  1. I have the possibility to have sex with my ex. Although she left me, I'm quite sure she would do it. We haven't seen each other for a year because we live far away, but now we are in the same place for a temporary period. p.s. in any case it would be a non-committed experience. We are not willing to get together again. Do it or not?
  2. Yes, I was curious to hear other points of view, I know what to do.
  3. Whenever I see a girl I used to date in the past, I always have this fight going on inside me: Should I go greet her or not? Pros: Yes, because I want to be a loving person. I want to demonstrate that I have no grudge against her. Cons: No, she rejected me. I'm fine without her, and I don't want to look needy.
  4. If hate doesn't exist, then every act is done out of love. What about romantic love?
  5. Each time I ask myself why, I scroll down every possible answer. Each answer is linked with the one above. But once I reach the bottom, the scheme is always the same: ...because it just is. and why is that? I don't know, it just is. It's a loop. I feel like it's a circular closed chain. Every time you ask why, you could explore the adjacent links of the chain. Doing that you could even explore the chain all the way, but you cannot escape that.
  6. I mean the more healthy and sustainable form of fitness. A workout that you can keep all your life without harming joints, tendons, muscle tissue, heart, etc... Extremes like competitive sports, marathons, bodybuilding, in the long run, could hurt. I guess. What is the right balance? What is the workout volume and intensity? How much cardio? How much lifting?
  7. I love you ❤ Keep working. I'm also willing to take massive action.
  8. To simulate sexual intercourse ahaha
  9. Can imagination be as powerful as real experience?
  10. - Quit porn. - Focus on your breath during penetration. - When you feel the urge to ejaculate, stop! Take a few seconds pause and then go on.
  11. @Mikael89 You will never be happy without a girlfriend. That's what you want to hear. Right? You are closed to any other answer.
  12. I don't know, I do both. Not simultaneously, but in two different times. With that logic, basically, there is nothing you can do. Also eating and having a shower are building a false delusional ego.
  13. You let go the ego precisely because you know it's a delusional sense.
  14. Here in Italy, where I live, the milk price is falling down and the shepherds are wasting their milk as a sign of protest (watch the video below). What is your opinion? I feel very hurt and upset by watching these scenes. I know it's a powerful way to make their voices heard, but I think there must be another powerful conscious way to get heard. Any suggestions?
  15. Oh yes, exactly the same translation! (non piangere sul latte versato)
  16. @Rilles @outlandish ahahah Once I try to be a serious guy... Just to downplay the drama, let's assume that "they are feeding the ground"
  17. I guess you can be empathic, friendly, understanding, non-judgmental, etc, but you can't fully control the way they feel. (p.s. make sure that is actually confidence, not arrogance)
  18. They will find out masturbation, in some way. I think is not about teaching or not teaching it, but is about how it is taught.
  19. Hopefully, we've prepared the ground, but the flower must grow up on his own
  20. @theking00 It won't be easy, but I assure you, it is worth it. Taking this hard path is going to be the best thing you have ever done.
  21. Good question! This shows your willingness to change, and this is actually the first step. Then, I suggest you do some daily activities that can put you outside of your comfort zone. Asking for the time to strangers, greeting before leaving the room, smile to people on the sidewalk, having a cold shower...etc Of course, take care of your health: meditate, eat clean, go to the gym, get in shape. Are you short? The height is not a girl problem, the issue you have with your height is her problem! Be confident with your package, even if you cannot improve it! When you know you are doing your best, confidence raises naturally.
  22. @Mikael89 This one ☝ Yes! when I deeply feel the love, I actually enter that state of emptiness, the emptiness of the true self!
  23. AHAHAHA that's funny!
  24. I recently saw the video How to do self-inquiry. The way @Leo Gura put some questions has helped me a lot. WHO IS HAVING YOUR BRAIN? WHO IS HAVING YOUR EMOTIONS? WHO IS HAVING YOUR THOUGHTS? WHO IS THE PERCEIVER? I grasped the true self. It's like an emptiness but also a formless wholeness. Then Leo said we can reunite the true self with the "physical world". How? Through which question? It's important to me trying to reunite those things in order to follow my objects (like desires, life purpose, health)