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  1. You workout the body by stressing the muscle and giving them the proper rest and nutrition. Does the mind work as well? What is the proper stress for the mind? (studying, creating mental connections, doing some calculations or sudoku...) What about meditation? Is it a stressing activity or a relieving one?
  2. I have some difficulties with peeing in public urinals. I know it's kind of stupid, but it affects my day. I see many colleagues have no issue with that, while, instead, I feel like a block. Impotent. Any suggestions? (Since I don't know whether you have this kind of bathroom in your country, I'll post an image below ahaha)
  3. No, I don't. But only if I'm quite sure that no one is going to enter.
  4. I mean, maybe your dreams now are extremely different from the ones you had years ago. Or do you dream always the same things?
  5. From random chats with random people I often see this path.
  6. It ends up always this way ahaha This statement is usually the prelude to bad things... It hurts but, with time and experience, you'll get used to it. When this moment comes, I keep staying quiet and peaceful (like Deida suggests in The way of the superior man) Now my questions: What is the best way to face "I need to talk"? Is this statement reversible?
  7. I have never had an account on Instagram. Recently I make a lot new friends. Some of them ask me for Instagram. I don't know whether open an account or not. I like the idea of posting some pictures of mine. I would like being the subject, being the center of attention. I would like to see others' images and to click the like button if I want to. I could keep certain friendships more easily, for example with the friends I made abroad , eccetera... But, then, I think it could be so egoistic. Maybe it would be a waste of time and mental energy. I have the number of the people I really care about and I think I don't need Instagram. Yes, it could help to extend friendship, but what kind of friendship would it be?
  8. Ehy such a good question! ahaha Actually it was hyperbole. I'm only 21 and I'm not so used to hear that sentence. Anyway, this is the sentence that my ex told me before breaking-up; then this is the sentence that another girl I was dating (had sex and so on) told me before "I prefer to continue our relationship as friends"; and now this is the sentence that the girl I'm currently dating told me...
  9. I have the possibility to have sex with my ex. Although she left me, I'm quite sure she would do it. We haven't seen each other for a year because we live far away, but now we are in the same place for a temporary period. p.s. in any case it would be a non-committed experience. We are not willing to get together again. Do it or not?
  10. Yes, I was curious to hear other points of view, I know what to do.
  11. Whenever I see a girl I used to date in the past, I always have this fight going on inside me: Should I go greet her or not? Pros: Yes, because I want to be a loving person. I want to demonstrate that I have no grudge against her. Cons: No, she rejected me. I'm fine without her, and I don't want to look needy.
  12. If hate doesn't exist, then every act is done out of love. What about romantic love?
  13. Each time I ask myself why, I scroll down every possible answer. Each answer is linked with the one above. But once I reach the bottom, the scheme is always the same: ...because it just is. and why is that? I don't know, it just is. It's a loop. I feel like it's a circular closed chain. Every time you ask why, you could explore the adjacent links of the chain. Doing that you could even explore the chain all the way, but you cannot escape that.
  14. I mean the more healthy and sustainable form of fitness. A workout that you can keep all your life without harming joints, tendons, muscle tissue, heart, etc... Extremes like competitive sports, marathons, bodybuilding, in the long run, could hurt. I guess. What is the right balance? What is the workout volume and intensity? How much cardio? How much lifting?
  15. I love you ❤ Keep working. I'm also willing to take massive action.
  16. To simulate sexual intercourse ahaha
  17. Can imagination be as powerful as real experience?
  18. - Quit porn. - Focus on your breath during penetration. - When you feel the urge to ejaculate, stop! Take a few seconds pause and then go on.
  19. @Mikael89 You will never be happy without a girlfriend. That's what you want to hear. Right? You are closed to any other answer.
  20. Here in Italy, where I live, the milk price is falling down and the shepherds are wasting their milk as a sign of protest (watch the video below). What is your opinion? I feel very hurt and upset by watching these scenes. I know it's a powerful way to make their voices heard, but I think there must be another powerful conscious way to get heard. Any suggestions?
  21. Oh yes, exactly the same translation! (non piangere sul latte versato)
  22. @Rilles @outlandish ahahah Once I try to be a serious guy... Just to downplay the drama, let's assume that "they are feeding the ground"
  23. I guess you can be empathic, friendly, understanding, non-judgmental, etc, but you can't fully control the way they feel. (p.s. make sure that is actually confidence, not arrogance)