NoSelfSelf

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    @Buck Edwards I mean this could be taken in million directions, you could be having adhd, i had it fixed it with meditation and enlightment work,there are places now where they give you  games to play and you look at screen with central dots that helps with focus,it could be your diet,you need to find out what makes you stressed, it could be part of you that keeps you in confort zone,if you exercise your nervous system,too much screen time, i dont know your life so its hard to tell...

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    I bough zeolite,researched it before Leo mentioned it bought it tried for a month,now im having a break since you must take it and will get back at it,so i cant tell yet how much i got resaults for detoxing mind...that is only option i know...

    Edit:be more specific on what you mean by detoxing mind since i dont know what type of detox you refering to...

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    @meta_male So since you liked goverment ill use it again so when you are wounded your goverment is fear, being ashamed,you 100% ruled by excuses then your whole system is ruled by those things and nothing else can work even if you try to get better.

    Crazy part that i found out is that mind is in the power position ,like lets say if somebody that has money and you need money, you need to see what you have to do for them so they give you money.

    Same with the parts you need to look at each part and give it something so it can work.

    So last part you get rejected crazy thing since you didnt help your parts they will say fuck you,you didnt come when we needed you so they wont help you,but when you did help them then all parts come together to help you with rejection its crazy how mind works...

    So that wounded part needs attention and you giving  the attention, things it needs for it to work again...

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    @meta_male Yes that's exactly how it goes, the connected interaction between all of them is really deep so they all work together withouth conflict is my aim.

    The wounded part should be that part that is sabotaging collective, like "im not motivated" this could be wounded part but key is not to take care the wounded part by itself, you need to see all the parts that caused the wound in the first place, so you can take care of it, its like a blockage of action and  for system to work fluidly,you can only know by the direction you are going to know if its a wound, if i understand your wound meaning.

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    @meta_male Right now im working on the conflicting parts of myself ,so it was funny to read it here and if curious the reason why is there always a conflict, its because in your game there lacks order, every part its doing its own thing ,because everything must be connected to a larger system for it all to be connected ,every part must have its own job that fits into other parts, for example your goverment inside your mind has a vision to have this great relationship(for example) then your marketing team needs to know how to market yourself to that women,then with your studio you will know how to display your personality with how you talk ,your senat will explain her the rules of the vision of that relationahip,it cant be like one part doing one thing, then other parts doing different things, then its a conflict of interest...

  17. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    Thank you!,all the threads i opened,the things i saw in them,the horrors of the namecallings,decieving trolls,neverending debates that only lock button can save but at what exact moment? Split decision betweem giving 2 warning points or 20 ,all of that so i can have comfort that ill be having extra cookies waiting when i meet myself  thank you truly ❤😂

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    @Schizophonia I know best how is to have trauma,so it never went through my mind to not seek help from someone that is better than me,so i would ask a friend to teach me how to hunt basically, i dont get it personally how would me not asking for help benefit me, but to look how is someone better than me ..

    Friendship is something bigger for me than hanging out with someon, there cant be a woman there who i saw for 20min override friendship.

    I guess thinking for a little bit the thread starter thinks he is not good enough so he thinks that he needs to do certen things to get a woman so if she doesnt respond(to his perfectly crafted haircut) he will get mad,with that surface level thinking it has to be really surface level friendships...

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    @Chosen144 No good friend would talk like: "they focused more on my friend" "my friend could be better looking" like if i call someone a friend i would be glad they look at him etc. help him, not like i wish it was me not him type of thinking...

    Drop that bs law of attraction you attract what you are with yourself and your subconcious is sabotaging you so wouldnt trust that either...

  22. Posted · Edited by NoSelfSelf

    What is texting? The way you express your thoughts,feelings,views,sides of yourself through words,pictures,voice messages.

    So its not about being a bad texter its about you not being interesting,charistmatic,being able to move things,having creativity etc.

    You just lack all of that overall, what will help you in communication over text with women is learning poetry,same as in face to face no difference, if the way artist express themselves in songs through lyrics draws you to showcase who you are..

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    @Devin Ok,also i remember for some reason similar topic we talked and like you thought giving your girlfriend a footmassage etc is simping ,this is where big disctinction is nice guy vs asshole,asshole will please the woman when she meets his bar vs nice guy doing it to meet the bar.But in pursuing her bar he is not doing nothing to offer anything because his focus is her while asshole is all about himself...

    When she proved herself to be your gf there is nothing you are doing is simping its opposite..but if you reward disrespect then you are a nice guy vs asshole will dismiss  her...