Chosen144

How about “unreel”?

You know I’ve been thinking about this comment of yours for a while now. I’m thinking of adding “4L” to the end of it. There’s a rap artist called Hardrock. If somebody was to search up a relatively up and coming artist called Hardrock who is mainstreamingly popular yet. Actual hard rock metal music would pop up as the search results. But he simply added 4l to differentiate himself. if I can do that, whilst keeping a mysterious persona. It might work.

Bars in my area are just full of old white people, not my thing. And for house parties and clubs, I have to be mutual friends with people to know when the next big house party is. I’m a young black guy in my late teens, so yoga classes, support groups etc are usually full of middle aged/elderly white people and I would look out of place. Let alone feeling awkward there. So I genuinely don’t know what to do, do I get a job or find a college course then socialise through that?

You’re a young adult, that is not in education, work, or doing anything at the moment. How would you build a social circle from scratch? I know it sounds impossible but the universe is infinite and lightning McQueen probably exists somewhere in that grand infinite universe,right? So if anything in this infinite universe can exist and it’s just an infinite of potential realities. Then building a social circle from scratch shouldn’t be impossible. So i would appreciate it if you guys could help generate some ideas for a young man, who wants to build a social circle from the ground up of like minded people.

Off topic, but I find it interesting how you’re black, but your name is “Princess Arabia”. I presumed you were an Arab before I saw your profile picture.

What are your thoughts? Weird, cringe?

I admire you for telling us your raw feeling without shame. Well done. You feel envious of the cool dark triad chads that are assholes and beat their girlfriends but still get laid eh? Insecure of your masculinity. I understand because I literally felt this way too at one point believe me. You’re just putting a chip on your soldier and there’s simply no point holding that negativity inside. . You feel you have every right to be an edgy bad boy and kick back at the world because it did the same to you. These revenge fantasies, it’s only going to dig the hole deeper. Heal yourself and your trauma of being socially unsuccessful and octrasized. Accept the nature of woman. And work on yourself to become more higher value in the dating game. Looksmaxxing, building wealth etc. Look into yourself and what is stopping your from being successful with women both physically, mentally and socially and shift. Alcoholic cool dark triad dude is not the ideal way of life no matter how cool you it looks in your head. You can’t be anyway as that only works for proper attractive men tbh lmao, it’s the Simply improve yourself in all aspects of life, focus on self improvement and trial and error when it comes to doing well both with women and people in general. Attract your soul tribe who are meant for you. Don’t limit yourself. maybe @Leo Gura could give some better advice.

I’m gonna be brutally honest with you, you are not going to fulfill your kinks at first. It’s going to be very plain, straightforward and awkward vanilla sex. No armpit fetish or whatever. As an ex-misogynist because I was socially unsuccessful with them at one point. It’s ok, it’s honestly not worth hating them, just accept them for what they are and that if you were born a female, you would probably be no different. It’s not worth carrying around the burden of hate, to the point where whenever you see an attractive girl you feel a hint of rage. It’s not worth it, let go. Listen to the Subliminals that I told you about and simply trust it. Don’t try and resist, force or beg. Just allow and it will happen. Stop being influenced by social media, movies etc and letting that dictate your lense of females. Go outside and get an authentic experience. Your own personal experience, forget about TikTok, IG etc. Don’t let it skew your perception of them.

I know how it feels, I was member of the blackpill/incel community once and even hung out in a forum for a while. I was never even ugly, I just struggled fitting in and being popular. I would say lose your virginity, so you can stop feeling sorry for yourself, and then once you’ve done so and it’s off your back. Then you can focus on the other aspects of your life (mental, financial, physical, spiritual etc). Listen to Subliminals, binaruals etc (this quite literally helped me lose my virginity). Change how you talk about yourself and your identity and it will slowly form into your 3D reality. I need you to truly believe in the spiritual concepts you’ve taught yourself over the years and utilise them. There are many ways to slowly teach yourself hard concepts aswell if you feel you’re not intelligent enough to start a business. For me, it’s just lack of focus and concentration but there are dozens of videos on how to dopamine detox, meditate etc to strengthen your attention span. never limit yourself… your biggest enemy is always your mind. I know you feel bad for yourself, like everyone in the world has experienced sex and you’re the only one that hasn’t. And you can’t focus on other parts of your life because of that one craving, assume it will happen, let go and trust the universe, those Subliminals etc are you a physicallu unattractive short guy or are did you just have trouble socialising and being seen as weird by peers like me?

Yeah, I eventually came to this conclusion. But I was debating with myself whether it was me being a stranger to them and it was simply too awkward for me to tag along after my friend left as they’re simply not as comfortable or established with me. Or I was simply unattractive to them and if I looked better, they wouldn’t mind me joining regardless if they had just met me. I decided to be more optimistic though.

I seriously appreciate this message, Princess Arabia. You’ve changed my entire outlook on how the situation went down and how law of attraction is supposed to work. I’ll do deeper research into perfecting how implement the law of attraction and seek a better understanding of how it works. ❤️ 1+4+4 = 9 (9- Completion, and success)

Thank you

What exactly do you mean I could have been a better friend? And what is wrong with using subliminals? Don't you believe in the power of the subconscious mind and law of attraction?

Me and my buddy were off to go meet up with these two girls in the city centre, I dressed sharpe, used tons of cologne, wore designer clothes and listened to the “attract women INSTANTLY subliminals” and binaruals. I tried talking to the two girls, chatting with them and what not. But they paid more attention to my friend with his hood up who was not putting any effort, and was barely speaking. But somehow, he knew them previously and was the one that even arranged to meet up with them. He was shorter, less intelligent and but was better looking than me in the face, plus more social. But yet he managed to get laid with one of the girls we were meeting up with. The girls wanted to go bowling, but my friend refused and said he would rather go home, and told me I could go bowling with them and he could leave me behind with them. I told the two girls that it’s ok if he leaves, I’ll go bowling with you guys instead. They said “nah” and walked off. I put so much effort to my appearance and even listened to those subliminals and binaruals for a good hour, for nothing. what could I have done better? Did I come off as a beg, and my friend was the cooler and more mysterious one? Or was he simply better looking and I flipped? Or am I overthinking the whole thing, and making this post wasn’t necessary?

I’ll be honest with you, I went through all of this in my head. But this feeling is less rational and more emotional, it stems from trauma, jealousy and bitterness and I’m trying to find a healthy way to heal it. I know it’s not all black and white, blackpill incel community like to over simplify and go overboard with a lot of their agendas. So I only take it with a grain of salt. But yeah, it’s really a feeling you can’t get rid off. I’ll check out that vaush guy you recommended