RawJudah

Understood. It could be a massive regret not to go travelling. I know people say on their deathbed that they wish they worked less. But also I won’t be doing the ‘touristy’ shit that most people do.

I understand. I still look into going travelling now and again, I have these sudden urges to drop everything and travel. But that in itself seems a problem to me. I’d feel like I was escaping something.

@VictorB02 how old are you? I’ve been thinking about doing the same, but now I’m 30 I also wonder if it’s too late for travelling around. My fear is that although it’ll be fun and exciting, I’d always have to come back home and start again. I might grow as a person but I could just grow internally at home. Inner game won’t be fixed by being in a different country. I could be wrong. I’ve got friends that have gone travelling and they always come back happier people

What works for me is simply leaving my phone in my car after work. Not even having my phone in the house. During the day I use it, but when I get home I’m done. You’ll have a few hours to do other things and you won’t get distracted. When I look at my phone the next morning there’s usually not much I’ve missed.

You must admit, that there is a lot of shit on this forum too. When this forum first started there were some great questions being asked. Now it seems to be dumbed down a bit...

There's so much more to life than relationships. These young dudes are lost in a fog of internet and porn - which makes them think about women constantly. When you mature a bit more you realise how pathetic it all is, and that there's much more to life. In a way being young sucks because you don't know any better, and chances are their father is clueless too.

If the internet didn’t exist, this black pill victim shit wouldn’t exist. Everyone’s getting on with life, and they don’t fall for this crap. Take a week away from the internet and see how you feel. You’ll probably forget most of the ideologies that you’ve accumulated. Go outside and do other things. Take your mind completely off women and the unfairness of life. Genetics is something you ain’t gonna get around. You have to accept it and move forward.

People who are all talk but cannot listen. Fascinating but seriously annoying.

I know this is an old post, but I recommend you never even start drinking caffeine beverages. It feels good at first and it does make you feel alert, but after a while you will experience burnout. Then you will rely on caffeine to get through the day. Then you will realise you need to stop but you struggle because you're addicted. I've struggled with caffeine addiction for years now and I wish I could stop. I've tried going a while drinking only water, then I get a bored, flat feeling and I feel like a cup of coffee would elevate that feeling and it does to a point, but then I'm addicted to caffeine again. I seriously wish caffeine never existed in the first place, but here we are. Some asshole goat herder had to start this shit off. Caffeine and coffee exist because we are working too much and not sleeping enough. If we all worked less and got decent sleep there would be no need for caffeine.

Fearlessness, humour, resilience, courage, and strength. Some men are born with this, other men have to learn it.

That being said, why suffer needlessly? We’ve got it soooo good these days, so much freedom. Why complain about it? We should be celebrating the fact that life isn’t as hard as it was 100 years ago…

There’s literally no resilience these days with kids. They can’t handle criticism, they spend more time online than in real life, they look up to the wrong people, their parents are probably clueless but powerless too. Everyone living their lives digitally cannot be a good thing. As helpful as the internet is, it is not real life. The things that put hairs on your chest are things that happen in real life.

I would probably end up joining

Ask him - “why haven’t you got any humour?”

Ask him - “why are you so miserable?”