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Actually… if you seriously love the person and all they stand for and you want to go down the family fun with the house route then yes, marriage is great. But most people get married to the wrong person, not knowing what they miss. I’ve never been married myself or plan to in the future but I’ve seen what it’s like, and I’ve had men tell me what it’s all about. There’s clear evidence that it can be a trap. This should be common sense to you dudes

If you get married to a gold digger, yes. A massive trap. Why get married these days?

Osho was a beast. A one of a kind. Something special…

I’ve found that talking to people about the popular things in life affects me. My voice and way of speaking literally changes. You have to talk to people on their level. And that’s not to say other people don’t do that to me too. Everyone adapts to the other person they’re talking to. You have to talk about popular stuff that’s happening in the world right now. Where are highly conscious people? They aren’t around normal people that’s for sure haha

I always wonder if I was fine before I found ‘self help’… in a weird way it kind of isolated me.

Absolutely. If you’re not looking at a screen all the time and are instead doing productive things outside - the shit that’s on the internet falls away. You forget about it… I swear, without the internet none of this ideology shit would exist (or be as mind controlling). The problem is that’s it’s everywhere now. You try and get off the internet for a whole week. It’s extremely difficult.

Don’t ever start to listen to him, it’s painful. You can just by his constant anger that he’s got something wrong with him. But like I said, he’s making money out of being like that, so I guess it’s better than working a job. In fact, I don’t think anyone would actually hire him in the first place…

Tommy Robinson has literally made a career out of being angry and aggressive. Do not listen to this guy. It’s crazy that Jordan Peterson can’t see through Tommys bullshit.

Is meth bad? The questions on this forum are getting so ridiculous these days. Come on dude

I’m a happy drunk, but I always end up saying something stupid. Every single time. When I go out sober, nothing stupid gets said and it’s like I’m boring. I seriously wish alcohol was never a thing. It causes so many unnecessary problems and ruins so many lives. I’ve said things that I wish I never said because of me being drunk! But at the same time we do need to let our hair down now and again, and alcohol is the perfect thing for that…

Try going out sober while everyone around you is drunk. It’s painful!

I’d say alcohol is the big killer for me… if I go out drinking on Saturday night - the whole week after I feel completely hopeless. All my mind can think of is negative stuff. Most people are fine with alcohol, but for me it causes so many problems.

How does fun backfire? Is it better to be a somebody than a nobody? What IS the hidden cost of selfishness?

@Leo Gura I understand all of what you’re saying. I’m now 30, live in a small town and like it, and like my job. It seems so psychologically jarring to quit it all, move to a city, find another job, and learn how to approach 4000 women in the street/in a nightclub. I didn’t go to university, I’m not an academic or a doctor. I was good with girls and was really popular in school, and that was years ago now. It would feel like I’m going back 10 years.

@Leo Gura @Leo GuraThought so. You can’t really be getting laid like a rockstar whilst also working a full time job. It’s a kick in the teeth because it sounds so good to be living the player lifestyle but it simply isn’t practical. I could be wrong.