Ananta

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  6. Posted · Edited by Anna1

    1 hour ago, oMarcos said:

    @Anna1 I think most of the people who claim to feel "alone" here are due to lack of intimacy (either virtual or face to face), and there is a difference between being intimate with a guy vs with a girl.  But the good news is, I found that the problem is also in the fear I have with expressing myself to strangers (as Leo said) and I think that's a huge start. Just express yourself and do not fear

    Yes, I see. 

    Hm, do you also have social anxiety? Seems alot of ppl on here do. I couldn't even imagine since I'm a natural extrovert. However, I "chose" to not have many friends, but I can socialize and even talk to strangers often.

  12. Posted · Edited by Anna1

    On 9/25/2019 at 4:06 AM, Mada_ said:

    I get into overwhelmingly dramatic emotional states. 

    I've been totally dishonest with myself that this happens, it happens quite regularly, I just thought that this was apart of spirituality and doing enlightenment work.

     

    Where is a good place to start in healing myself?

    Theres a spectrum for Bipolar, since some have more mild symptoms, while others may be debilitated by the illness.

    Theres also Bipolar 1 and Bipolar 2, the difference is as simple as if you have ever had 1 true manic episode (not hypomanic), then you would have Bipolar 1.

    Simply being emotional does not diagnosis Bipolar, although it can be one of several symptoms. 

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    13 hours ago, milii said:

    @Anna1 i have blocked him many times but he knows well how to make me soft he text me when  he has nothing to do or hr new girl is not avalible and he is feeling horny i know i am just getting used by him whatever his intention is i was and i am loyal with  him he knows how to make me fool by kind words he do this everytime i dont know why i belive in him still

    I know it's hard, but you are torturing yourself. If you've blocked him he shouldn't be able to text you. No contact means ...none.

    Your torn, because you think if you wait long enough he will appreciate you and come running back proclaiming his love for only you and that he made a mistake by leaving you.

    Most likely, this wont happen.

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    On 9/25/2019 at 5:22 AM, milii said:

    all i know i want myself back i want to have a sucessful career i want to let him go i miss my old self the most optimistic and aimbitiuos girl i  used to be i want the same i just want to get away from this curse in the face of love

    You must let him go, completely. Go no-contact with him. Block him on all social media, phone. Etc. 

    In time, you'll get over this, meet new guys, date and be happier. Hes a cheater anyways. You dont need that!

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    9 minutes ago, Michael569 said:

    one does not lose weight to fit in smaller casket

    Haha, well, I'm out of what was my normal weight, so just getting back to that hopefully. Since posting I've lost a few more lbs now. 

    Yes, I've not been eating more than 400 cals during the day, then smaller dinner. Wanted to try the veggie diet but my current lifestyle just doesnt fit it.