egoeimai

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  1. 3 hours ago, Username said:

    Yes.

    It happens mostly in case where a female is extrovert and a male introverted. The biggest mistake girls make is to assume that he is not interested if he doesn't respond positively instantly. You have to give more time and be persistent - in this case gender roles are switched.

    It's a bit frustrating when that happens. People with zero persistence can't handle this very well and they're ghosting the introvert one. So yeah. You have to be super strong emotionally to deal with this.


  2. 40 minutes ago, The Don said:

    @Leo Gura, this has happened to me so many times, I can't even count.

    I'm generally detached from anyone and I avoid people in general, including my colleagues at work.

    It's mindboggling that so many girls are trying to flirt with me as I keep ignoring them and don't give them the attention they seek.

    Mature women are doing that as well. I catch them looking at me and then, those women instantly break eye contact because apparently they didn't wanna get caught.

    Why are you ignoring them?


  3. My 17 year old cousin almost got depressed because of this. She's feeling the anxiety as well. I told her all I knew about exams and how to cope. Also life advice. She couldn't use the advice. If you're in the right place you won't understand too. But because you're here, I would say that you have to control it and not let it destroy you. I get it that I can't be in your shoes right now so I won't feel how you feel to actually help you but seeing it from a different perspective I would say try to protect your mind from destructive thoughts about you and occupy your mind with things that make you feel better right now. It's also very important to do something (a hobby or a routine) that will bring you a small success right now to make u feel better because your ego kinda needs that right now.


  4. 2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

    Then how come so many girls stick around with abusive asshole boyfriends who mistreat them???

    What girls say they want is very different from what they actually stick around for.

    It's because of trauma, some girls want and need abusive men to relive the trauma. Other girls don't want them, recognize them from a mile away and they pick the good guys who treat them nice and those girls have better  self esteem and better childhood in general.


  5. @Vercingetorix I believe girls can fall in love and be attracted to the guys who treat them nicely etc etc but it's not all about that. Not only about character. The first time you see someone, you know, you actually can "decide" in a few seconds. Lol if it's gonna make you feel good, you want it and you gonna know from the first seconds. If you doubt it then it's not for you. It's the truth and it's difficult to accept sometimes but it's true.


  6. 5 hours ago, Roy said:

    Don't do that. By putting all your eggs in that basket you're setting yourself up for even more suffering in the meantime. What if you never find him? What if he doesn't WANT to touch you and won't understand your explanations? What if him touching you just feeds it more and the thoughts persist?

    See what I mean?

    You need to let go.

    I agree. That's what is feeding it

    It's like the mind obsessing over something. @Kiko

     If you let it go, only then you'll have the power over it.now its controlling you and its hard.