Rishabh R
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@Thought Art yeah it's descent.
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Contemplation - How do I overcome challenges in life ?
1-By recognising that external circumstances are not under my control
2-By hoping that I can improve
3-By acting
Opinions are appreciated.
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@Thought Art I was talking about the fact that I heard about the book. I just now researched that about the book again on Wikipedia.
The Practice of Living Consciously
The Practice of Self-Acceptance
The Practice of Self-Responsibility
The Practice of Self-Assertiveness
The Practice of Living Purposefully
The Practice of Personal Integrity
This is what it showed.( I copy and pasted)
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@Thought Art yeah I know about six pillars of self esteem. Thank you.
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@universe overcoming the odds of life.
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I was walking beside the mall was with my friends. I suddenly thought of buying a success course of Tony Robbins , Robin Sharma, Dr. Robert Glover. However I started questioning why ? Then I found that I think that I am not successful. Then I started constant self questioning. When I reached my hostel - I sat down and contemplated for 5 minutes that What would happen if I start thinking that I am already successful in life ?- Answers came - I would be happy, I would be confident, I would respect myself more. Then I contemplated for 30 minutes - Why must I think that I am already successful in life ?
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.Because I am already successful and attractive
.Because thinking otherwise would hurt me
.Because I have overcome tough odds of life
. Because I am already trying
.Because I already achieved my Target in the past (this answer is special as I have scored 80% in past and attracted some girls which is the evidence)
.Because it will enhance my mood
.Because it will detach me from external frivolous things
.Because I already am
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@kenway maybe taking responsibility for my emotions is the way out ?
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Any idea guys. My mind constantly puts the image of negative hypothetical scenarios of future, how I will angrily react in the future etc. Also during these exam days I am feeling very bad.I also have anger inside me like how people didn't allowed me to date by saying to study and I will get arranged marriage(which I don't want),. I become extremely angry when I see a couple and here in college couples are present all around me and during studying also these thoughts race through my mind - everyone has a girl except me. Sometimes I think of suicide but then I think that life is precious- once gone then can never be rejuvenated. I have painful memories from past racing all the time . How could I overcome this because I see that I am doing ok in my career and I am answerable in classes much more than those who are dating(they cheat in exams whereas I live with integrity). How to climb out of this black hole ?
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@Snader a mindset helped me to break out of it was - I cannot control what happens to me in future but I can control what I can do . I was having a bad practical exam and the next day it went well due to shift in the mindset. Even tough I cannot control what questions I will be given but I can control what answers I write in the theory exam .
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Yes congratulations everyone even tough we don't know what's upcoming in the future.
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By the way last year I approached 56 girls and got a one blowout. Also that totals up to near about 76. Which is the amount of girls I approached in my life including random + known girls. @nhoktinvt that's ok. However, I fear approaching random strangers because guys here are too insecure and threatening.And also I said "I love you " to 3 girls in my life. Thank you guys for the appreciation.
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Yes everybody is already resilient( the forum people and real life people including me) . I have been through all the tough times such as death of a loved one , trauma,threat(right now I realised that the person who threatened me is the don of college - so I atleast told him ethically that I was hurt by his threat, which could be a sign of courage),rejection,exam failure,jealousy etc.
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@universe yeah absolutely.
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@CARDOZZO yes I am approaching the girls in my class but not strangers .
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@Thought Art Yes. No. Is it true for doing PhD outside India or abroad from a good university ? Like one has to give IELTS , GRE and have a descent GPA ( in other terms CGPA of 8.0 and above) which I don't have. Tommorow is my lab exam and I am fearful of it.
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@Thought Art yeah integrity matters but I fear for my future due to my GPA and the harder I try to increase my GPA the more I become disappointed and angry because it is decreasing .
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I feeling very bad, suffering , angry etc. What must I do ? My friends advice me to cheat during exams but I don't listen to them and give the exam with integrity. As a result I have lowest GPA in my friend circle. @Leo Gura and others I need help.I study for almost every exam in my college from internals to semester exams.I am also active and I answer in the class. I do meditate (daily from 3 years) and contemplate. Is there a bright future for me ?
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By the way guys I have a question that how do I generate hope in my life if things suck ?
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@UnbornTao from the book Obstacle is the way - main takeaway :
Every negative situation has got something positive in it .
From Mark Manson's 1st book - one must be honest and as I result it will produce success and happiness as side effect.
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Mark Manson's both books and Ryan Holiday's book Obstacle is the way. Will again re read it .
in Personal Development -- [Main]
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Any update on the courses since Leo told that he will be releasing the courses this year and it is already going to be the end of year. I am literally starving for the mind course however I must question that impulse . Like why I am starving for the course ?
Because I think that I am nothing without Leo's course.
Why do I think so ?
Because I think that I am empty handed
Why do I think that I am empty handed ?
Because I think that I have nothing
Why do I think that I have nothing ?
Because I imagine it to be true
Why do I imagine it to be true ?
Because I think that it is truth
Why do I think that it is truth ?
Because I don't know what truth is.
By the way sorry for bugging you all unnecessarily.