Rishabh R

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  1. Your avoidance of truth was a good episode even tough I watched that episode for multiple of times I still like it. The only question is how do I act in alignment with truth in every situation or see the truth before acting on it ?
  2. @Leo Gura ok that's normal but one has got to take action despite that . By the way are you returning to YouTube or is it only this cuz you once told that you're best work is yet to come. Also I discovered is that the best way to succeed is to think and act.
  3. @Leo Gura searched . The challenges of making bold life changes. By the way I was asking you because I was getting confused with the overwhelming amount of the videos of yours.
  4. @Leo Gura yeah I must ask the further questions Why do I don't value truth and keep questioning it deeper. However, I also care about success. So what's you're best video for success for people who are in college ?
  5. @Leo Gura Contemplated : Do I love truth ? Sadly the answers was no. What does that even mean ? I don't know .
  6. @Leo Gura How do I cultivate deep respect and love for truth ? By contemplation. For example when I become jealous of seeing couples in my college campus I must introspect and see that I could also get a girlfriend and it doesn't matter. Also by contemplating the questions given in that episode will it give me directions ?
  7. @Leo Gura so going into every situation I must be introspective and face or do what I don't want to ? Is this the way ?
  8. I had a classmate to whom I flirted . She sometimes treated me badly and sometimes good . At the last day of our contact she said to me that study don't do these things. After that I never saw her again . This incident gave me suffering . Was she my girlfriend? How can I move on from the past ? This incident has also happened to me a couple of times before?
  9. @NoSelfSelf She was laughing and said that it's not that beautiful. Even tough I liked her dress and she seemed beautiful. I also said once to her that you didn't come to the class- she asked me why ? I told that I missed her then she along with group of her friends said ooooo smiling.
  10. @NoSelfSelf Your dress is looking beautiful. Why didn't you cam e to the coaching I was missing you. She was laughing. Another day she was flirting with me.
  11. @meta_male Listening to the songs that I like
  12. @meta_male studying science (Biotechnology). Meditating, contemplating, doing CBT therapy.
  13. @Phil King yeah that's why I am suffering. Everybody of my age has atleast 1 relationship throughout their life and I am single my entire life. It makes me extremely angry the fact that I am an inexperienced guy . I have talked to many girls after that but I am still suffering cause nobody accepted me till now and my friends are going girlfriend after girlfriend.
  14. @Leo Gura What advice would you give to someone who is confused wether to hope for future or live in present ?
  15. @Princess Arabia Yeah the relationship with the identity matters but all identity is fluid and temporary so why not build a good one. And also the goal of therapy is to see the situation objectively.
  16. During therapy I came to a conclusion that suffering due to behaviour of girls (girls who rejected me in past and treated me badly) useless and is also pointless. Why ?(I asked myself) Because it does not matter
  17. Yeah but eventually joyful experience and experience come together hand in hand because life is a combination of positive and negative.
  18. Consciousness. By that definition it doesn't matter wether girl rejects me or not because it will still be temporary. And also suffering is temporary too.
  19. @Princess Arabia I don't think that it's a delusion because I asked myself - Why while writing the post. Yes things in life are temporary such as heartbreak, rejection etc.
  20. @mmKay situations like people hurted me in the past, abused me,girls hurting me etc.
  21. Insight --- The situation for which I was suffering is not happening to me right now. I was applying Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and all of a sudden this insight hit me. And as of the future I looked the evidence that I don't know. @Leo Gura Was your avoidance of truth episode based on a therapy to improve one's life? When a person is suffering then is that person is avoiding truth ? Thank you.
  22. I am facing immense sadness, anger due to the fact that this girl treated me badly and then started dating another guy. I am a 23 year old college student in India. I am suffering due to it. Am I unattractive, she abused me, her friend gave me a threat that you have come to college so study and don't do these things. When I asked her why she hurted me she told that I deserve it all the time. time. She said me to study, abused me called by a cry baby , weak. I have never been in a romantic relationship with a girl in my entire life till now. I don't know but I have a huge amount of hatred piling up against girls and especially girls with a boyfriend. I seriously hate them. I am on antidepressants because girls treated me badly before also. I am having immense anger and hatred towards couples. Nobody loved me and nobody loves me. I feel extremely bad when I sit to study cuz tommorow is my internal tests also. I abuse her in my mind. I abuse the girls who rejected me in my mind.Sorry everyone for the low quality post.😭😭🥺
  23. Guys I have come to the conclusion that that girl is not in my life. And this truth is liberating to me.
  24. @Leo Gura so I must I focus on my efforts which is talking to girls for years which I am doing despite getting rejected. And also is it true for exams also ( tommorow I have an exam) that I must focus on my preparation not the marks cause they are out of my control?