sneha

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    when i think about it. if i do my best in almost anything i start to love it. if i think about how i want to help people through my career i can do that in almost every field currently im studying for entrance to law colleges. im choosing law as a career. but idk maybe im just lazy asf because that drive to get out of my bed every morning and work on my dreams isnt that strong for now.how did you all find your passion?

     

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    I'm reading about mastering the mind.we say we are not our mind or body or thoughts . If we are simply watching them come or go . Why do we practice positive thinking why do we talk about replacing negatives with positives sometimes? What use are affirmations if we are not our thoughts? What's the difference between mental alertness and awareness?

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    Ive had these feelings of not being good enough for a long time. like something is wrong with me.  i dont like myself. i thought external achievements chasing after my ideal self would solve it but it doesnt. because achievements dont define our worth. ive learned that im not going to be happy if i dont accept myself just as i am right now. no improvement would feel good. hating myself while improving isnt working what exactly should i start with? leos self acceptance video ill start with the visualisation every night? do you suggest something else? watching and implementing all other stuff felt like no still theres still something missing . 

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    @Saumaya i thought about this!yes agreed. when i was younger all i wanted was to find love. looking back that had been my main aim. to be near people i loved. i thought that would make me the happiest. but when i got rejected (which was obvious because who would want someone who had no life of her own?) i went mad i desperately began to seek attention and just wanted to fit in i fell into validation addiction. my soul began to rot. i think its not a good idea to have goals that depend on others. plus goals around stuff like money fame validation beauty success arent the right ones to chase too. i watched leos happiness videos. so should i base my purpose on those things which are truly going to fulfill me? i think so because i havent thought about it yet but i think i want to give people a homely feeling to those whove never experienced love or been in an abusive environment. maybe the women here in india who are poor and have abusive husbands provide them a living. ill think about it. life my life to the fullest while being passionate about this particular career which is going to move the world . that could be a purpose? im scared of chasing the wrong thing tbh i thought being accepted by people was everything and for that i chased beauty etc i had begun to rot from the inside 

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    I had social anxiety and I wanted to get rid of it. I went for therapy searched online and what . Only thing that worked was watching Leo's video. And as he said in his stop caring what people think of you video was that literally we are letting them having so much control over our lives why? Isn't this scary . Have integrity don't care about what people think of you and don't fall into this people pleasing business . It worked for  me it took my attention away from they are thinking to what I want to do

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    @Leo Gura as a 18 year old girl,looks are very important.  I remember not caring about it and being bullied neglected because of it .So as you told  in the happiness spectrum video,not to chase after beauty. As in don't make it the sole purpose of our lives.? Is there something wrong with wanting to make ourselves look good to feel good about ourselves?Just for our own self