LordFall

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    Your results will only increase linearly if you track them and you have a process. If you randomly go out for 10 years for sure you'll make progress but on what metrics and how would you even be able to compare? It's really useful to systemize game, break it down into different categories and really take the study of it seriously otherwise you'll be like every other guy. You'll get some results sometimes and sometimes not.

    If you know that now you can reliably get x number of dates with girls that are X level of attractiveness and have relationships with them that last X amount of time then it's much easier to track your progress and how far you still are from where you wanna be. 

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    Do you have some sort of valuable product already? Why would he offer to build you anything if you don't have something yet?

    I would highly advise building something yourself first and being familiar with your niche and market so you know what is a good deal and makes sense vs what is a scam. If you don't know anything and don't have a base for yourself first it's basically guaranteed you're gonna get ripped off. Think of musical artists or onlyfans girls with no leverage for themselves. 

    Hard to say beyond that. 

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    I'm gonna share this book today as I've never seen it mentioned before but it's one of the most powerful books I've read. The likeability factor by Tim Sanders 

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     It's most likely the best book on social skills/charisma I've ever read. Much simpler and straight to the point than How to win friends and influence people. It breaks down charisma into 4 parts: friendliness, empathy, relevance, and authenticity, and then breaks down each part to give examples of it and explains how to develop it. 

    Highly recommend it for anyone looking to make more friends/dates as well as anyone in a corporate setting where charisma and being well-liked are essential to their career. 

    It's quite short at 224 pages so you can read it and start implementing it within a week. 

    Solid 8/10, Must Read 

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    33 minutes ago, JuliusCaesar said:

    Studies show that couples who wait until marriage to lose their virginity tend to remain married longer. Which obviously indicates that such couples are likely to have a better relationship. Which makes them better more loving parents, which of course makes for a stronger society as a whole.

     

    But as Americans, we don't like the government telling us what to do. So, when we hear about something like this it seems backwards and overly draconian.

    That's not at all what that implies, it's a correlation, not causation. Meaning that there could be like @something_else pointed out religious coercion to not get divorced or my favorite explanation being that it leaves you with more options so you're more inclined to get out of a stale/toxic relationship. 

    There is also the point that it's actually irrelevant if it's better or not, you are entitled to autonomy and to make your own decisions. I can't barge into your house and stop you from drinking a beer even if maybe hypothetically it'd be better if you didn't. 

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    @StarStruck I guess we're gonna find out who's valuable and who's not. I think Youtubers will on the contrary gain a lot from this, it's a job that heavily relies on both creativity and the tedious job of having to learn video editing and doing it over and over.

    If they can narrate to the AI the kind of video they want and how they want it edited then it reduces their workload by over 50%. 

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    46 minutes ago, Eyowey said:

    I would never sign a marriage contract but I do want one or multiple wives eventually. Under the radar of society.

    Multiple wives is a great ambition, I'm surprised not many men share it. I am on that quest as well, let's see how it goes. Three bisexual 24/7 bdsm slave wives is my ultimate fantasy, let's see how close I get. 

     

    @Ulax How do you disagree? And as interesting as the concept is, I don't think I could hook up with a man. It's a bit too metaphysical for me right now.

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    1 hour ago, Valach said:

    Could you explain what you mean by this?

    Attracting a partner to you enough that they wanna spend time with you and call you their bf/gf is just the first step. Interlacing your lives together to be productive and healthy while growing up and probably bringing children into this world is a whole other thing. It's basically a business partnership. Similar to the difference between being friends with someone and starting a business together. 

    All the lack of self-development, trauma, limiting beliefs, ideology, etc that you have deep inside you will come out and so will your partners. If you already understand that this will happen and have already spent years fixing this in yourself then not only are you starting from a better point but you know that it will come and will be ready for it.

    Regular people that just get into relationships do not understand this and think they can just figure it out and love each other, that's their paradigm. That's basically suicide and why most relationships end up toxic, not working out, or just stale. Its like thinkingg you can start a business without knowing anything about it nor even knowing that you can even get mentors/books that will teach you and then betting your financial future on it. You're gonna end up homeless.

    1 hour ago, Karmadhi said:

    I dont enjoy it that is the thing. How can I learn to enjoy it??

    I see them as having many options and insane social value without doing anything and getting a bunch of freebies. It seems like their life is way easier.

    That's the naive view of it. When you're on dates with girls/friends with girls/at the club talk to girls about their lives. Talk to them about all their male friends that tried to sleep with them when they were sad/drunk. Talk to them about all the creepy stuff/sexual abuse that they've had to endure. Talk to them about that time they were broke and then their male bff offered to help them out if she would suck his dick. Or when they hit puberty and started showing curves how their step-parent and/or male relatives started treating them differently. Or that time they had a date with this guy that seemed interesting and then ended up drugging her. 

    Of course, these are generalizations and don't necessarily happen to every girl but it does happen to a majority. That is the reality of being a high-value human by default, you become an objectified commodity that other humans fight over. I know of at least 3 girls in modern, first-world, safe cities that almost ended up getting trafficked. 

    There is also the other side of the coin with girls that are not attractive/disabled/live in a 3rd world country and have to deal with all of this on TOP of not getting the positive perks of being a hot girl.

    As a man as long as you're not lazy or delusional you can work and get anything and basically become a living God that gets anything he wants. That is how you appreciate it; you realize that your masculine drive is basically the human version of infinite divine creation. And when you're able to tap into that the women in your lives really start to appreciate it and basically look up to you as a God. 

    I would never trade that for an easy basic relationship or getting free drinks at the bar, are you crazy? 

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    @Danioover9000 Doubt there's a legitimate reason for it, usually, these ideologies are conscious enough to be based on rationality; it's' generally just superstition. 

    I wonder if this could lead Bali to be a bit more sovereign politically as they're generally much more liberal than mainland Indonesia AFAIK. 

    I think perhaps some of it has to do with sexpats/sex tourism, I doubt that the local men are generally fond of this concept. It's interesting how the law is being written though, someone related to you has to report you for it to be considered a crime. So if tourists fuck it's fine and if you fuck a local whose family approves of it it's also fine. It hinders LGBTQ relationships too, as long as their family are disapproving of it.

    It's like community policing which I don't know if it's good or bad.

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    13 hours ago, Karmadhi said:

     

    There is a telegram group from my city, BIG THANK YOU to @Leo Gura for posting it on this forum which allowed me to find wings in a quite active community.

     =It feels somehow like I have failed in other ways of getting girls and have resorted to the most hardcore path ever. Makes me feel a bit bad about myself somewhat, like I am a not a normal person that can get girls normally. I have pretty decent social skills and a healthy circle of friends (both guys and girls, even pretty girls) so I wonder why...

    =Still am feeling a bit jealous of girls or very good looking guys for not having to endure this stuff and just getting attention for existing. Especially girls. Sometime wishing to be born a girl.

    What's the telegram community, can you share it with me in a PM? 

    And to your other two points, those are just ego backlash and delusions. There is no normal, we all struggle. The guys that get laid naturally without having to learn it usually end up in codependent relationships that they have a really hard time getting out of because they don't understand the paradigm of self-development. And even for the ones that don't, I would reframe that as a shame. There is great fun in having to learn this skill and then getting to enjoy sex/relationships as a reward that you know you had to work for and now deserve. 

    Ask any hot girl you talk to if she's had toxic and shitty experiences and they'll most likely have an infinite list. Being a girl is a nightmare in many ways, almost everyone is trying to leach value from you without offering you equivalent value in return. Let's not even mention the more traumatic things that can happen to women that most likely will never happen to you as a man. 

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    6 hours ago, Rob06 said:

    Besides all of this, he is starting to show early symptoms of dementia, making me think that I should just drop my mission to get him out of the rabbit hole, leaving him in his delusions, and just taking care of him the best I can. On the other side, what I want to develop in myself is to communicate powerfully with people who are either at a lower stage of cognitive development or lost in these kinds of conspiracy narratives (which overlap). The "meeting people where they are at" type of deal.

    Love to hear your thoughts on this.

    I think that's the answer a lot of times. Unless people are willing and in a life position where they can afford to invest a lot of time/mental energy into self-development then it's not worth it. 

    Breaking your paradigms is actually an incredibly painful experience and if you don't have the increased life potential as a reward for it; I don't think it's worth it. 

    IMO leave the old guy to his theories; they're probably bringing him a great deal of comfort. The only truth you're gonna enlighten him to is that there never were any conspiracies and if he had known this sooner he could've empowered himself greatly and lived a much better life but now his mind is too broken to do anything about it. 

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    @something_else For real lol. Every man should take a break from dating once in a while to seriously level up their value proposition(finances, fitness, mental health, etc) so that they can come back into it in a much better position.

    @Ulax I wouldn't call that MGTOW. They take that to the extreme and make up their own communities and ideology based on the fundamental belief that doing this exact process is not worth it and women are not worth it in general and that you should just focus on yourself and having fun in life without worrying about the whole dating and child-rearing thing; hence the going your own way thing. 

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    It's hard to imagine. You mean if every single guy had more or less the same SMV? Then I guess everyone would just fuck together like one giant polyamorous tribe. You can argue it's impossible though because the whole point of being dimorphic sexual beings is to try out different genetic adaptations, it would make no sense for males to have the same value as it would remove the necessity for males in the first place. At that point might as well have everyone be female and be able to impregnate themselves.

    So you can conclude sexual competition and "being chad" will never stop. 

  22. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    @thisintegrated China's tech sector got nerfed hardcore with the semiconductor trade war that the US is waging on them. They're severely behind in their own capacity to produce them and most of their industries are solely dependent on that to stay relevant. BRICS nations perhaps have potential over a 50-year window but their economies and politics are super unstable for the conceivable future.

    The US is absolutely looking dominant economically for the next 10-20 years. 

    China's tech sector also relies on corporate espionage, patent theft as well as CCP subsidy to keep an edge. As their economy becomes less centralized and their business leaders are tired of being CCP pawns this is gonna become a much less viable strategy. 

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    @Lizard Man What a weird take. First of all, plenty of people study masturbation. I would wager that human sexuality is widely studied at all western universities. It's a pretty interesting subject, idk why you make it a personal fetish thing; that's pretty strange.

    @Tyler Robinson I don't know if its a fully accurate conclusion but a lot of men that demonize sex and masturbation end up demonizing themselves and women as well so they end up being pretty angry and intolerant so not really fun to deal with.