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Do you meditate a lot? I'm getting a lot of sporadic energy from you when reading your posts like you can't stay still and need constant stimulation. This can be a great strength of yours but only through being channeled like a powerful laser. You haven't talked much about your life outside of pickup but what does your career and/or business look like? Lack of life purpose makes pussy super appealing.

I've met many women like this and even dated one, do not recommend. How some women are into bad boys some men are also into bad girls. Lucky you didn't fuck her that would just make her emotional reactions more extreme, sounds like she could fit into the bipolar/BPD mold. Another lesson is that you can't really help people if you don't have systems built for yourself. I feel bad at homeless people as well and perhaps you can give a few dollars here and there but unless you're gonna build a whole organization around it there isn't much you can do to fundamentally change people's lives. I have modelling chats and a couple times girls asked if I knew places they could stay temporarily but I couldn't do much apart from hit up another girl to ask. You need a lot of capital to be able to house and feed people. I think people especially in spiritual circles hate this answer but in life most problems can be solved by just making more money. A lot of times getting involved with partners that require saving is mostly procrastination to avoid fixing your own life because you get validation and dopamine much more reliably that way.

You can talk to women and make pleasant conversations for a few minutes and then go off with your day. If you find that unethical I think perhaps your mindset is a bit off. As for experience, I’ve pulled from cold approach, used it to promote events and transitioned those lessons into building actual social architecture. I’m not claiming to be a world champion, I'm only pointing out how to get more leverage from your time for someone who seems to be hitting a roadblock. Also when you focus on cold approach without creating systems around it you introduce burnout because it's not a really fun activity and also you're not working holistically on the other areas of your life whereas with social circle you can do it all at once.

No problem. It helps to remember that cold approach is just one way that was popularized to deal with the fact that the establishment doesn't give you easy mates anymore as was the case pre 1960s sexual revolution. Now that you can host your own events and post your own media for basically free the best route is to become the establishment yourself. With Instagram you can literally message every single attractive woman on earth so you don't actually live in Tbilisi my friend you live in a global dating marketplace i.e. planet earth.

It's a legit problem. If you have to twist your life in all kinds of ways that you don't desire to make dating work then whether it works or not you're not gonna be satisfied. If you were making $20k/month online you would not run into this issue. You could relocate to a new hub or move countries each 3 months however you see fit. That's what abundance looks like. How you manage your lack of abundance with your current resources is what we are talking about here. You should approach women that you're not into because you're practicing social skills, you don't have to try to pull those women and then when you see women you're really into then you'll have momentum and not be anxious. That will help extend your pool but it won't solve the problem entirely. Running events is the best thing you can do this month to level up your social skills. It teaches you so much about what hot women respond to and need. https://www.instagram.com/icmodelmanagement/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/natalimodels/?hl=en There are apparently 10-15 modelling agencies in Tbilisi. Models are a good niche to start with because they're hot, post themselves online so are easy to find and have an easy to fulfill value model meaning that it's easy to host a photoshoot or media networking event and get them to come because all of them are looking for the same thing. Photoshoots are one route but you can host a book club, food events, run club, etc. It's all about standardizing a group hangout that attracts the people that you want i.e. attractive women that would be open to dating you in this case. Social circle game is a bit different than cold approach since you won't be anonymous while throwing events and thus have a reputation to maintain and can't escalate like a madman but it'll teach you calibration and regardless this is a more valuable skillset to develop that will help all areas of your life rather than just approaching women on the street. Feel free to DM me on Instagram and I can give you more advice on how to throw events. This is one event that I threw a couple of months ago : Once you throw events regular and know a lot of women then your whole life becomes a warm approach. Most women are gonna be single and if you get along with them you can ask them out and then boom you're dating models and if it doesn't work just be pleasant and professional and it won't really affect your ecosystem. Where you take it from there is up to you and your life purpose. You can do a Hugh Hefner and try to build a global media brand or just date 1 woman and use your newly acquired social circle skills more for business purposes. I like more the Hugh Hefner route but to each their own.

You have two simple options the way I see it. For the short to medium term focus on hosting events and social circle game. Then you can you'll have all the women in the region to pull from and you'll level up your status over time. Message @jacknine119 he's also from Tbilisi perhaps you can link up and throw some events together. The second option is medium to long term but get your income up(especially online income) and move, travel and date women from the whole world. That takes more work but is the best option that will solve most of your life problems. You can start by building an Instagram and personal brand which will help your dating even in Georgia but as you learn to monetize it then the whole world opens up to you.

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Cold approach was apparently a lot easier before in the 90s and the 2000s. It's still doable but now more than ever you need status, social circle, etc to get the hottest women. It's partly because of the financial crisis that reduced the income of people and made the average man less attractive as a mate and also the advent of social media that globalized the dating scene that created a situation where now I can run an IG story and instantly women that I know in different cities in the country think of me as opposed to the dudes they have access to. It rewards increased effort and makes laziness even more deadly in dating.

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I think dancing is very important. As an INTP I initially found it very confusing and it doesn't come naturally to me but the more I grow the more I appreciate it. I'm usually quite attracted to people that dance, it's a nice energy that counterbalances my more logical systems mindset well.

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I highly respect that guy for having the confidence to say his opinions publicly. That being said he's still a disrespectful clown.

I think it's a great topic to discuss. Boundaries are the very foundation of any relationship otherwise we're all in an 8 billion person relationship, we are but I think you obviously mean interpersonal boundaries. To me I like the idea of separating boundaries into soft and hard boundaries. Soft are ones are for things you're uncomfortable with and can push past and hard boundaries are just red line that you're not willing to move past as they're core to how you choose to live your life. If someone disrespects me first of all I like to address it right away or sometimes I get too volatile and it's better if I reflect on it first. Then I go into I don't appreciate you speaking to me this way or saying X. That's a soft boundary. If they do it again you can say, if you speak to me like this again this will be the last time we speak. That's a hard boundary. I had it with a buddy that kept making black people joke and I gave him the hard boundary and he never did it again. We fell out of touch for different reasons but usually when you give people hard boundaries they respect it or if they don't either way you clear yourself of people you don't wanna be associated with it so you win in both cases.

That makes sense, we each have our way of understanding love. I personally like the Helen Fisher model which separates the romantic love into three parts: lust, attraction and attachment. Looksmaxxing helps mostly in lust and attraction and the money part in attraction and attachment. I find the idea that money doesn't matter to deep love to be deeply misguided. Financial issues rank always in the top 2-5 reasons for divorce with whatever survey is replicated. Money is not superficial it's very deep. It's how you impact the world as a whole, how your skillset impacts other humans, how you're able to get over your mental blocks to serve your fellow humans better. Being financially independent is one of the best gifts you can give your potential partners and a journey I work on daily and I recommend each one of us here prioritize.

I do it most of the time. A lot of my conversations with my close friends are in the form of debates like you see me interact with people on the forum. Some people can't handle it but I mean well and my life is built to offer value so ultimately the right people say in my orbit. I've lost friends because of it but some others come back around and I've made new friends that are more aligned with my vision. Some others have a growth mindset and aren't offended and like my honesty and I like theirs and we grow together and do cool stuff. There is no other way to live in my book, catering to normies is more than draining it hurts the soul. Trust results, not the mind. Approach 10 8s in your city this week and see how it goes. Status helps make the process effortless and scalable but you can do it without it. For me I like women to interact with my mind and ideas, that's what I identify most with. If my ideas do not work they are not attractive they are random trivia facts or the ramblings of a madman. The more my ideas concretize and scale the more baddies and people as a whole enjoy them and I enjoy creating avdentures and scaling together so to me cold approach is not in the same dimension of what social circle and social media game can create for you. I made a reel for my dating brand the other day mentioning the new reality show Canada Shore and one of the girls from it replied to it a couple of times. It's not like she's in my circle yet nor am I dating her but it shows you can access people of all kinds of status if you put yourself out there on social media and produce quality content. https://www.instagram.com/p/DY8LcNnockL/ https://www.instagram.com/ryleighgregory/