LordFall

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  1. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    I fear you're gonna get quited bored of programming if you're not particularly into it, it's a very high competition niche now with AI automating a lot of it.

    If I were you I would probably keep in mind a travel business if that's really your passion. Start it right where you are in California, make videos of the surrounding areas around you and use AI to figure out the highest value travel packages you can sell, I just did one search quickly and it gave me this Napa Valley Wine Tour 

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    A lot of times you can call these places and make a deal with them where you become an affiliate for their services and they give you a 20% promo that becomes your margin and then you resell it on their behalf. Or you charge extra for putting a particularly cool tour together.

    You can also do the opposite and find for a cool tour at the place you want to visit and then make call those places and get the same deal.

    Now to sell the tours you learn how to take organic b-roll and turn it into engaging organic content. As well as running ads. If it's local you have the adantage of being able to film stuff yourself instead of having to repurpose content that you find online for your own brand. You can also become a tour guide and start a company around that, do like Hollywood tours if you're LA or ideally something more niche and high ticket. Better be high ticket than mass market but doing a lot at the start to learn the industry is fine as well. 

    Buy Alex Hormozi's books and learn what a high quality offer is and how to do lead generation effective. You make money by saving people time or giving them access to something they didn't have before. It's usually done by having an unfair advantage, secret knowledge or just pure willingless to labor so it's easier to do it in something you enjoy doing and thinking about.

    You can start the pages and the content strategy pretty much this week though a lot of this stuff you can learn how to do on Youtube and it'll be up to you to find a profitabe niche and offer and keep on throwing stuff at the wall until it works and you have something worth repeating. 

    Good luck, you're thinking along the right path. Just study people that have achieved your lifestyle before you and reverse engineer it. 

  2. Posted

    Yeah you are right that building status is harder it takes time. The ceiling is much higher and if you combine it with entrepreneurship then you don't really have a ceiling. I'm still working on my setup daily and it's taking time to actualize to my full vision but everyday closer. 

    It was a dining event we put together last year. How come you don't use Instagram?

    This Youtube edit is from 2022 and the events I was a part of that year. It kind of shows your point better actually because I have been recreating the access and status I had back then from the ground up since I had access by proxy by being friends with club promoters at that time but now I'm creating it as the sole owner of it and it's harder then I thought but is coming together quite well. 

  3. Posted

    56 minutes ago, Valach said:

    Just sparking good emotions in people is a ton of social value but not much materialistic value. Some funny, charismatic guy who has not much else going on for him is just more appealing to woman than someone who may have money and cool lifestyle but is a bore. Seen it too many times.

    Sure but if we're coming at it from what should men spend their time learning, I think charisma and social skills are important but financial abundance and status are equally if not more important to build and they're usually not talked about as much on here. 

    https://www.instagram.com/p/DI75zcsRAEl/

    When you have money you can also buy dating bootcamps, match makers and just pay to host top VIP events so your ease to meet women is much increased. 

     

  4. Posted

    Just now, AION said:

    @LordFall I can’t finance that lifestyle but I agree that is dating on easy mode 

    Are you working on a business now? You can start today and be quite successful in a few years. Every man and woman should work on their own business to become financially independent and be able to share that gift with their friends, family and lovers. 

    I share my own journey on this journal thread here : 

     

    1 minute ago, Miguel1 said:

    This guy. And you says you are not stuck in orange xD

    You remind me of my younger self. Except, include also how they will benefit spiritually with you as well. Then you have the perfect self-deceived delusional drowned in his own success.

    My philosophy won't work for everyone but it's built on avoiding the mistakes and pitfalls I see others fall into. I don't think I'm self-deceived but feel free to point out some blind spots if you believe they are genuine and not stemming from your own spiritual bypassing. 

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    I mean you can think about it in whatever way you want to. For me I like the harem builder game where I work on my business and date multiple women and subs that live under me and I fund their life and lifestyle while they chill and/or work for me and my business. 

    The problem with not funding their lifestyle is your woman will end up working for another man or a system that probably exploits her and she'll come back home drained and not giving you and your children together her best. I think most women would rather be stay at home moms if their man could afford it but it's become too hard due macroeconomics and thus 90% of men in America can't fund that lifestyle for their partner.

     

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    I think it's good to try different stuff from like a test perspective but I wouldn't do it long term, it's more of a gimmick than something that will genuinely raise your value and you'll eventually have to explain that you wear a fake wedding ring to approach women it's a bit cringe. 

    Nofap is good for increasing sexual chemistry, usually when I go out I try to be on 1-2 days of it. 

  7. Posted

    Just now, AION said:

    So you are basically saying girls are prostitutes. That is what you are saying if you reduce it like that. I think SD green girls can be different. I have been out with SD green girls and they have been paying for everyting and I got to fuck for free. Your strategy only is true for third and second world countries. In which country do you live?

    No that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying the more value you offer the more you get in life and the less bitter you are because you get what you want on your terms without exerting waste energy.

    I'm from Canada and I dated some women where they paid for dates but I didn't like that feeling I rather be able to pay for everything and also I do think you get hotter women this way. 

    I think every job is transactional and sex workers get to the crux of the issue but a baker similarly sells their body to the marketplace to be able to live. If you have a lot of value you are able to create relationships with a wider type of partners. Economic value is the most universal form of value but there are broke funny guys with good quality relationships. Their lives would probably be better if they made more money but that's for them to figure out. For myself the higher status and more money I get the better relationships with hotter women I've gotten. A lot of debates are quite useless if they don't end in you having a higher quality life as a result.

    How is your dating life going? 

     

  8. Posted

    33 minutes ago, Valach said:

    What I find interesting is that your framework seems to evaluate the quality of a man's relationship with women primarily by how successful or efficient he is with them.

    To me, that actually hints at a subtle form of objectification.

    If the health of your relationship with women is measured mainly by how much attraction, sex or cooperation you get from them, then women are still being evaluated largely in terms of what they provide for you. That's still making your internal state dependent on them fulfilling your emotional or physical needs.

    I'd almost argue the opposite: the healthier your relationship with women becomes, the less your well-being depends on how successful you are with them.

    To me, genuine empathy starts when you see someone as a human being first and a woman second. Their value isn't determined by how attracted they are to you, how much validation they give you, or how efficiently the interaction goes. Those things may improve naturally, but they're no longer the metric by which you evaluate the relationship.

    I think evaluating the quality of your relationship someone can be in part measured by it's yield, yes. Some people are satisfied with coping with other humans against reality but I rather team up to accomplish our goals. Having sex with them is one way of doing that but you can start a social circle and do music or business together, up to whatever goals you have. Just being friends with them can lead to resentment in some men though which leads to the friendzone meme.

    Also I wanna separate objectification and a value exchange. You need to offer value to others to live unless your parents are gonna support you and you got a trust fund waiting for you. Mastering value arbitrate lets you do so outside of the usual confines of society, social circle game and social media game are forms of that. Objectification is thinking someone is ONLY their value offering or reducing their identity to strict confines. 

    28 minutes ago, Jirh said:

    Reminds me of that Elle Fanning strawberry meme 😍🤤

    Haha she came up when I googled girl strawberry cosplay but it didn't hit the visual I wanted, Gemini got my back with this strawberry waifu though. 

    24 minutes ago, AION said:

    Although I agree with your vibe, I'm not sure about your reduction of dating to a status hierachy game. 

    Bro so much of it is tied directly to social capital and status. It's why the passport bro strategy works because you take the exact same dude in the west and put him in south america/thailand and now the macroeconomics switch in his favor and now he's getting laid left and right.

    Pickup and entrepreneurship are the free market tools that we now have to free us to achieve the financial and dating outcomes that were previously only possible in wild dreams. 

  10. Posted

    3 minutes ago, Ulax said:

    Ad Hominem final boss

    No that's an incorrect use of the term, what I said is valid deductive reasoning. Most men are not successful with women and the sour grapes phenomenon is a documented psychological effect so it stands to reason that most men that dislike women are not successful with them. 

    9 minutes ago, Valach said:

    While some of what you say has some validity, there are definitely many many men who dislike woman and have not much of empathy for them whilst being succesfull with them.

    I think that's true but that stems mostly with men not understanding and making the systems of society work in their favor so they have to expand a lot of energy and feel like a dancing monkey to get laid. Which is a valid point and why I stopped cold approaching for the past few years to focus on social circle and social media game which makes the leverage game finally work in my favor. 

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    3 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    You don't need to have any objective value to be charismatic.

    You can be a charismatic homeless bum dressed in rags.

    Maybe but to a point. Charisma is linked with inspiration and influence. I have had some homeless people with whom I've had a pleasant 5 min chat and then I left and did not want to be near them because they are a living proof that their life philosophy and strategy doesn't produce enviable results.

    People that are ultimately charistmatic make you want to be near them for a long period of them because they figured out life and your life will be better around them than away from them. Which is why often times it's linked with business leaders, politicians and rebellious figures because they tie their social skills with a grand vision that you should follow them in to get to the promised land. 

    Hitler was a charismatic homeless man which makes sense since he had an ideology and a step of actions to share with the lost men stuck with him at the homeless refuge. 

  12. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    2 hours ago, AION said:

    Just understanding what a strawberry is doesn’t make me like it. For example find somebody who dislikes strawberries and tell him everything there is to know about strawberries. It won’t change his taste. 

    Disliking women is a strong sign of not being good with them and a lack of understanding of social systems. Usually when men dislike women it's because they feel like they are better than them or they're just not getting laid. If you start to understand how the status and dominance hierarchy work and position yourself at the top then women go from adversarial and cold to friendly, collaborative and well very down to fuck you.

    I would highly recommend you put some work towards figuring that out instead of having a passive-aggressive relationship with women, what an unfortunate place to choose to experience life from. Women oftentimes serve as a universal mirror to point your blind spots and show you where you are weak and not contributing enoug value to other people. 

    Women are obviously much more valuable to your life than strawberries ever will and much more delicious as well. 

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    2 hours ago, Basman said:

    People like you when you give more value than you take. That is what is charisma is in my opinion. No free lunch. You can learn a bunch of passive social skills which make you more likable which is useful, but you can always try harder to impress people.

    Learning about this stuff I realized that I only care about making people like me to a certain degree. I think that's normal. I could suck harder if I really wanted to. 

    Sure which is why you should create systems in your life that create an overabundance of value so that you have women and paying customers in abundance. Creating value is hard but quite simple, you just solve people's problems and make their lives more fun. 

    It shouldn't be that much energy when you do it right, that's what building leverage is. Which is why strategies like building a brand and posting content are so effective; you eventually build global leverage with it. 

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    36 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

    @LordFall Jesus. In what world do you live, where you go from absolute zero experience with girls to hosting parties for hundreds of girls just like that?

    He said he's handsome and charismatic so that helps but also not necessary. Hosting parties is not that complicated you start with not even really a party but a back to school event and you put up posters and DM people and they'll come. He should partner up with friends but if he had balls he could do it by himself.

    You don't start with hundreds of people, some events are successful with 5-10 people but since it's back to school he can piggy back off of that and probably get to a 50-100 person event pretty easily.

    You will run into the problem of escalation in your own social circle which you can solve in many ways but the two best ways is to practice light flirting with a lot of women in it, so you don't actually commit to the full trying to sleep with them or ask them out but you just give everyone compliment and pump them up and they'll give it back to you usually. Then you'll see some girls will be more into you than the others and often times at this point the circle will work in your favor and one girl will tell you omg @Magnanimous Jenny clearly seems into you why don't you ask her out? 

    The other way is to do actual cold approach outsite campus so you can practice more direct game and escalation which will give you calibration for your social circle back on campus. 

    Cold approach was mainly developped as an antidote for not being served by your social circle and not having status so if you just start a social circle in which you have the highest status from the start it's gonna eventually start to solve all your problems. You can steer it in many directions depending on your personality, interest and the connections you build throughout this process. It could be used to network with TAs and campus recruiters so you can get yourself and people you like in your circle a job after 4th year or go towards frats, sororities and sports if you like that better, depends on his interest. 

    You can use social hacks like partner up with a frat/sorority and use psychology like they'll be too lazy to promote their own events a lot of times and so you just take the first 2 weeks of classes and approach all the hot girls on campus and the cool guys. Now you're one of the most well known people on campus and gained status by using their brand instead of doing a direct approach and now during the rest of the school year girls will be coming up to you and warm approaching you since they remember you and you can tone back your social efforts and be a cool guy almost magically. 

    You can also use the hack of the network effect where a college campus has like 10k people and a cool extrovert will know maybe 300 people if they're like in sports but if you throw events you can know 1000-2000 people after 1 year of doing it and get massive status. 

    You don't need to go out all the time and drain your energy if you're an introvert, if anything if you just do 1 event every 1-2 months it'll add to your prestige and you can still stay at home most of the time watching anime but now you're cool and can get laid way easier. 

    Social circle game is mostly strategy and business lite so you can learn it from a forum, youtube or a course pretty reliably. This is the cumulated knowledge of a lot of many generations of men, use it wisely young one and make sure to wear protection unless you aim to repopulate our species!  

  16. Posted

    Also a lot of these debates happen because we define our terms inadequately.

    What does shallow mean? It can mean anti-intellectual, it can be does not appreciate the multiple fascets of life, it can mean focusing on status markers as opposed to other personality traits, etc.

    I like to talk mostly about money and sex because I find it grounds life into actionable goals and you can use many deeper fields to explore those two. A lot of intellectuals get losts into endless debates that don't really serve their life like the perfect crowd is the looksmaxxing crowd that doesn't actually learn how to talk to women and create beautiful experiences with them but will be able to tell us about the cephalic index optimization and give tips on optimizing your craniofacial morphology. Or college students that learn a lot about communist theory but have never tried starting a business or a non-profit and actually helping the people in their community. 

    I think nerds is an intellectual that foucses on theory as opposed to being a practicioner, it also has to do with social trends as usually nerdy topics are not mainstream unlike makeup for example. Gaming is starting to become mainstream and so the average joe is a gamer but not nerdy until he gets deeper into like theorycrafting or like dungeons and dragon. 

  18. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    I would host events and parties on your campus. Great way to go from being a beginner to knowing hundreds of girls. 

    Hector Castillo has some good content on the topic, he's one of the leading writers for Girlschase and campus game was his specialty

    Basically people want to get to know people on campus and cold approach can be done a bit but you can't do too many or you'll ruin your rep but you can do the complete opposite and build your rep and status through social circle game i.e. hosting events on campus.

    Partner up with a few friends and host a monthly event and then invite every single hot girl you see to it and if she's busy say all good letme get your IG and you can come to our next event and you'll end up with the same status as varsity athletes and be able to know so many girls on campus if you do it properly.

    You don't need to get to that level you can do it more lowkey but if you're gonna try to get one girl why not takeover the whole campus in the meanwhile, it'll be quite fun and you'll get probably even more than one girl in the process. 

  19. Posted

    On 7/22/2026 at 7:05 PM, MediumKahuna said:

    Slop. :D

    In what way? 

    7 hours ago, blackchair said:

    It peaked with Endgame. Now they are trying to make new endgame. But maybe Doomsday will be ok. The Sony story is much better imho, they are putting trash movies on purpose bc they have a clause in their contract with marvel that they have to release new marvel movie every xy years or they loose it all. 

    The entertainment busines is full of weird dramas, strange to see how it goes. I'm really hoping AI write helps us out with the creative hole I feel like Hollywood is hitting right now.

    7 hours ago, Basman said:

    MCU post endgame is peak kicking a dead horse. Let it die with some dignity please.

    Hopefully they're gonna blow all expectations out of the water and make it sweet, they should start with a new superhero story though so many fresh interesting ones they could tell.

    I feel like an average guy/girl struggling to get by with the shitty job market we have today and gaining powers and using it to make money in an interesting way would feel fresh to most people, we don't need everything to be a grand epic tale of good vs evil. 

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    I take it as have the means to engage with the conflict that you are dealt with. To me that goes straight to spiritual people having a blindspot for business and power building and they think being at peace with their own mind will save them from the problems of the world.

    On the other hand I agree with you that we don't solve wars with getting better at war, that was what we learned with the cold war and us being inches away from nuclear winter. We deal with it with realistic empathy. Naive empathy is thinking that your nice words are gonna stop someone's violent goals like europe tried doing with the appeasement of Hitler. Realistic empathy is understand where your enemy is coming from and what his objectives are and being able to either meet those in other ways or being able to exert less force due to greater leverage ala Power vs Force by David Hawkins 

    Robert makes phenomenal books, highly recommend everyone read 48 laws of power and Mastery. I'm reading one of his new ones laws of human nature right now and its one of the deepest books I've read in my entire life. 

  21. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    8 hours ago, Basman said:

    I'm halfway through that book on charisma from Leo's book list, and combined with a bunch of other sources and my own experience I've realized that charisma and making people like you is basically sucking people off verbally. Your trying to make people feel good about themselves and give them value socially essentially. 

    I read into this stuff to work on my confidence but my takeaway besides these skills is that maybe I'm okay just not caring that much. Like, who am I trying to impress? Most people I don't even like or care about that much. 

    Thoughts?

    Well yes charisma is usually about making others feel important and that you like them but also not being too needy and DHVing yourself so that they actually value your opinion. I'm reminded of a passage from a book I can't remember where it talks about Richard Nixon partly losing his 2nd term election due to making people feel like he's really smart where as JFK made the people listening to him feel like they were smart. 

    I think understanding that most group conversations and social circles work on consensus rather than making individual good points is important, I used to be like the odd man out in friend circles for being too logical and not getting the flow of what the extraverts were talking about or refusing to dumb down my points to fit in.

    I think ultimately that's why social circle game and leadership skills are so important to make your own circle without pandering and entrepreneurship/business to tie it back to genuine value that everyone relates to. I try to walk that line myself of offering value but not pandering, it's hard but feels right to me at the moment. 

    A good tip it to give genuine compliments to people when you mean it or to approve of their point if they're right even if you're arguing with them. I have debates sometimes and I know I make phenomenal points that the other person didn't take into consideration and sometimes they keep doubling down or moving the goalpost and it's very annoying or they actually say good point and it makes it seem like we weren't having an argument but more like a heated friendly chat that in the end bonded us closer. 

    The skills part of social skills should ideally mean that it gives you the knowhow of streering social engagements the way you want to and to achieve desired outcomes instead of being frustrated people don't get you or not being able to hangout with the people you want. It should only feel like being forced to praise people that don't deserve praise if you're stuck in a social construct not of your own making like a job or maybe school otherwise you always have the freedom to create your own social circle and filter it however you want. 

  22. Posted

    On 7/24/2026 at 2:16 PM, Miguel1 said:

    I am reminded of a video jeff posted THIS WEEK shitting on Julien and Owen.

     

    Bro thanks for sharing that's actually so interesting to watch. He does phrase it as putting his way on top which I think discredits him a bit but I think each man found a niche that called to them and is providing value in that niche.

    For what it's worth the guy I used to throw social circle events with said that he took Jeffy's bootcamp and he was a very rude guy and he almost got in a fight with him because he was so insulting but he actually learned stuff and he found it better than Owen's bootcamp. 

  23. Posted

    16 hours ago, Elliott said:

    Then why do you ban me when I identify people as idiots? It's the same thing.

    It's not very productive to insult people, I think it's better to question their points or ask what they mean by that if you find it genuinely confusing. 

    Ultimately we can get enflamed in online debates as I definitely do often do but we are on the same side so if people are making points that don't seem to make sense I think that asking them to put more effort into their points as it's a lazy one is a good move in terms of confrontation that's not literally an insult or to just say that you don't think they're being logical anymore and to rephrase their point if they think it's worth making.

    I like Leo's point that even if you possess the truth you shouldn't beat people with it, the point is to evolve collectively not for a certain self to be better than another one. 

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    1 hour ago, Hojo said:

    Hitler said the same thing. These are meaningless statements. It says nothing about the morality or where it can go.

    Cut a dogs head off and see how long it lives, wow science.

    This is a false equivalency. You can't conflate things like this, Hitler decided that most of mankind was undesirables and worth sacrificing to reach his goals. You're now comparing this to a dude running a science experience in a petri dish to help all of us live longer and cure the diseases that are ruining our lives. If you have to rely on extreme reductionism to make your points I don't think they're good points. 

    1 hour ago, Hojo said:

    Make life as comfortable as you can for everyone but you must die.

    You can die on your own terms nobody is forcing you not to. We're talking about extending human life time infinitely, if you don't enjoy our post scarcity future then I wouldn't personally vote for stopping you to end yourself if that's what you want. You are just arguing against medical research at the current moment though. 

  25. Posted

    10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

    But if they live till 200, they won't let you do UBI.

    UBI doesn't threaten the status of the elites too much, people reinvests back into their companies anyway and the costs of assets keep rising while consumption is now predictable which is what the consumeristic culture of the west is based on. It gives a win-win way for the elites and the masses to collaborate together in the future of mankind.

    I think it's a beautiful vision for the future of humanity as it solves the problem of those wanting out of forced labor and those that want to compete for status and scarce experiences can still do so while people eventually get free food and lodging.