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LordFall
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11 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:Well yeah, from what you have seen. Our experience is limited to us and can be a significant source of cognitive bias. Cognitive drift also.
Like hair transplants.
No that was the casual way of explaining my beliefs. I have a put of a lot of time and effort in this field and learned from the people that seemed to have the best results. You seem to value your own opinions really highly for some reason. I don't really I make hypothesis and see what happens when I try it and if someone more competent than me and with more resources than me has tried it and make a judgement based on that.
Most people's opinions by default is gonna be wrong because they value the road to least effort which is rarely the most optimal. So is mine so I research a lot and take a lot of notes and see how things evolve overtime and see if I was correct or not in especially areas of life that matter to me like dating.
I like how @Osaid phrased it because it doesn't matter what works if your values goes against it but if you don't really care one way or another might as well do what works.
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11 minutes ago, Osaid said:Your only "job" in attracting a mate is embodying your own personal values. Essentially, being authentic without fear or insecurity. Anything less will be sniffed out by whoever you're trying to attract.
Authenticity with your values is a good way to put it you can’t succeed at someone else’s dream
3 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:Something you do not, perhaps?
It’s possible, I don’t claim to know everything I just learn from what I’ve seen work. A lot of things that sound nice in theory don’t work and only help to make someone feel better temporarily and worse long term due to lack of results. I call it fortune cookie advice.
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3 minutes ago, Osaid said:This guy gets it.
What does he get?
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11 minutes ago, integration journey said:Who gives a shit what anyone prefers.
Do you and the right person will be attracted to you.The average man is single, depressed, broke and lonely. They are already being themselves; it's not working.
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21 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:The end run around this nonsense is you need to meet people one on one.
How? Cold approach? I already answered this I don't like the variable quality and I'm an INTP it's an exhausting way to meet people. 10 years ago you could not get laid by sitting in your room but now you can do anything from a laptop/phone technology has really blessed introverts.
Also I have a new theory of true love if we are all one I think you can pick your soulmates so I made a list of a few influencer and celebrity girls I like. I think everyone should do a list like that and literally DM them so your brain is used to taking action and not putting anyone in a league above you. I think you should be able to meet anybody on your list at least once and shoot your shot. If you don't have the access to meet a celebrity your status game sucks you need to keep statusmaxxing and host more events.
Andrea Botez is one of them for me; now it's timestamped on this forum so I can show our kids this is how I met your mother. Pure brain power; play chess not checkers.
Another one of them is Lauren Southern, that girl is really cool and funny. She is also conservative and has bad political takes but to prove @integral wrong I will spiral wizard her and help her develop her consciousness
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14 minutes ago, Xonas Pitfall said:All of the examples you gave are people who are already attractive, no? Wouldn't many men do the exact same thing if it were a really attractive pop singer, actress, or model? "Bro, if I had a chance with Megan Fox..." I'm sure plenty of men would gladly fly across the world for that opportunity too.
So I'm not sure those examples are all that relevant, given that they mostly involve attractive celebrities.
I also think celebrities are a tricky example because they have a massive numbers advantage. When millions of people know who you are, you're naturally going to have a much larger pool of potential partners to filter through. Eventually, you're bound to find people who want to be with you simply because of the sheer volume of people you have access to.
It's similar to that guy who made the "My Experience Being Ugly" video. He ended up finding a girlfriend. So I don't think celebrity examples are necessarily that informative when discussing general attraction dynamics.
I think its really helpful because even if lets say only 1% of women are open to dating you because you're not particularly attractive so dubar's number is 150 that's probably the amount of people you know let alone available single women so chances are you're single. Now let's say you do cold approach a few times a week and talk to 100 women a week so now you can go on 3 dates a month and after a few months get a girlfriend.
Now let's say you run ads/have a personal brand brand and you get 1M views a month with 40% of your audience women now that's 4000 women that would be open to you. That's probably across North America so you need to host local events(like a music show) to meet them but there you go.
Depending on what type of content you do you'll have women more or less into you but it's a viable strategy for any man. Women aren't that interested in men that are lower earner than men so for them having millions of viewers male fans is not a particularly stellar dating strategy but I mean give me all the broke hot fangirls you got lets go.
I recommend every man to start a brand and post content its a medium to long term strategy but especially because it helps you self-develop and introspect on your desired life and what you enjoy it's a great tool. Most men also have way more than 1% of women that would be open to them especially with a refined brand so its a phenomenal ROI.
Here is how you run ads to target local women for whatever event you're hosting btw. That's also why learning to throw events is so important to dating. You can't exactly run an ad to your bedroom but you could try one just looking for dates in general might work idk I haven't done the most test on dating ads. Instagram ads are phenomenal I've sold like $20k of photoshoots through them. God bless the Zuck.
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15 minutes ago, Xonas Pitfall said:If you're looking purely at a "have sex and leave" scenario, I don't think most women care much about a man's status either. They would probably prioritize someone they find physically attractive, who seems fun, playful, hot, confident, and likely to make the experience enjoyable. It simply isn't incentive-compatible to weigh a bunch of other qualities if the interaction is only meant to be casual.
Status is one of the reasons top reasons where a woman would instinctively throw away her long term strategy for a quick result. Have you not heard of what happens backstages with musicians? So common
https://www.reddit.com/r/CheatingGF/comments/xr0a8g/looking_back_at_the_time_i_accidentally_helped/
Women and regular people are stunned by status and social media it short circuits our brains. I used to do a street interviews and I've had a blonde girl that I was originally nervous to approach be super stunned and like giggly that she was now getting interviewed and be on social media. If she was a fan of mine and her boyfriend was not there it's over for buddy.
A really hot girl I knew got flown to Romania to fuck Tristan Tate, it happens so much. I was butthurt and insulted at the time but that's the game.
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Well how many baby mamas can he handle it's not like he's looking to get 1000 of them. I'm sure he used extensive criteria to screen them he has quite a process with dedicated employees for it lol
Well of course you don't need status to get laid but it helps and makes it less effort. Anyone can get laid cold approaching with enough effort and feedback. It's a lot of effort though I don't like to do it like that all that much. Social circle and social media are much more scalable and you'll get more refinement and quality.
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On what metric are we judging? It's arguable both ways hard to tell. I liked having women managers when I had jobs if I'm gonna be bossed around and reprimanded might as well be by someone I like the idea of instead of some dumbass dude.
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3 minutes ago, Jirh said:That doesn't prove anything actually.
10 is a very weak number given his money and status and fame. We don't even know how many millions he DM'd and got ignored or rejected to get those low quality 10 women.
What is your point exactly? That being more known doesn't help you with women? I'm not that big on Instagram and I've had women cold dm me. Fuck if my reach was 100x bigger it'd be a blast. Working on it
It's not too late bro, start growing your personal brand; it's an evergreen asset. The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago but the 2nd best shot is 5 mins from now lets go.
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Yeah that's fine you do you I'm just saying in general I think men should do it every time and I put the statistics for women as a whole to prove it.
I don't think its a lot of time and energy, you get a cool Turkey trip and the results are permanent. You only need to redo it to patch up other areas that bald over time. I wouldn't spend my last dollar on it but if I had extra cash around then for sure.
The one interesting fact is that balding doesn't increase odds of divorce so if you already got a woman locked in there is little point but if you're single it's gonna make a big difference. Maybe not if one is 55(maybe still) but when still young fuck no brainer.
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This video and this guy's channel are top notch for online dating
I would get a friend or sibling and if you even had a good iphone like 14 and above you can do dating pics on a phone. If you have a nice DSLR it helps as well. Use photofeeler to rank your pics idk if its still free you could just rank other people's pics to get free credits before. Use mostly Tinder it has the most women, Hinge and feeld as well especially if you like kink. On Tinder try getting platinum and using boosts so you don't have to swipe as much and it helps your algorithm. It's normal to not get much results at the start these apps. The mainstream ones are 75% men so you need to use every strategy in the book to beat out the competition, no shame.
This is also a good community for specifically online dating stuff
https://www.reddit.com/r/SwipeHelper/
You can DM me or anyone else reading this if you have more questions, I don't mind answering. A lot to learn but it's worth it. Your children will thank you.
@Natasha Tori Maru You can be as confident as you want but the better you look the more baddies you pull.
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@Natasha Tori Maru Why not? It's not that expensive and only takes like 6 months to heal and regrow to more than you had before. Also harmless. You don't need it but if it improves your results I think you'd be silly not to do it.
My hair is starting to thin I'm looking into easier remedies like dermarolling and Finasteride but if it doesn't work I'm 100% going to Turkey. Women love nice hair I get so many compliments on mine.
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I think it means like you only swipe on girls that are perhaps less attractive or the archetype that you know feels you whereas even if you're one of the top guys in your city a lot of the hottest girls are still gonna left swipe.
With the chubby women population maybe I could've done 40%
You ever been on photofeeler? Another coach showed it up to me and I used it a lot for my profile and clients. Key is doing a bunch of photoshoots and testing all your pics so your profile is maximized. When I used tinder casually I only had like 14 total matches over a few years and then when I used platinum, a lot of boosts and doing this strategy I got to over 700.
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Yeah for real they compared a male super top model with his bald alter ego that's pretty crazy stats. According to Gemini a super attractive male would get 10-35% match rate and an average guy 1-2%. At my peak when I was using it a lot and my algorithm was really good I'd say I had maybe 15%.
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Do you guys believe in AI UBI and the tech singularity as a solution to this umbrella of issues? I don't see a way around it, really excited for it. The possibilities are hard to fathom.
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15 minutes ago, integral said:To be deluded to think having a 10 and wanting a 10/10 relationship is all that meaningful.
What's more meaningful than the relationship you're gonna spend most of your time in? It's the top thing you could do apart from your relationship to yourself and reality as a whole.
16 minutes ago, integral said:Most people really don't care that much, if they really care then they're already doing pick up. Most of the people that want the 10 are also in the same group of people that want the Ferrari and all these things that they can't have it and they have resentment and jealousy, so they cope hard.
When people get their self-esteems needs Met they don't really care that much about any of this.
No I think most people lack a growth based mindset and are not familiar or competent at self-development. I don't think most people have solid self-esteem, do you?
17 minutes ago, integral said:When you say value what do you mean? Value to society? Who are they valuable to? Besides the Elon Musk that are Reinventing the transportation system, the average person has some bullshit business convincing people to buy things they shouldn't ( like Vape), built some bullshit Network, jacking off some more bullshit people. A circle jerk of rich people, they go on vacation as often as possible. They read only books on how not to lose all their money. And so on. Bankrupt values.
Yes value to others. Society as a whole, their social circle and their romantic partners in a dating context. Idk I think that's a commie take, most business is useful otherwise they would go out of business. You can sell to people's vices but most businesses are around societal infrastructure and things that people want to buy. Some are a net negative but I don't think that's the majority. For example musicians or actors are in the entertainment industry. You can say there are flaws to it and some of it is mindless coping but when life sucks and someone listens to a song they relate to and they feel better, many people are in the business to get them to have that song be distributed and building the hardware that it's played on.
18 minutes ago, integral said:I noticed your work and I was wondering why you're not posting daily self development content while building a brand around a life coaching business? I figured that would be the main focus where you're Building yourself brand?
I'm working on it, daily content is hard but I want to build a content machine for sure. My main goal is getting consistent cashflow with my events right now. I've also had my own limiting beliefs in posting content but I'm getting over that slowly.
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It seems more to be politically related. He is from Alberta(most conservative province in Canada) and "The shooter also called for the destruction of liberalism and capitalism by armed revolution."
Seems like a unabomber philosophy type of dude.
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Pretty tragic situation just happened today in montreal. We have a right winger and apparently incel coming from Alberta to Quebec to shoot up the pornhub headquarters and posting a manifesto about "porn being responsible for the suffering of men and we need to take up arms against the system."
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2026_Côte-des-Neiges_shooting
Seems to be one cop dead, one citizen dead that was killed by a panicked cop and the shooter himself either having been shot by cops or shot himself.
Really tragic to find people with a toxic mindset like this miss-understanding systems thinking and punishing random cops doing their jobs as a result.
I really dislike anarchy and I wanna thank you Leo for making that video on Libertarianism many years ago to point out the strength of the system and the even worse results of lawlessness. I think predictive policing and systems like Palantir augmented by AI are basically necessary to solve violence for mankind.
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It's not that I cant it's that it's not valuable to me and a waste of time as I've said. I've talked to homeless people and random people outside of an event and it's not a 100% waste of time there is always something interesting to find in anything but there are better uses of time.
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Sure but I think it's 90% coping. Most guys have never dated 20 super hotties let alone one. Also attracting hot women presupposes a lot of attractive qualities that they probably have not developed. It's also a sign of weak epistemology because a lot of them fall into a religious shame paradigm that they've never questioned or just never got into pickup and dating advice which seems like a strange thing to omit since dating is one of the core fields in life.
A super hottie is an easy example to prove or falsify but also most people have terrible communication skills so they bicker and fight in their relationship constantly. They have never bothered to read a book on conversation as well so it goes back to my point on being lazy.
The status thing is a better trait to examine because status is basically an honest signal of value. So if you have no status you're probably low value or low skill in areas of life that matter. Status is a strange one because it's a zero sum game so not everyone can be high status but maybe they can be in the next few decades with the complexifying economy we're entering into.
It's not a shame based statement but I think it's pretty close to a fact. I'm not as high status as I could be and I'm working to become better at my craft to become more recognized in my industry and in the world as a whole.
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No I don't find much value talking to random people. My social energy is limited so I need to be selective otherwise I find myself getting angry at wasting my time and losing time on my goals.
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That's fair, knowing your goals is important. I like what you're doing with your game idea and especially the finance field is usually quite lucrative.
I like to correct people on this forum in general because their viewpoint seems to be very limited. I'm glad OP vindicated me on this thread but I could've been wrong. The dudes with the scarcity mindset are provably wrong though and it points to a flaw in their own dating strategy. I hope they fix it for their sake otherwise they will be part of the mediocre average.
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Yeah that makes sense. I've started going to corporate events on eventbrite to meet more corporate minded women. They're also more logical than the average women so I like that personally. Crypto events have been good too for gen-z type women that are also into finance and money.
What's your favorite type of event to meet women?
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Very cool, may you be safe and learn a lot my man. You remind me of this guy here Caolan Robertson who moved to Ukraine to be a war journalist.
I'm curious if when you are there and see the war up close if it gives you more faith in humanity or less. I'm hopeful that we will soon solve all wars but I mean I've never been there just optimistic about AI.