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  3. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    Ive moved to Montreal about a month and a half ago, things are going well but slower than I’d like. 

    Launching a new site for the Calgary Creatives brand this weekend, pre launched with a waitlist and already got 9 signups so that’s really good. This is more of a medium to long term play that I don’t wanna monetize directly but I have a brand ambassador contract with AI brand that’s giving me $25 USD per signup so that’s a can stack up quickly and will be a useful tool for the creatives in my community to use for brand outreach and content ideation

    The journey continues 

    Here's the trailer reel I made for it

    https://www.instagram.com/p/DaMEPyIRZ5O/

     

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  6. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    7 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

    I've been trying to get more into social circle and hosting events, specifcally for creatives in Bali (people doing creative work) not neccesarily to meet women, but that's not a negative. 

     

    I do find cold approach to be quite powerful though, because dating/hooking up in your social circle can get messy quick

    Definitely try it out! Depends what your goals are but entrepreneur based events are cool cuz people speak the same language or you can go for a photoshoot vibe to target specifically towards women and creatives. Music based events are also a really good option since it combine both vibes and music brings people closer. Feel free to DM me and I can give you more feedback on event curation. 

    Usually I think it gets messy because the group isn't big enough and it turns into a sort of weird friend group incest situation but if there are inflows of people coming in regularly and people are ethical with their behaviours then dating in the social circle shouldn't really be an issue. 

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    Well this is why some guys dislike high body count women because they say that they're comfortable with their sexuality so if there are problems in the relationship they'll go sleep with another guy for that easy dopamine. 

    I think it's good to date with some experience since she'll already know random men can't fix her problems whereas a woman with less experience or even a virgin still idealizes men and if she finds some minor flaws with you it's more likely she'll try her luck elsewhere even if what she wants is unrealistic. 

  9. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    Perhaps your current burnout with dating stems from the lack of integration into your overall life goals and social circle. It's all connected my friend. Cold approach has an early ceiling, I'm not surprised you're reaching some diminishing returns in it. The unhealthy pattern in my experience comes from when you invest too much time in your dating life at the expense of other areas in your life. 

    I dated hot girls when I was not doing high level social circle events but the quality and how well they fit into my life has only gone up since I started doing it. 

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    This is a good reel on the topic

    https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZC77xDgA1Z/

    That's partly why women's tastes change as they get into their late 20s, they experience the different types of men in their early 20s and see that a lot of them are only good for short term hookups and are not high value partners long term. 

    Black men are one archetype and drug dealers and club promoters are another. I think it's good to understand what draws women to these type of men and learn some alpha traits as much as you can but if you got your life well setup financially in your 30s and 40s you're gonna clean up compared to this type of dude that peaks early. 

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    Cold approach has limited upside in terms of the social life you can build. If you're able to get decent recents with cold approach that's cool but social circle allows you to take those women that you approach and invite them to events to build a whole network and community for whatever you want. I host photoshoots and business events for example, you might have different interests.

    Cold approach also is just 1 on 1 so really either you end up dating one of the women you like and that's the end of it or you just hook up with a bunch of people. Social circle lets you hangout with many women at once, make cool male friends too, increase your status, throw events, make money, help and give back to the people in your community, etc. 

    This forum is a social circle, it's just online. Humans are communal we like groups of people. The same skills you learned in pickup can be used on your social life as a whole. Usually you end up with way hotter women too, what I see in cold approach only guys is they aren't able to attract or keep the highest tier of women because usually their social life is empty and boring. 

  12. Posted

    I don't agree basically any hobby has gained some type of mainstream appeal due to mostly the cross-pollination that social media allows us. Video games, trading card games and anime, for example,  were seen as super loser hobby that only men liked 10 years ago and now there are e-girls everywhere and you could get laid building out your own Yugioh card group 100%.

    It's also up to you to also have a top of the funnel side of it where you find a way to get attractive women into your circles or be able to join groups that they are a part of. A high quality dating and social life are not a given, you have to put in a lot of effort to cultivate it. If you do it right there are not many more rewarding things in life though. 

  14. Posted

    Sure but the point is not to figure out how great they are at it, that's for themselves to introspect on when looking at the quality of their relationships. The point is that most relationships still start out from social circles today, even with how prevalent online dating is.

    The most surefire way to date hot women is to be in social circles with many of them and display value over time. The guys that are narcissistic, weak willed, inconsistent, etc will weed themselves out and usually if you're a solid man with even a respectable amount of game the single women of the group will gravitate towards you. It's also the most fun way to date because your social circle should ideally be a reflection of your interests and goals if you cater it well over time. 

     

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    Israel and the IDF have been caught executing violent war crimes and sadistically punishing even innocent palestinians many times. Their ideology goes beyond protecting themselves and their people. It's think that they are the chosen ones and look down on other races and religions. Let alone the conspiracy that they are going full expansionism and want to make that happen by violently expanding their borders. 

    This is not all Israelis but seems to be the view of the current regime under Netanyahu. 

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    8 hours ago, Jirh said:

    Yeah, everyone would choose the higher-paying job if they had the choice, man or woman. But we aren't talking about work here.

    We are talking about attraction, the raw desire to have intimacy with someone.

    We are talking about the involuntary reflexes that tick the right boxes deep inside, not the calculated pragmatic choices that someone makes for a transactional arrangement.

    Those are two entirely different registers. And citing socioeconomic statistics and using them to prove a biological claim about desire will not work.

    I would say women usually take longer to really get attracted specifically because they are screening for long term characteristics. Which is why building a social circle with women works so well for dating because they get to experience you over time and the guys that fake the high status characteristics for a quick lay are weeded out. If you look good and are charismatic a lot of women are gonna like you right away but that's shallow attraction compared to really getting to know your over months and seeing that you are the man in different types of circumstances. 

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    On 6/25/2026 at 3:29 PM, integral said:

    pump that up to 12 hours a day :D 

    I can't really afford to divert time/energy away from my other work and businesses. As long as I keep continuously working towards it then it'll concretize over time. I've built out the vision in terms of compartments that I wanna try. So for example I've been working to illustrate a manga from the lore I've written. There are some problems with AI character consistency but I'm getting it to where I want it over time. Perhaps in 3 months if I'm motivated I can come out with the first volume of 200 pages. I'll release each chapter on open manga websites to build an audience and see if I can sell the physical versions as real manga books. 

     

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  19. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    Okay for who? Nobody else really cares what you do in life. Should you in your own mind be okay dying a virgin? Fuck no.

    How many cold approaches have you done in your life? Do you assume you suck at it or are you too scared to try? 

    Your excuses are silly. Humor is learned/practiced. Probably easier to get laid with low IQ than high. You can totally learn to get laid consistently. 

     

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    4 hours ago, PenguinPablo said:

    @integral I dont even necessarily believe in self development very much.

    I think its about removing all the excess BS and striving, till there is nothing left but your essence.

    I think a lot of people have that. Like their own signature. 

    Irrespective of how unglamourous what remains is. 

    Self acceptance so deep and pervasive that all striving and seeking ends.

    Just at peace with yourself.

    I think from here a better life will flow to you anyways and it might not necessarily be a crazy social life, dating, millionaire status.

    I see a lot of people go for the end result, the outcome and the more I get to know them, the less I want to be like them. In fact, I feel bad. 

    Then there's guys that dont have any of those high status indicators or lifestyle but they have real friendship and family -- loved ones.

    I think its important to understand what type of game we're playing.

    Just be careful of this self-development is relative mindset. If the goal of life would be to just remain ourselves perhaps we'd still be a non physical spirit and not individual beings. All of reality is built on evolution. From the time you were born you didn't know how to speak and write, you had to self-develop to learn english. Know your own goals and don't let other people impose theirs on you but it is foolish to think you can live your greatest life potential without self-development. 

    1 hour ago, bazera said:

    @Mayonnaise But how will that main wife be okay with you having other girlfriends?

    Would you be okay if she had other boyfriends? 

    Your main wife should ideally be bisexual and enjoy seeing new women alongside you. 

     

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    7 minutes ago, Raze said:

    Fame isn’t good either. Women who chase fame often have worse issues than ones who chase money.

    Theres a reason famous people usually marry other famous people.

    I don't think so I think some women have high standards and don't like the men in their immediate circle. I would almost consider it a green flag. Vetting and screening are very important though but that's with any relationship.

    29 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    This rests on the claim that one person should fulfill 100% of your needs - can you tell me a time in history when this was the case? I do not think this is historically the norm - and you can find evidence for this. Humans have always been more community based. This description of monogamy would apply to the more atomized version of society we have only faced in recent time.

    Not sure about it also resting on the claim that we would be supressing natural biological variance? Could you rap a bit more on that as the meaning isn't clear? As in novelty in sexual partners? We regulate many biological impulses (anger, aggression, selfishness), so the existence of a biological tendency alone doesn't determine what people ought to do.

    Well divorce only started being legal recently. They have to strictly enforce monogamy or it falls apart. 

  25. Posted

    2 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

    @LordFall I'm not discussing the concept of hypergamy or what it is. Merely that who uses the term, how it is used, and under what context, act as my own heuristic for determining the likelyhood someone has been consuming a lot of online content from algorithms that can encourage cognitive bias.

    That's fair.

    3 minutes ago, Raze said:

    This video debunks some claims about hypergamy from the redpillers and has a more balanced perspective 

     

     

    I don't really have the time to watch it. What are some of your favourite points from it?