LordFall

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  1. Bro I think the life purpose course is gonna change your life

    You didn't elaborate much on this part but it leaves me very concerned for your mindset :

    Cognitively, I feel like I have a very clear plan and a path forward right now. I'm planning to work in my current job for a few year, save up some money, start a family. On the side, I would like to explore and start working towards my life purpose, and then eventually make the switch full-time after I've saved up some money and am sure about my life purpose.  

    So really you have no plan and just hope it works out? That's what it reads to me. I don't know what industry you're in but surely you know that there is a huge wave of automation layoffs coming to all industries in the next 5 years? And I don't know how well versed you are in macroeconomics, finance and cryptocurrency but tl;dr the value of most fiat currencies is has been going to shit and is predicted to keep massively doing so over the next 10 years meaning the average job will pay less yearly?

    I'm very glad you lost motivation for your random job by just hearing about the possibility of a life purpose type orientation for your career. Obviously don't quit your job right away but not starting a business or at least a specialized career in this day and age is financial suicide. 


  2. @meta_male What process are you following? Taking random actions and being frustrate that it doesn't work is a sure way to never gain sucess.

    How many cold approaches have you done? How many instagrams have you gotten? How good is your Instagram? How many women have you asked out? Are you on dating apps? Have you gotten a professional shoot done for your dating app and your Instagram? How many events have you thrown i.e. social circle game? Do you have guys around you also into game to give you feedback and support you?

    The male dating strategy is pretty straight forward but you gotta get it to work for you. Take action -> Optimize your status 

    The male dating experience not worse than the female one IMO because when you fix your mindset and take right action you can pretty much guarantee success, just gotta take it seriously and not fall into the victim mindset. 


  3. @Princess Arabia Absolutely, identifying problems is the first step. Finding ways to fix them and beginning that journey is what most people seem to be stuck at though. Here's a graph I found that I really like a lot.

    To be a powerful leader in your life and others life you have to be close to 5 and be a problem solving machine not just figuring out that reality has issues and listing those issues to other people. If you want an example Reddit is one of the worst places for that. It's been one of my favorite websites for 15 years but the more I grow up and become a more competent human the more it rubs me the wrong way. It's filled with keyboard warriors that use forums as therapy instead of inspiration for new ideas. 

    https://www.reddit.com/r/antiwork

    https://www.reddit.com/r/collapse/

    These 2 subreddits are a good example. The reason why I dislike this mentality so much is because they point out valid issues with our worlds but their attitudes are the thing that's preventing them from solving these issues and if we all shared that same victim mindset society then would actually collapse. 

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  4. I see it everywhere on the internet, on Reddit, in real life and even in this forum. People analyzing the problems we face as a society turning to crying and complaining about the elites or the government being corrupt. The victim mindset is the antithesis of the growth mindset that self-development is based on.

    We live in an age of basically infinite power where you can empower yourself and have impact globally and instead people are worried about what some other dude is doing with his power?

    Of course there are systemic issues that need solving but collective crying is not how you achieve that in my humble opinion, our best bets as individuals is to individually empower ourself and increase our consciousness to become powerful agents of change in our social circles, cities and countries. 

    Godspeed and please become stronger today and try to not say a single complaint. It's even an error in epistemology in terms of nonduality because you invalidate your own infinite divine power each time you complain. 


  5. I will argue the other point that I'm a big fan of sports betting because it lets you engage with the medium more. Beforehand it was pure escapism and living vicariously through the athletes but now you can make some money backing your favorite team. I think it's gonna spread into shared team ownership with web 3, looking forward to that side of things. 


  6. 4 hours ago, Karmadhi said:

    But that is not how a democracy is supposed to act. A democracy like the UK where you live do not torture people like that even if they are suspected of terrorism. This is not democratic behavior. Not to mention it is endless cases, not a few incidents but systemic policy.

    How exactly do you think these noble democracies get to become a better than thou status? The UK has done plenty of war crimes and so has the United states. It's a luxury belief to be able to think that you're in a great country that's more noble than the other ones. 


  7. Yeah I totally agree with you. I know plenty of guys in western societies that are basically depressed incels but if they moved or travelled to South America/South east asia it would heal them a lot and they'd be able to connect with women more efficiently.

    I don't think something being hard mode makes it a bad thing though. I've been studying game for 14 years and my setup is pretty elaborate at this point so my situation is not typical but if I had to guess where I'll find women most compatible with my mindset it would be in cities with extremely competitive dating pools like New York, Miami, Dubai, London or Singapore. I like sophisticated in demand very hot women and they're hard to get but so fun and interesting to hangout with. 


  8. 4 hours ago, Lyubov said:

     I of course enjoy this some and I do enjoy talking some to people, I like taking photos of people and reading about their stories. But in reality I would say for some guys we aren’t necessarily very social or even have this extroverted aspect sort of designed into our personalities to be highly relatable to a lot of people. Getting laid is heavily connected to socializing and while I do think your foundation and background is important, being a jacked handsome guy of average social intelligence will open up a ton of doors, being  well groomed guy who enjoys socializing is powerful as well. I think it’s similar to online content. There is general and relatable content that everyone can vibe with and niche stuff like Actualized that not many people are interested in. I’ve always been a more niche guy and I’m embracing that. I’ve realized it’s possible to even get your social needs met as a niche person so I’m not really trying to change myself so much. 

    Depends what the results that you want. Introverted game is different than extroverted game. Introverts ironically shine with social media and social circle since we think deeply about our interest and social media is just posting about it over and over again and iterating it until it gets you your target demographic(either ideal clients or hot girls.)

    Extroverts are extremely interesting in that they don't really think about it that deeply, they mostly express emotions and talk about pop culture. 

    This is a generalization but you an absolutely enjoy socialization as a deep introvert. The key is to refuse to do it on society's terms(or to do it to the point where you understand social dynamics enough to build your own setup) and do it on your own terms. I host creative events and investing ones and they're way more fun than randomly clubbing or day gaming at the mall. I still do those other 2 activities but mostly to funnel women towards my own events. 


  9. What are we talking about and what’s worked so far and what hasn’t worked? 

    All areas of life are not created equal. Plenty of things that are hard and not worth doing and a few are easy and worthwhile. 

    You have to know your goals and desires and develop the self-awareness to know if you’re going in the right track. 


  10. Yes. You must live in a major global city if you're an ambitious person both in terms of dating and business/career.

    I lived in Toronto for 4 years and it changed my life. When I came back to Calgary and when I have clients from small towns(I'm a dating photographer) I see them having such outdated and stupid ideas that it blows my mind. They're way inferior in their understanding of the world, competency and skill level in many areas. 


  11. On 9/30/2025 at 6:00 PM, Raze said:

    Luke or Derek on the other hand actually did according to many reports, and their advice is was always largely bad and unoriginal. 

    I've been involved in a one of Luke's programs and I have nothing but great things to say about it. The knowledge was way beyond its time back then and still is today. I have a friend that bought his personal mentoring and he found like to be slow to reply and a bit unprofessional so that's the other side but the knowledge and teachings are undeniable. I've built many communities and my current business mostly off of what I learned from Luke Krogh and Michael Sartain.