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    Very good news to wake up to! Happy about the Texas flip, that's a huge message to send. 

    4 hours ago, Wilhelm44 said:

    Yeah, it would be nice if this was the beginning of the end of the billionaire class.

    Do you think billionaires in and of themselves are the problem? For me it's the fact that a lot manage to skirt around the rule of law and it's the corruption and the tax avoidance that hurts the people not really their wealth accumulation. Great business people that build successful enterprises should be rewarded but not stand above the law. 

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    2 hours ago, Ulax said:

    I'm sick of religion being put on a pedestal like this. How does religion have any philosophical merit.

    It has merit as a social tool, and its psychological roots are understandable. But the major sects of the major religions have as much philosophical merit as Shrek 5: The Porno.

    Well I'm no fan of Religion but if I had to play Devil's advocate I would say it's the main value system that gets people to think about true long term thinking in terms of the afterlife and taking that into account instead of just ruthlessly acquiring power while alive on this earth. The Greek philosophers do a good job of also reflecting on our duty and the weight of our actions but without the after life consequence insinuation, I don't think it manages to grasp human behaviour as much as religions do. 

    Religions give you an easy answer as to where you come from, what you should do in your life and what you'll experience after you die as a result of your life's actions. If it was just about that then it would be a lot more valuable than it is now but of course it got its way deep into politics and culture so that it's not simply a spiritual practice but turns into an ideology and cult in a lot of cases. In a lot of ways the Catholic Church is the successor of the Roman Empire and it perfected it's control mechanisms. 

    Once a spiritual framework turns into an empire or an ideological cult that punishes those that don't fully embrace its tenants, it loses its soul and becomes mostly pure control.

  4. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    Yeah it’s hard to wrap your mind around, even western societies are more comfortable showing violence than sex on TV. 

    The religions are specifically caught trying to demonize world and convince us that if we don’t follow their principles our souls will be tainted but in the process they seem to kill a lot of unity and love part of spirituality and replace it with judgement, shame, intolerance and overall a lot of stuff that overall sounds like devilry to me. 
     

    I told my coworker yesterday too that I was bisexual to give the thought that she can choose her life and not just go along with what her family chose for her but she just said “You know in our religion that’s the biggest sin right?” I didn’t really wanna start a religious debate at work but I wanted to ask what about murder and rape and actual crime? What is it about sexual autonomy that’s so fear inducing to ideology? I guess it cuts to the core of authoritarian control mechanisms, if you can control a beings reproduction then you got it by the balls literally. 

  5. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    His feelings are actually a microcosm of what's happening around the world as old institutions are collapsing and individualism is taking more of a hold. The reason why I think Majed is worth engaging with is because he's genuinely trying to figure this out and sharing his honest thoughts and his situation is quite difficult. He is stuck in between Stage Blue dating and Stage Orange dating and trying to reconcile it. Dating is not a activity based on freedom and love in the Middle East and a lot of other places in the world. It's built around authoritarianism and extreme pressures. Not to say that Islam is evil, it was perhaps necessary to unite humanity in the harsh region that it evolved in but it now seems to mostly comprise of dysfunctional defence and oppression mechanisms. 

    This forum is likely the most progressive and perhaps healthy support system he's exposed to so I hope you guys can see how the wish to reduce harm by silencing someone venting his angry thoughts could lead him straight down the route of further radicalization. He is trying to pull himself out of a repressive extremist organization that controls his life and I think we should assist him in that; he is not a just being hostile and trolling. This is the story of his life. 

    Just yesterday I was talking to a female coworker from Bangladesh who's been working here in Montreal and her family recently arranged a marriage for her and she's not excited for it as she says she knows what her life will look like after doing it and a lot of her freedoms will be gone. If she refuses it then her direct and extended family will disown her and she will lose all her support systems and community. 

    This is the culture Majed grew up in and the one half of my family also is part of and thus why I have particular compassion for those indoctrinated and oppressed by it. My dad won't talk to my brother because he's gay and I haven't told him I'm bisexual and he'd probably kick me out and stop talking to me as well for a time or perhaps ever. If I went back home to my home country and this leaked out without protective measures in place, I could myself face kidnapping and violence at my own family's hands. Ideology is a very powerful force and trying to pull yourself out is much harder than it seems from an outside perspective.

    Notice a lot of parents of Muslim children discourage them from getting jobs when they reach 16 and a lot of them live at home until they're 30 if not longer. This is also why building independent value and leverage is both the way to attract women but to fundamentally free yourself from other human imposing their version of reality on us. There is a relationship between freedom and love that I can't quite verbalize yet but seems key to this conundrum. 

    Let's of course encourage people to focus on love and authentic intimate connections with others but let's not underestimate the forces that are working against that. To beat our enemy we have to deeply understand it. The enemy here being the lack of consciousness and the resulting dysfunction that afflict much of humanity. The reason I linked it to war is that this is the end of result of us not being able to understand each other. You see it today in all kinds of ways both in gender wars but in the literal wars that are starting to happen more frequently. 

  6. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    15 minutes ago, cetus said:

    You don't deserve to be here, and this forum has no place for the likes of you. @Leo Gura

    I mean I would introspect on your viewpoint, it seems low consciousness to me. Refusing to engage with people with different viewpoints and yes even violent thoughts and tendencies are how we escalate to the wars we see today. Be careful living in a Stage Green bubble of safety where you reject anything unsavoury. 

    Majed is clearly frustrated and fed up with life and he's sharing his thoughts before resorting to expressing them on the universe. How do you think God would respond to him if he talked to him directly? Certainly not with your comment.

    Violence is part of the world and we have to understand it if we are ever to solve it for good. I believe we are going to do in the next 20 years, the future is looking bright! 

    I'm reminded of Daryl Davis, a black man who attended KKK rallies and befriended leaders of the Klan and is responsible for getting over 200 members to renounce their ideology and leave it. This is how we heal the world, not by demonizing those who are lashing out. 

     

  7. Posted · Edited by LordFall

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    The most interesting thing about rape as a crime is that it's unjustifiable even to the people committing it so the vast majority of rapists refuse to believe they're rapists. 

    Criminological and psychological studies estimate that approximately 50% to 60% of convicted sex offenders (including rapists) minimize, justify, or deny core elements of their offense, with 15% to 25% remaining in full categorical denial (claiming they did not commit the act or that it never occurred).

    Research indicates that only 5% to 15% of convicted rapists fully acknowledge both their actions and explicit intent without using cognitive rationalizations or self-justifications.

    Brings me back to Leo's point that if most people that commit evil acts really had the full consciousness of what they're doing a lot of them would commit suicide in shame and guilt. 

    It brings a lot of of credibility to the point of feminists saying to teach men not to rape. Enthusiastic consent is an important concept to understand if you're gonna have casual sex with strangers. Some of the advice that I see from men online and even on this forum seems to land them in a murky grey area and you should definitely air on the side of caution when it comes to these things. 

  9. Posted

    I mean I see this line of argumentation used all the time on this forum. People claiming that life is not real and things don't exist. I have to then bring it back to direct experience and ask them to stop using a laptop to reply to me and use instead the power of universal consciousness to communicate instead of Internet and silicon chips. 

    Phenomenology is a hard topic and the difference between a profound point and something that's easily proven to be very stupid is quite thin lol. 

  10. Posted

    You might enjoy this song and this artist as a whole. He's a very well thought rapper that touches on other people using lower consciousness needs met and rightfully critiques that approach

    He's also a man who had a lot of pain and learned to transmute it into higher forms of creation and accrue a lot of value for himself in the process. He's a good inspiration for your path specifically brother. 

  11. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    6 minutes ago, Majed said:

    I've had a warning from @Natasha Tori Maru 

    Because of this 

    And my reaction to this warning is as follows:

    Understanding radically different perspectives requires seeing their validity. 

    My question is simple: do male violence perpetrators exist? Obviously yes, and in relatively significant quantities. 

    Then this means that their perspective has some validity. 

    Just labeling them as evil monsters is antithetical to truth seeking and perspective taking. 

    Yes, you deserve it.

    Being an angry butthurt dude and using violence to achieve your goals is a somewhat productive strategy that yields some form of results for sure. That is why some men that haven't thought it through use that strategy. Becoming a thief or a bandit instead of getting a job works a little bit for some amount of time and some people have become very wealthy through it.

     Compared to win-win solutions that enhances all party's lives; it's a trash strategy that deserves to be shutdown in every way imaginable. 

    Also transmutation is a thing. Raw energy is useless it burns everything it touches. Try standing on the sun. Well channeled, it becomes one of the most useful, appreciated and powerful forces in the universe. Same with raw masculinity. 

  12. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    1 hour ago, Majed said:

    @something_else Nah i've had my fair share of taking responsibility and trying to fix myself, it's women's fault. At this point idgaf. 

    Well what value are you offering these women on the street? I told you to host music events and start working with local musicians in Beirut, have you done that? 

    Even in most socially open societies cold approach is still low ROI, let alone in the more conservative part of the world that you're in.

    Don't blame women for having high standards, I also dislike random uncalibrated men coming up to me with an unclear offer. Humble yourself and think that people don't owe you shit for existing nor for trying to talk to them and instead see it from their perspective of also being a stressed human with limited time and wonder what would make their life better? Why aren't you dialed in to some of the coolest events happening in your city and country? You can volunteer your time to promote someone else's events or build up your own and then invite women there and once you're a guy that has an awesome social life and knows a lot of women, your social life will start to take care of itself.

    Be careful of using your ego in pickup, it's a terrible handicap. I have more trouble than extroverts socializing and by default most people find my ideas too complicated and hard to relate to. Do you think I got bitter and blamed the world for my lack of results? Yes of course. Then I got over it and found a better strategy. 

    This was the summer I got laid the most in my life. Do you wanna guess how much cold approach I did? Barely any. Do you know what I did? I got a high value skill(photography), offered cool guys in the new city I was moving to(Toronto) free photoshoots as a networking strategy and ended up making friends with one who I moved in with. Becoming roommates with that guy lead me to meeting another club promoter roommate who had access to a free booth and bootles 3 times a week,(booths in Toronto and a bottle is around $2000) and I did a free photoshoot for him and shot content for him for free multiple times.

    All the environments that you see in the video are worth thousands of dollars if you pay for them and I paid $0 for it because I offered value to men who already had access to them. Then you offer women free access to them and THEN AND ONLY THEN do you try to game and pull.

    Do you see how that's nowhere close to being a random dude on the street spamming cold approaches? That method is like spamming cold approaches but asking people for jobs and getting frustrated you're still unemployed. Just because it works for a few people does not make it a good strategy.

    Take the advice I've given you, use the next 1-2 years to build massive value and you will be in abundance of cool women that wanna sleep with you. 

    Also my guy realize that you are ideologically conflicted. You are probably brainwashed by Islam telling you that you are superior for existing as a man but that leads to your parents setting up an arranged marriage for you and you've watched western videos of random dudes sleeping with a lot of chicks and you added both thoughts together without really breaking down how the dynamics work.

    It's kinda like a Stage Green socialist college student being frustrated that other people have more money than him but he doesn't have a business and has a part time job. You can be frustrated at the world or you can become obsessed with acquiring value and exchanging it to others to get what you want. Some people get paid $10,000 USD to have a 1 hour lunch with them because their skillset and knowledge is so well crafted. How much would the average person pay to have lunch with said socialist college student? Now same thing why would random women on the street be desperate to get to know you if you haven't crafted much value in your life? 

    Good on you for taking a lot of action and doing a couple of thousands of approaches but hitting your head against the wall without improving your strategy is of course gonna lead to a lot of frustration if not boiling anger at the world. Understandable, now swallow your pride and become one of the coolest guys in your country and all your dreams will come true.

    It sounds like a wild statement but I'm basically the coolest guys in most environments that I step in. Not from an egotistical frame battle angle but most other men I meet even the successful professionals are shy and stifled and I come in making friends with everyone and strategizing on what awesome things we can do and build together. Being cool basically means adding value, you can do it by being in a good mood and saying jokes but overall taking that same energy and using it to better the lives of the people in your circle over years will make you an irreplaceable men in most of the people's lives you meet as opposed to once again being A RANDOM DUDE ON THE STREET WITH NOT MUCH TO OFFER. 

  13. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    9 hours ago, WonderSeeker said:

    Personally, when I look at the most mainstream self-help books, I always say "gee, that might make a good doorstop!"

    Why read this when I could have read just a quarter of the Book of Not-Knowing? I'd be wasting my time. After reading over 100 books, I will take a higher book every time, not something that's loaded with BS tips and tricks that flood the mid with shit 

    Would you say The Book of Not-Knowing is your favorite spirituality book? I do feel that way like the strategy and knowledge based books are cool and useful but the one of the next things I'm looking to read is a more mystical type of book to wrap the knowledge into higher consciousness. 

    @Vynce Did you read the paper book or listen to the audiobook of Atomic Habits? Surprised you didn't get any takeaways from it. 

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    5 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

    @LordFall You push your agenda in relation to your kink lol.

    In what way? My main agenda is live and let live.

    He asked if he's the only man who feels like more of a woman and that perhaps the masculine identity doesn't fit who he wants to be. I simply pointed out that not only is quite a common experience but being a femboy is also attractive to a lot of people.

    If he's used to hanging out in judgemental conservative circles then of course he will mostly have encountered small minded and judgemental people that will never accept him for who he feels like he wants to be. 

  16. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    On 5/3/2026 at 5:07 PM, Never_give_up said:

    I am ashamed of writing this but I hope this community won't judge me.

    I don't like my role as a man. I don't want to die at wars, protect, provide. I don't want to fight other men for stupid reasons. I want to have fun. I want to be cared and yes even protected. I want to have fun like women do. Even sexually I am very submissive. I don't know what's wrong with me but I feel if I pretend that I don't want all these things I actually am not real to myself and if I try to act as a man I dysfunction.

    I am straight and have some masculine traits but not many. I am more of a woman than a man. 

    I swear if I could switch my gender I would do it but with current technology we can't do that completely so there is no way I will become a trans (I am not saying trans women aren't women but that's my personal opinion). 

    How do I live in this harsh world that doesn't understand men like me. Most people try to shame me for not being a manly man and the rest don't care. I mean it's good they don't care , it's their choice, but what do I do?

    Does any other man feel like me or I am an exception? I have never heard of any other man say stuff like this even online, so I don't know how this will be percieved, I am kinda anxious posting this. I am even ashamed to talk like this to my psychologist, but I will probably take the step and do it. 

     

    Maybe you're a femboy or a full on trans woman or just more feminine man than average. I think that's great, Femboys are very attractive to a lot of people, myself included.

    Fun fact if you go on Reddit and look at all the porn subreddits, the Femboys one is one of the ones with the highest weekly viewers. It's a pretty popular identity that mainstream society shames.

    If I were you I'd go on Reddit and explore the communities along those terms that are text based and explore these questions and you will probably be able to find stories that let you make peace with your identity.

    There are millions of other men that feel like you do, you probably won't find a lot of them talking openly about it in more restrictive countries or even in most circles in the progressive ones. If you know where to look online and there a lot of them talking about it though! 

    https://www.reddit.com/r/feminineboys/

    For me, no I cannot relate. I would be curious to live as a woman for like 1 day to see what it's like but then I'd want back to my male identity. I love and thrive under brutal competition with other males and the quest to building power and leverage with the goal of building my dream life and bringing more feminine individuals into my life feels very natural to me. I'm very much so a provider male.

    I've recently come to terms with my bisexual identity and it's been a lot of fun exploring it! Society is very behind in terms of our awareness of identities that aren't mainstream but we've made a lot of progress over the past 20 years. In another 20 years I think all kinds of alternative identities will become mainstream and accepted by most people. 

    There's also the Peter Pan Syndrome to keep in mind where perhaps part of what you're feeling comes from the jarring reality of having to become an adult and provide for yourself whether you're a man or woman. Perhaps part of your goal in striving for femininity is avoidance of responsibility which to a point we all feel and I can definitely relate to. I would say they are separate but potentially overlapping issues though but don't fundamentally have to do with your gender identity. 

  18. Posted

    @Rafael Thundercat Yes agreed, I think that by adding the percentage to the model it makes it better, more useful and more practical to assess individuals and our own progress in life. 

    I think your pushback makes sense but I will say that the characterizing factor of Stage Green is empathy and fighting back against injustice. Therefore the organizations they build are based on that as opposed to being more systematic and actually causing change. 

  19. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    41 minutes ago, something_else said:

    One of the defining characteristics of being tier 2 is that people lower on the spiral don't trigger you that much, because you understand why they are acting the way they are.

    If you're being severely irritated by behaviour that's characteristic of lower stages, say stage green, it's possible that irritation is not coming from a Tier 2 place.

    I think you can be stuck in a mix of the 2 where you're starting to build systems to add value to the world and you get frustrated that other perspectives don't quite fit into it. These stages are not binary.

    To me at 20% stage yellow integration frustration seems inevitable but when you get to lets say 100% integration and 20% Stage Turquoise then the resistance starts to make sense to you and you start to integrate other perspectives into your work and building solutions that integrate their limited viewpoints and resources as opposed to judging them for it. 

    I think the difference is Stage Green is stuck in a pure reactionary phase and isn't actually building many systems to start to fix the injustices they feel in the world. The most they do is organize and protest(which is usually a movement started by another person that you just add your presence and emotions to) but when you start to build an organization that addresses the world's problems I think that's when you take your first big step into Stage Yellow. 

  20. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    Optogenetics sound quite cool, seems like it could lead to huge breakthroughs in fighting diseases like Alzheimers and Dementia. 

    On 10/18/2026 at 9:06 PM, kavaris said:

    Iuno why just like normal observations cant be the award winning thing, as like, when people come into the world, their indifference and misunderstanding of everything is so high, but then the technology is so high, in a way thats not observing like, what the issues are on the practical level first. Like, science doesnt reflect on science as something targeting that gap between technology and being human, its just forwarding observations that live out on a far ledge of the universe. Like they think they are solving problems from a more expanded plane, when its got lots of obstacles and intermittent dilemmas that separate normal experience from high end technology.

    Like this award / nobel prize is itself a fake building block getting placed between technology and human experience. We have to close that gap since we are constantly adding junky blocks between the two now.

    Well most observations are not that useful, they need to be refined over years to become breakthroughs that can help mankind. Everyone has thoughts but the value of those thoughts is quite limited unless you work on them for a while and researchers do that to the point that some of them win Nobel Prizes for their work. 

    For example if your introspection and consciousness work has led you to insights that can similarly cure people with Alzheimers which is caused by neurodegenerative decay then you should work to get that published as well.

    I'm gonna assume that's not the case but I'm sure you have some other field of interest that you're working on and that you can provide value in! 

  22. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    13 hours ago, Ulax said:

    All the best re the scaling man. I look forward to hearing how it progresses.

    My projects are going well overall. Here are three of them:

    I am following a like 13 certfiicate cybersecurity path atm that will take me a few years to get through. Currently on certificate 2. I'm proud of my consistency but I question whether it is the right path for me. But the path is ambitious and potentially noble, and that motivates me for sure.

    My pickup path has been going sorta well. I am working with a Todd V coach and getting feedback on audio-infields, which is a real game-changer for me. I am struggling atm with approach anxiety again. But I also had the best ever approach of my life a couple weeks back, which opened my mind a lot.

    Academic wise, I am currently trying to do the full lecture syllabus for Yale course of 'America at 250'. I am on lecture 5, and am really pleased with my progress. I've never done the fulll syllabus (all lectures, recommended readings, articles etc) of a lecture series before, so it grows my confidence too.

    That's awesome man, keep it up. My only feedback is if you find a way to integrate your pursuits so that they feed off of eachother, you unlock levels of alignment that aren't possible for average people. I've found great success in mingling my business efforts with my social life and the people I meet through it I'm much more compatible with than just interacting with the silos of people in each field. 

    Especially in terms of pickup, talking to women that aren't part of the communities you wanna inhabit feels a lot of the time like time to go through a wall face first instead of just creating a room people wanna be in or just joining the rooms without using brute force exposure therapy. You know my perspective by now but you should definitely host an event around a hobby you enjoy and I think you'll enjoy that much more than spamming cold approaches. 

    Personally I also get a lot of approach anxiety when talking to women out of the blue. I usually force myself to do it but a lot of times I realize there was no real reason for me to force an interaction with this person. Whereas when I create rooms where the women in it can benefit from my knowledge or we can collab on something, it feels effortless to talk to them because I know I have a lot to offer.

    It also depends if you're looking for alignment and compatibility or just casual sex. 

  23. Posted

    On 10/31/2026 at 2:51 PM, Schahin said:

    In my childhood in Germany I encountered racism innumerous times. The first time I was 6 years old, when somebody said to me get back to your own country, and that repeated itself maybe another 30 times. Imagine being a child and hearing that. I never had german friends to the contrary the Germans disrespected me.

    And when at your youth, you want to go clubbing, the clubs didnt let you in, because of how you look like, so we went doing some shitty stuff on the street, faked some IDs and went into those shady little casinos to lose our money and got some alcohol to drink on the street. I never had any german friends, but everything from Ucrainian, Turkish, Kurdish, you name it. but not a single German friend

    When 2015 came with the migration wave, thank God everything changed. The demographics turned to our favour and we started to be accepted, you could literally feel the change happening and  being much more welcome and tolerated. So for me its a huge win.

    Interesting perspective, thank you for sharing! It seems Germans are much more proud and xenophobic than other nations like Canadians for example. I had a few instances of kids being a bit rude to me growing up but never had issues making Canadian friends as a 2nd generation immigrant. I wonder where that stems from; perhaps it's due to Canada being originally a nation of immigrants? Can't really be the case since the US had plenty of racism and has a similar immigrant background. 

  24. Posted

    Totally agreed. It's what separates Stage Green from Stage Yellow. Stage green complains about the unfairness of the world and feels like an eternally slighted victim. Stage Yellow understands the systems that power our world and starts to create new systems that benefit himself or herself and the people around them.

    A LOT of Stage Green and below people demonize money as opposed to just learning effective ways to generate value and ways to package an offer. Alex Hormozi's books are great for understanding how to do this. 

    48 minutes ago, Alfonsoo said:

    As a tier 1, you need to send me money

    Hopefully you're joking and learning how to generate income for yourself. Getting others to subsidize you will always leave you under their control. If you're an extremely submissive person it might satisfy you more than the average person but still it'll leave you vulnerable and at the mercy of others. 

  25. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    On 10/10/2026 at 2:49 AM, Leo Gura said:

    Bro. Prometheus is aweful.

     

    On 10/10/2026 at 3:57 AM, Leo Gura said:

    The plot makes so sense. It's like a bunch of random monsters hatching for no reason out of nowhere and fucking up Alien lore.

    That's fair, I don't know much about the Alien Lore. What I like is how it portrayed a plausible version of reality where one of our techbros starts to seek out the secret to immortality through far fetched tales of an alien civilization. How they show the archeologists that were nerds excited to connect the dots and find the drawings that prove the existence of the engineers was cool. Then when they actually meet the engineer who immediately gets offended at being interrogated by humans and tries to kill them all while resuming our extinction was pretty funny. I wished they made Weyland's daughter survive, that would be a cool character to bring back. 

    It also comes at the angle of the creation of humanity through another angle. The black goo genesis idea is very interesting and is like a 4th path to think about part from the religious creation story, atheistic big bang and the actualized.org nondual the mind thinks itself universally from scratch. Now we have this non-communicative advanced species that clones itself on a new world and then assesses if the emerging civilization is worthy or not. It's actually pretty close to the Abrahamic religion judgement after death angle. 

    I haven't watched Alien Covenant yet but I saw the trailer where David drops the goo on them to wreck them and then perfect the Xenomorph I thought was a pretty cool plot. I wish they would make another prequel with a full movie from the pov of the Engineer's civilization and how their politics, engineering, culture and dating worked that would be interesting.