LordFall

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    3 hours ago, Carl-Richard said:

    You want a physical mechanism? That's easy: excess prolactin from blowing your load constantly (prolactin is the "anti-dopamine" hormone), sexual arousal is also dopaminergic which in excess leads to downregulation of the dopaminergic system (and internet porn is bred like social media platforms to be hyper-salient so this effect is especially pronounced compared to mere circumstantial sexual arousal). Whether or not it is enough to be "substantial" is again up to the individual and the extent of use (and context like recovery time), but it's easy to draw a direct link from porn consumption, masturbation and lower energy levels through the physical mechanisms mentioned above.

    And it works very much like drugs in that it is hyper-salient, it is low effort and you can access it and redose very easily, and accessing it doesn't require things that build resilience (e.g. like lifting weights, highly dopaminergic but builds resilience and has a wide range of cascading physiological effects), and instead, the downregulating effects lead to a spiralling of resilience, which is consistent with the definition of addiction leading to detrimental effects in your life.

    Yeah this part makes a lot of sense. I definitely feel like I have lower willpower than I'd like. Not easy to find a replacement to porn as a stress reliever though. 

  2. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    On 3/28/2026 at 2:17 AM, Zenterus said:

    Brother, I didnt say they ugly. I said they're not 10s in my book.

    I can get girls like this easily through a session of daygame or nightgame, so it doesn't justify me going through all the shit you have to go through to build a "high value social circle" if this is the quality im getting.

    But then again, thats my opinion. You are entitled to yours.

    No it's not an opinion mate, social circle is an extension of cold approach. If you are getting the result that you say you are getting that's great. The next step is to use your social life as a tool to reach other goals that you are in life. 

    I've had plenty of one night stands and that's okay but having high value impactful relationships is more valuable then that. If you can organize both your friend circle and the woman or women in your life towards mutually beneficially goals like building a business or shooting content in a monetisable way then you can turn your socializing from something that you do on weekends to get away from an unpleasant lifestyle towards building a wholistic lifestyle. 

    @Lazarus93 My IGN was Astro, I was high elo mostly in season 4 and 5. Then I mostly quit to get more into pickup and business. 

    @Ulax Yeah the gamer mindset helped my dating life a lot. Helped me see my insecurities as just skill trees I had to develop, not fundamental flaws of my character. A lot of people don't see it that way though and basically yeah are visibly at some of the lowest ranks in core skills and get upset when you point that out even in a constructive and not shame based way. 

     

  3. Posted

    This is a really cool trend that's been happening these last few years with livestreamers filming themselves exploring China

    Ludwig is there right now and in one of the vlogs they accidentally talk their way into staying at a private middle school staff accommodation

    It's a pretty cool example of cultural exchange and I think situations like this will help both hegemons make peace with each other through the integration of their people. 

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    Gonna have a talk with my unofficial business partner today as he wishes to incorporate the business and have me give him 50% of shares.

    I'm not really comfortable with that as I don't want to give up 50% to a single person as well as honestly he's a good reliable guy but not essential to the business and not worth giving 50% away but I have to navigate that skillfully to find a fair compromise to the both of us. 

  8. Posted · Edited by LordFall

    Here is a good example from a buddy of mine in a group chat, I love this dude but he's not great with women and I've been with him many times in rooms with hot girls and he hasn't attracted the hottest one a single time that I've seen; let in every room he's in lol 

    Sometimes the ostrich effect helps us avoid the pain of not being good enough temporarily but I don't believe a lifetime of delusion is worth a few years of grinding to figure out the dating world. 

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    1 minute ago, cistanche_enjoyer said:

    I had an experience with a girl full of tattoos who turned out to have BPD. 

    It was one of the worst experiences of my life, but at the same time it was essential in building the character I have today. Dating a BPD girl is basically a speedrun in personal development :D

    Same actually. A lot of women use tattoos as almost BDSM in that they like the pain or to punish themselves. I would definitely say a lot of tattoos is a yellow flag if not straight up red. 

  12. Posted

    Your looks will rarely hold you back as a man. But you do need to make up for them with being more charming or finding an edge somewhere yes. If you just want a mid girlfriend though it won't be a big deal but I'd still encourage anyone to level themselves up no matter how they look. 

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    Well if we're gonna talk about the creepy cults like epsteins worshipping sex and materialism, might as well talk about spiritual cults too.

    Anybody has tried to join one or is in one now? What is it about and what principles do they have?

    I looked into one called the Temple of Set one time, they're like a left hand path based organization. Didn't end up meeting anyone from it but I've met a few people in real life that had experience with those secret societies and they seemed like a niche mastermind based groups with interesting teachings. 

     

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    I think he's doing the lord's work especially posting this publicly all on Youtube at the scrutiny of the americans, israel and CCP. I'm sure he's wrong on some things but his explanations generally make sense to me. All these conspiracy theories need to be put out and cross examined over the next few years and I think AI will help humanity get to the truth of our history. I don't doubt that there are plenty of cults and shady organizations manipulating reality for their selfish goals, I would be shocked if it wasn't the case in depth.

    I believe mankind is about to transcend itself though so it's an honor to live through these revolutionary times. 

  21. Posted

    I recommend everyone do some daygame and nightgame completely sober. Seducing a woman while intoxicated is different than sober. A lot of times when you're drunk even if she does consent it's just two people living a temporary moment of escapism and not really finding meaning. I remember one of the coolest one night stands I ever had in some Toronto promoter's penthouse he let me fuck a girl in his bed and there was the whole city watching and then we went back to sleep at my place and I had such a headache and my vape tasted burnt and it was awkward the next day and I never talked to that girl again even though we had a great time the night before. It's fun to do once in a while but I'm an INTP and value emotional connection so using myself and women just for sex even if she does enjoy it definitely feels empty. 

  24. Posted

    @CARDOZZO I mean they should be pissed out about the system being rigged against them. Being angry and then venting that anger physically on another human being has more to do with a victim complex than red pill ideology though. Red Pill was mostly about self-empowerment. The original writters like Rollo Tomassi don't write much about how women suck, it's more about getting you to see the system from a different paradigm than the default mainstream view of "don't worry we're all in this together don't overthink too much!" which is what they call the naive blue pill mindset. 

  25. Posted

    I have it happen sometimes but its not usually the girls I really want. I wouldn't be too jealous, the whole point of game is to be at the cause not the effect. If he goes out once a week and has 2 women approach him that's only 8 new leads a month.

    You can easily do that yourself with a good online dating profile and going out 1 week as well and just being proactive with cold approaching.