speaking endlessly forever

[Olaf]

So what I feel makes me speak more endlessly is being free to express yourself. The freedom to express yourself, or giving yourself permission to express yourself. This also has a lot to do with high status and low status. If you feel you are low status, you feel like you don't have the freedom to speak. Like, imagine you are a billionaire. You talk however the hell you want because you have the freedom to do so.

Permission happens by feeling like you are alpha. When you feel like you are controlled by someone else, by a job, a manager, other people, then there are things you can and cannot say, and you have to filter yourself. Or another one would be a friend group where something is "cool" and something is not "cool." Well, fuck, that is your boundary of expression. We can only talk about this, but not about that. That is filtered form of expression.

And now, in our mind, we have a million more filters. An example would be the filter of what your parents will think. What if people you know hear you? What if you say something that was supposed to be a secret? What if you say something dumb? What if you ruin your reputation? What if you speak freely and get into a fight? ALL of this is going on in your head before you speak. And then all you can get out is, "Hello, my name is Olaf." HAHAHAHA. What the fuck is that? That's like all you could EVER possibly say? Of course not.

Yet you have such high standards for yourself about what is a "good sentence" or an "inappropriate" or "wrong" sentence. What if you just speak, no matter what people think? Imagine you were talking to yourself on the top of a mountain. You would be able to talk to yourself for hours. Yet when faced with people, all of that doesn't come out.

So being unfiltered is having minimal or zero filter between your thoughts and speaking them. You are not preparing what you say. You say things without preparation. You speak and might be surprised by your words afterwards. I catch myself being like, "I really said that? Wow." Like, in a good way, not like shame or anything. Just like, wow, I am getting more unfiltered.

And society is so, so, so filtered. Like, one wrong thing said and they all get upset, as society is a bit autistic, including me, so everything is taken LITERALLY LOGICALLY. Yet words don't mean that much. Most of communication is subcommunication. This is why energy is more important than the right line. Right line with bad energy will always fail. Right energy with the wrong line will win in the end.

So that's why I don't even care so much about what I say. I can talk about cow's milk for half an hour and it doesn't matter, because energy is more important than words. At least in socializing. Not when you are talking about money or running a business, but when it comes down to socializing. Now, what I noticed is that if you are low vibe, meaning low in energy, boring and you talk a lot, people kind of zone out. When you talk a lot but your energy is super passionate, a free range of expression, high vibe, light, fun, emotional, not heavy or logical, then people get drawn to it like moths to a flame.

This is why you can have zero success, then hit flow state and get all of this success, not because your words or pickup lines got better, but because your subcommunication improved massively.

If you disagree, feel free. This is how I see it and experience it in my own life.

Edited August 9 by Olaf

[Yimpa]

When in doubt, just say meow.

[Olaf]

@Yimpa or start barking hehe

[LordFall]

4 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Yimpa or start barking hehe

Works for Drake