Starting to get some gray hairs

[StarStruck]

And I’m not even that old. All that though work has claimed its toll. And I’m not even that old. On the one hand I carry it as a badge of honor and on the other hand it causes fear. A girl pointed this fear out to me and I was totally blind to it. Only after contemplating it I saw she was right. I just want to stay forever young. There is romanticism to old age. I have seen it. 

Edited December 4, 2023 by StarStruck

[Nemra]

I have a little patch of white hair, and it's cool, imo. Grey is also cool. Own it, and if they don't like it, then they are boring.

Edited December 4, 2023 by Understander

[Lila9]

That's life, no one stays young forever.

You always shame women for aging in your posts here, but you are not immune to that either. It's better to accept aging and death while you are still young and come to terms with that, because if you don't do that, it would be more difficult and create huge suffering in your psyche.

This is an opportunity to learn to look at people's character more than their looks and to build a character yourself, because there is nothing worse than an old person who lacks character and has a shitty personality.

[Snader]

My female friend was cutting my hair as usual as she suddenly noticed some new grey hair. I panicked first, but then she said that I will become a cool silver fox soon and this future self-image came to my mind:

So I calmed down.

Edited December 4, 2023 by Snader

[StarStruck]

@Lila9 females have a biological clock. That is nothing to do with shame. At least I don’t have to worry about that. 

[Kuba Powiertowski]

@StarStruck I started going gray relatively early, after I was 20. Genetic conditioning:) Now, at the age of 45, I'm completely gray like Gandalf:) But whatever. Guys from the construction industry say: silver on your head, gold in your pockets and steel in your pants

[An young being]

5 hours ago, Snader said:

My female friend was cutting my hair as usual as she suddenly noticed some new grey hair. I panicked first, but then she said that I will become a cool silver fox soon and this future self-image came to my mind:

So I calmed down.

A popular actor in my locality mostly prefers to keep his hair white and he even popularised the salt and pepper look. In fact, the white hair looks better than the black one:

 

[Princess Arabia]

I know 12 yr olds with grey hair. I guess they're old. Geesh, the meanings we put to things and appearances. Don't we judge ourselves enough.

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, StarStruck said:

@Lila9 females have a biological clock. That is nothing to do with shame. At least I don’t have to worry about that. 

Let's compare our worries. I wonder which one is greater. Limp dick or the inability to have children.

[StarStruck]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Let's compare our worries. I wonder which one is greater. Limp dick or the inability to have children.

If you eat and exercise. Don’t watch porn. You don’t have to worry about your dick. It is no rocket science. 

[Princess Arabia]

Just now, StarStruck said:

If you eat and exercise. Don’t watch porn. You don’t have to worry about your dick. It is no rocket science. 

Lying also creates a limp dick. Stress also creates a limp dick. Impotence is caused by numerous factors other than diet and porn watching. Diet is a major factor but so is age. It's not the age per se but factors that are responsible that are done repeatedly over time.

[StarStruck]

21 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Lying also creates a limp dick. Stress also creates a limp dick. Impotence is caused by numerous factors other than diet and porn watching. Diet is a major factor but so is age. It's not the age per se but factors that are responsible that are done repeatedly over time.

If lying caused limp dick every PUA wouldn’t be able to do the deed lol

[Princess Arabia]

15 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

If lying caused limp dick every PUA wouldn’t be able to do the deed lol

They are still young and haven't lied enough.

[BlueOak]

13 hours ago, StarStruck said:

@Lila9 females have a biological clock. That is nothing to do with shame. At least I don’t have to worry about that. 

LOL

No you do, you really do. Its only something you are going to appreciate as you age, in too many ways to mention. 
So yeah if you want to excel in something you need youth for, go do it now, not later.

[BlueOak]

Oh about the hair thing just shave it down, its the eyebrows that are annoying.

[Yimpa]

One of my girl friends has some gray hair. I’ve known her for several months, yet only noticed it now.

We tend to focus on something we put our minds to.