How to get sexual and emotional needs met while single

[somegirl]

1 minute ago, Chives99 said:

suppose that doesnt really help you though, men have much higher sex drives

So do I, with the right person 😂

[integral]

5 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

suppose that doesnt really help you though, men have much higher sex drives

I think thats a myth. 

[Princess Arabia]

10 minutes ago, Chives99 said:

I get that women need a connection for sex, but if you're very sexual engaging a service could work and massages arent sex they just give touch which the person may crave.

Try to think outside your own box and realize women are different from men when it comes to sexual needs and how to satisfy it. There's a reason why that industry you're suggesting caters to mostly men. 

[Princess Arabia]

4 minutes ago, integral said:

I think thats a myth. 

I think so too cause my gfs are always horny asf. Men just get turned on more easily and it doesn't take much if the physical attraction is already there. Say blah to a woman whose turned on by you and the deal is over. Say blah to a man attracted to you and he says rinse and repeat, c'mon baby.

[ValiantSalvatore]

Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, read this book and you can think for yourself. It's better than the forum advice I guarantee it. 

This also counts for men. 

Edited June 10, 2023 by ValiantSalvatore

[Chives99]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I think so too cause my gfs are always horny asf. Men just get turned on more easily and it doesn't take much if the physical attraction is already there. Say blah to a woman whose turned on by you and the deal is over. Say blah to a man attracted to you and he says rinse and repeat, c'mon baby.

men dont need to get to know someone to have sex with them i think thats the difference.

 

10 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Try to think outside your own box and realize women are different from men when it comes to sexual needs and how to satisfy it. There's a reason why that industry you're suggesting caters to mostly men. 

i see

[Schizophonia]

8 hours ago, Chives99 said:

massage parlours and escorts are great if u want to get your rocks off, but it wont provide an emotional connection although you can chit chat with them to build social skills and have nice conversation.

It's true if you pay for an ugly and stupid Romanian whore.
There are "high end" prostitutes who specialize in providing real companionship.

I went to see escorts but I regret because it sucked and I certainly fed the mafia, lol.
If I had to do it over again, I would do it differently.

Edited June 10, 2023 by Schizophonia

[somegirl]

17 minutes ago, ValiantSalvatore said:

Women's Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, read this book and you can think for yourself. It's better than the forum advice I guarantee it. 

This also counts for men. 

❤️❤️❤️

[Chives99]

11 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's true if you pay for an ugly and stupid Romanian whore.
There are "high end" prostitutes who specialize in providing real companionship.

I went to see escorts but I regret because it sucked and I certainly fed the mafia, lol.
If I had to do it over again, I would do it differently.

lol do your research theres certainly hidden gems

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, somegirl said:

*sigh* I guess there is no other way around it. I can't get these needs met on my own somehow. 

Welcome to jerking off.

Edited June 10, 2023 by Leo Gura

[StarStruck]

46 minutes ago, somegirl said:

As a girl, I could get sex without paying 🤣🤣🤣

There are tons of guys who will love you too but the problem is that you want to date up. Perhaps your standards are too high? If you wanted you could get a nice guy in no time. 

[Chives99]

8 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

There are tons of guys who will love you too but the problem is that you want to date up. Perhaps your standards are too high? If you wanted you could get a nice guy in no time. 

why would she date someone she isnt attracted to?? would you??? no i dont think so. 

[somegirl]

13 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

There are tons of guys who will love you too but the problem is that you want to date up. Perhaps your standards are too high? If you wanted you could get a nice guy in no time. 

How are my standards high? 😊

Unfortunately it's not enough to just be nice. That's the bare minimum. Guys have to step up. 

Edited June 10, 2023 by somegirl

[somegirl]

Just now, Chives99 said:

why would she date someone she isnt attracted to?? would you??? no i dont think so. 

Absolutely 😂

[StarStruck]

5 minutes ago, somegirl said:

How are my standards high? 😊

Unfortunately it's not enough to just be nice. That's the bare minimum. Guys have to step up. 

Fair enough. So what do you want in a guy?

[Chives99]

3 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Fair enough. So what do you want in a guy?

dont worry man you'll find the right person , you just have to keep on putting yourself out there

[somegirl]

50 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Fair enough. So what do you want in a guy?

Good question... I figured I like guys that are different in fashion sense (like wearing earrings, necklaces). I want him to express his authentic self and have positive outlook on life. That's so freaking attractive to me. And has to be physically attractive and handsome. Has to be adventurous or active in any way. Would be nice if he knows to play instrument or is into art in other form - like film making.

I value honesty (even if it hurts me, I wanna hear the truth) and loyalty too so those things he needs to value too. Has to be protective over me and respect me. Has to be into self-improvement stuff and open minded. 

Edited June 10, 2023 by somegirl

[ivankiss]

Suffer through it. That's kind of the whole point of it. Feel the cravings, the frustration, the desperation... Experience it all fully. 

The cycle is usually broken unexpectedly, by an individual you cannot say 'no' to. The attraction is just that strong.

You should not be looking to end your period of 'celibacy'. Let it happen on its own. Let what you need come to you.

Last time I took a break it wasn't a walk in a park... but wow the benefits.

[somegirl]

17 minutes ago, ivankiss said:

Let what you need come to you.

Yeah this is what I'm doing actually. Not seeking it, I just let it come to me.

18 minutes ago, ivankiss said:

Suffer through it. That's kind of the whole point of it. Feel the cravings, the frustration, the desperation... Experience it all fully.

Ugh. I see. I hate this 😂

19 minutes ago, ivankiss said:

Last time I took a break it wasn't a walk in a park... but wow the benefits.

Not even masturbation? 

[Salvijus]

If you stay upfront about your desires and let it radiate, there's a big chance you'll manifest it in your life pretty fast. This thread itself is like a beaming sex magnet

Edited June 10, 2023 by Salvijus