How to love a woman Megathread

[Tyler Robinson]

*peacefully adds content. 

3 signs a man loves you. 

 

[Eyowey]

Don't ask about her past is a big one. To love a woman he has to forgive and forget the past versions of her. Including yesterday. So it doesn't matter what her job, education or sexual history is. 

[Tyler Robinson]

9 minutes ago, Eyowey said:

Don't ask about her past is a big one. To love a woman he has to forgive and forget the past versions of her. Including yesterday. So it doesn't matter what her job, education or sexual history is. 

Whats your zodiac? 

[Tyler Robinson]

 

15 things a man will do if he truly loves a woman. 

1. He will treat you with 100% respect. One of the biggest requirements of a relationship is respect. 

2. He will really listen to you. It's his 

3. He will actually consider your advice. 

4. He will fight for you.

5. He will compromise. He wants to see you happy. Although he won't be a doormat. 

6. He will get a little jealous. 

7. He won't care what you do as long as you are together. 

8. He will love how you look even on your bad days 

9. He will be proud of you. 

10. He will follow through on promises 

11. He will always make you feel safe 

12. He will treat your family and friends with respect. 

13. He will include you in his plans for the future. 

14. He will care about your needs. 

15. He will take notice of little things that make you happy. 

 

 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

 

6  clear signs he loves you 

1.  He loves poking fun at you on a regular basis 
2. He opens up about things that are hard to open up about. 
3. He pays attention to details about you. 
4. He becomes more open minded to the things you like. The last thing they will do is be dismissive or judgmental of you. 
5.  He is protective of you and helps you get through your bad days. 
6. He is at ease around you and doesn't feel the pressure to change. 

 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

Nice. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

Matthew Hussey great resource. 

What is not love — (and the opposite of it is love) 

 

Who has consistently treated you poorly 

 

Who had ignored your needs. 

Who has disregarded your happiness 

Who has been lying to you. 

Who has been gaslighting you. 

Breaking promises 

Someone who consistently lets you down, disappoints you. 

 

 

 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

 

 

What is not love — (and the opposite of it is love) 

 

Who has consistently treated you poorly 

Who has consistently treated you nicely 

 

Who has ignored your needs. 

Who has never ignored your needs. 

 

Who has disregarded your happiness 

Who has always considered your happiness 

 

Who has been lying to you. 

Who has been honest and vulnerable with you 

 

Who has been gaslighting you. 

Who listens to you 

 

Breaking promises 

Keeps their word 

 

Someone who consistently lets you down, disappoints you. 

Someone who always encourages you positively and never fails you. 

 

 

[Eyowey]

10 hours ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Whats your zodiac? 

Aquarius. Not my expertise though.

[meta_male]

Respect her as an equal. Love her for who she is each moment, however way she expresses herself.

Never stop getting to know her more, keep getting a deeper understanding of her perspective.

Encourage her to pursue her passions and to become the best version of herself. Celebrate her achievements. Don't force her to do anything she doesn't want to or feel like.

Be her home but let her be free.

[Tyler Robinson]

46 minutes ago, meta_male said:

Be her home

I was just going to write this. The guy should be her home. Those are such pleasant words. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

4 minutes ago, TheGreekSeeker said:

He will fantasize about protecting her from dangerous situations. He will view her as a child (I don't mean as unequal). He will enhance her feminine energy and make her feel as innocent as possible. In his eyes he sees a beautiful little child which he loves, he has to protect, and whose smile gives him the courage to keep investing emotionally in it. The true masculine isn't conventionally masculine. It values self-expression.

This is how I used to feel with my ex. He used to call me an innocent child. 

[Tyler Robinson]

2 minutes ago, TheGreekSeeker said:

This is how you felt before things went downhill?

Things never went downhill. He wasn't fully ready for a relationship, he wanted to pursue spirituality so he abruptly broke off. 

[Vlad_]

He'll do 5-Meo with you 

[LukeZ]

He says his advice in this podcast can apply to men and women.

 

[Emotionalmosquito]

I’d be afraid to do some of the stuff in these lists because of images like this one

 

[meta_male]

@Emotionalmosquito Would you want to be with someone like her?

[Emotionalmosquito]

@meta_male no I wouldn’t, but how am I going to know she’s like that before it’s too late? Like it shows in the image, she said she wanted him to open up, until he did. Women being turned off by guys showing their vulnerable side is a common theme you can find in men’s dating discussions. It makes perfect sense why it would be a turn off for them from an evolutionary perspective.

[Lyubov]

On 12/28/2022 at 9:45 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

I’d be afraid to do some of the stuff in these lists because of images like this one

 

She’s rubbish. This is why we as men need to choose our partners consciously. My girlfriend actually had a similar initial reaction to me crying but I stood by my guns and put her in her place when she called me out on it. Our relationship has evolved to the point where she sees my crying differently, but also I am far less in “victim” mode as I was back then. The tears I consciously shed I do so as a specific expression of something I believe and I use them to communicate that powerful belief to her. IE I love her and is being separated  is something I do not like. So we both changed and now it’s just fine if I cry in front of her. 

Edited January 2, 2023 by Lyubov

[John Paul]

*accidentally* slip it in the wrong hole