Preety_India

Who feels like they found a family here?

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I sometimes get this feeling that I found a family here, the Actualized org fam.

Anyone feel the same?

It's kinda beautiful. 

Small family vibes. 

 

 


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If we wake up we will see that there is nothing but the family. 

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2 hours ago, Preety_India said:

Small family vibes. 

The family is great.

But oftentimes the family is the major roadblock to discovering your true nature. 

Once your turn 18, it's time to become an adult and go your own way. (Metaphysically speaking)

The "family" can't support you forever. It will support you as long as you need support.

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Just now, JosephKnecht said:

The family is great.

But oftentimes the family is the major roadblock to discovering your true nature. 

Once your turn 18, it's time to become an adult and go your own way. (Metaphysically speaking)

The "family" can't support you forever. It will support you as long as you need support.

This is the big people family, the one that you create when you grow up with your friends and teammates. 

Have you heard of such Families? 


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It's a family of people who you consciously, freely choose to be with, who can understand you, relate to you, even change you and make your energy positive, loving. Even when they are miles, miles away from you. and compare this to our "real" family's are just bunch of ordinary, zombie like stupid people who you are the most lonely around them not understanding shit about you (not everyone's family of course) :)

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There is literally no one in my real life I can seriously talk about consciousness and self-actualisation. I don't see it as a huge issue though. Friends that I have are amazing in their own way and I can still learn a lot.

However, being here I feel as I finally belong somewhere and can come and ask support when I think I'm going crazy o.O I can speak my mind knowing I'll be understood.

actualized.org my first online community ever and it feels good to be part of it ?


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8 minutes ago, m0hsen said:

 compare this to our "real" family's are just bunch of ordinary, zombie like stupid people who you are the most lonely around them not understanding shit about you

My family haha BUT I STILL LOVE IT TO BITS ❤️

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5 minutes ago, Intraplanetary said:

actualized.org my first online community ever and it feels good to be part of it ?

Awesome. ??


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1 hour ago, m0hsen said:

It's a family of people who you consciously, freely choose to be with, who can understand you, relate to you, even change you and make your energy positive, loving. Even when they are miles, miles away from you. and compare this to our "real" family's are just bunch of ordinary, zombie like stupid people who you are the most lonely around them not understanding shit about you (not everyone's family of course) :)

i call BS but ok.....

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@Preety_India yeah I'd say this feels like family to me. In the sense that this place feels natural and familiar, that I don't have to put up social guards and I can just be me.

Since (like you) I've been here a while, this place very integrated in me. What I mean is that I might "take this place for granted" in the same way I take being able to brush my teeth and eat breakfast in the mornings for granted. It's near that level of ease and comfort. 


Hark ye yet again — the little lower layer. All visible objects, man, are but as pasteboard masks. But in each event — in the living act, the undoubted deed — there, some unknown but still reasoning thing puts forth the mouldings of its features from behind the unreasoning mask. If man will strike, strike through the mask! How can the prisoner reach outside except by thrusting through the wall? To me, the white whale is that wall, shoved near to me. Sometimes I think there's naught beyond. But 'tis enough.

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26 minutes ago, blackchair said:

awwww sounds Nice!

p.s greetings from Dubrovnik :x:x:x

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Totally - I would love when we would create our own Ashram / village or city - but then it would have occult vibes - probably leo wouldnt want it - but with so many open minded people we could try lots of different society systems  - would be amazing , even just for experementing reasons.. 

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Honestly..... don't get me started. ? From friends to yoga instructors. There is no end. Much more then family included. Only missing thing is adopted child but I suspect I even have that here. Yes looking at you Rap. 

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5 hours ago, Tim Ho said:

 

It is true you don't need family to be happy.  But you shouldn't have to avoid your family to be happy either.

 

Right. 

I don't understand the mentality to always leave your family, unless it's toxic. 

 


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6 hours ago, Tim Ho said:

:P You know what happen when a bunch of Gods sit together?

 

Infinity of boringness 

lol, #everything, thank you.

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