NoFap - Why you should quit porn & masturbation !

[Shin]

On 18/01/2021 at 6:53 PM, Rayster said:

How's your journey? @Shin

You can go back to your old ways even after 3 years being sober.

You're never completely free of an old addiction if you don't have a healthy lifestyle + clear and inspiring goals.

I mean the term addiction is a bit excessive for my case, but you can definitely go back, and yes, it's really useless when you get out of it again and make the comparison (in retrospect, that's a good thing, now I'm 200% sure).

It literally adds nothing of value to masturbate, it just takes energy and makes you lazy.

I mean that should be obvious but ...

Edited April 13, 2021 by Shin

[Recress]

Nice thread TS! and welcome back? its nice we have threads like this that I didnt know existed before. I relapse a few days ago.. I really have to block unwanted contents at times cause its starting the trigger. Ugh. Its a constant battle, but I am improving though

[Recress]

It's easier said that done dude, everyone is different. I found this video today; very enlightening. 

Another thing to note too from Leo's video all about awareness.

[Kshantivadin]

I was a hardcore nofap guy. I don't not masturbate anymore. But I don't ejaculate. So just semen retention. That's a different level though. You have be pretty conscious for that and practice taoist techniques. A bit more tantric. I think practicing during times of high arousal is very beneficial for working with emotions and tantra in general.

It's true though, that if my life were a little bit better, I'd never even consider putting a dick in my hand. Just make a booty call

At one point you pass over the state of wanting/needing to orgasm. You reach a certain revulsion towards orgasming and everything accompanying it. And you ride the waves of being sexually charged, the beautiful energy becomes transmuted, and the Universe oh so vibrant

Edited April 14, 2021 by Kshantivadin

[Recress]

50 minutes ago, Kshantivadin said:

I was a hardcore nofap guy. I don't not masturbate anymore. But I don't ejaculate. So just semen retention. That's a different level though. You have be pretty conscious for that and practice taoist techniques. A bit more tantric. I think practicing during times of high arousal is very beneficial for working with emotions and tantra in general.

It's true though, that if my life were a little bit better, I'd never even consider putting a dick in my hand. Just make a booty call

At one point you pass over the state of wanting/needing to orgasm. You reach a certain revulsion towards orgasming and everything accompanying it. And you ride the waves of being sexually charged, the beautiful energy becomes transmuted, and the Universe oh so vibrant

What do you mean make a booty call? I think I experience something like this a few weeks ago, but I indeed up the wrong way when I touch diddy

I think I transmuted it (?) the first day then I kinda wanting to do it the next day again (?) but didnt work the second time. Today though, I had some very long meditation and I kinda realize now why I am doing it. Unlike few years back, I don't get very weak after doing it, and I still have energy left at times too. Maybe I may have to research more about Tantra. but as of now I need to recuperate.

[Kshantivadin]

@Recress All I wanted to stay is that while NoFap is amazing for giving you a kickstart in changing your life, it's a temporary fix. Too stuck up with the energy. You can't really lift heavy weights as a 1 on 1 transmutation of sexual energy.

Booty call? Hit up a girl you like and fuck her brains out

Edited April 15, 2021 by Kshantivadin

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2 hours ago, Kshantivadin said:

@Recress All I wanted to stay is that while NoFap is amazing for giving you a kickstart in changing your life, it's a temporary fix. Too stuck up with the energy. You can't really lift heavy weights as a 1 on 1 transmutation of sexual energy.

Booty call? Hit up a girl you like and fuck her brains out

Has things like running worked for you? I don't want to engage on any kind of sexual act myself as I dont want to form any kind of attachment to it.. I have some leads now though, but I will continue to meditate on this consciously.

[Recress]

 

[flowboy]

44 minutes ago, Recress said:

Has things like running worked for you? I don't want to engage on any kind of sexual act myself as I dont want to form any kind of attachment to it.. I have some leads now though, but I will continue to meditate on this consciously.

Deciding to not do something is still being just as attached to it. It's just an attachment to not doing it. Same coin different side.

[Recress]

@flowboy Oh thanks for seeing that. I may have to see more about this attachment thing. I saw some people here on the forums on this specific test to see and to fully understand my own.

[Kshantivadin]

@Recress Physical activity is not a complete outlet, sadly. I have tried.

Have sex with beautiful women or become a monk and get that sweet jing jizz up your spine. Don't half-ass any choice.

[Recress]

@Kshantivadin I may have to be more conscious about this in the coming days and report here.

Based from my recent 1-2 weeks streak; I managed to do alot of declutter of my room. Which is one of the things I don't usually do after a relapse. I want to be on that jive again and accomplished things at a time.

Edited April 16, 2021 by Recress

[Kshantivadin]

You sound younger. Are you good with girls?

The whole point of the NoFap movement is to propel people who are stuck and sapped, basement dwellers and the complete opposite, inspire a change in their lives. The pinnacle of nofapping is the 90 day hardmode reboot, which usually ends up in finding a girlfriend and having sex.

I think you should aim for the same goal. Set a 90 day milestone, do some hardcore personal development, then hit the market Don't repress the energy. Also, being attached to something is completely human, and trying not to be attached is even more neurotic. Awareness alone is curative.

Best of luck. You sound like you have an amazing life in front of yourself

[Recress]

@Kshantivadin Thanks mate, if you dont mind how old are you? Yeah I'm quite excited already! I may have to consult to you at times or post here when I need help!

Edited April 16, 2021 by Recress

[Kshantivadin]

21.

PM me whenever. I feel qualified for that - 2019-2020 I had an over 1 year streak of semen retention and nofap while also having frequent sex.

[Recress]

Internet is hard. You login and see people saying 'Fapping' is good, 'fapping' is bad. And there's the in between and everything else ugh...

Can I just go off grid and live my life with animals?

[Hello from Russia]

@Kshantivadin you had sex but didn't ejaculate for a year?

[Recress]

Tbh I was wondering that myself. And he's 21. I dont want to judge younger kids nowadays but lol. I guess this forums attract all kinds of people per se

[Kshantivadin]

@Hello from Russia hehe best sex is the one that doesn't end

i do have wet dreams from time to time