Do not approach women

[Thought Art]

@yetineti ? Soooo? 

[LordFall]

15 minutes ago, cetus said:

You don't deserve to be here, and this forum has no place for the likes of you. @Leo Gura

I mean I would introspect on your viewpoint, it seems low consciousness to me. Refusing to engage with people with different viewpoints and yes even violent thoughts and tendencies are how we escalate to the wars we see today. Be careful living in a Stage Green bubble of safety where you reject anything unsavoury. 

Majed is clearly frustrated and fed up with life and he's sharing his thoughts before resorting to expressing them on the universe. How do you think God would respond to him if he talked to him directly? Certainly not with your comment.

Violence is part of the world and we have to understand it if we are ever to solve it for good. I believe we are going to do in the next 20 years, the future is looking bright! 

I'm reminded of Daryl Davis, a black man who attended KKK rallies and befriended leaders of the Klan and is responsible for getting over 200 members to renounce their ideology and leave it. This is how we heal the world, not by demonizing those who are lashing out. 

 

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[yetineti]

@Thought Art

So, ‘just don’t be needy or weird’ becomes increasingly poor advice in a world where competition is driving more and more interactions with strangers to seem naturally ‘needy’ and ‘weird.’

People literally won’t have to talk to other people, in time.

Think about that.

[yetineti]

5 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I mean I would introspect on your viewpoint, it seems low consciousness to me. Refusing to engage with people with different viewpoints and yes even violent thoughts and tendencies are how we escalate to the wars we see today. Be careful living in a Stage Green bubble of safety where you reject anything unsavoury. 

Majed is clearly frustrated and fed up with life and he's sharing his thoughts before resorting to expressing them on the universe. How do you think God would respond to him if he talked to him directly? Certainly not with your comment.

Violence is part of the world and we have to understand it if we are ever to solve it for good. I believe we are going to do in the next 20 years, the future is looking bright! 

@LordFall

This one time: I can concede this may be somewhat of a stage green bubble experience: remember saying that directly does no additional good: your statement would be stronger with that line removed: same with it seeming low consciousness.

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[cetus]

@Majed Get that shit out of your head man. It does no one any good. Including yourself. 

 

[Majed]

@cetus Yeah i agree, i took it too far here, sorry. 

[yetineti]

11 minutes ago, Majed said:

I don't want to be banned, and i apologize for my misbehavior. I was trying to understand the perspective of male violence perpetrators and the like. Maybe i phrased it wrong. But i don't hurt any woman on a regular so don't worry. It's not like i abuse women or anything in real life, and i apologize for what i said and how i phrased it. 

You will be banned if you keep this up. Talk with AI if you can/feel comfortable. You are walking a fine line. AI may be able to help you work through some of these conflicting issues, though. Leaving your country sounds good for you as well, whenever possible. I’d just hate to see you leave Beirut just to get punched in the face by some American or Brit (whoever really) for disrespecting women.

That could be a very confusing situation for someone leaving a country with already conflicting thoughts on violence. 

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[Olaf]

@Majed but use this as an opportunity to grow, you are now in not the ideal circumstances and venting out only got you to get warning points, lost opportunities and woman not wanting to interact. This is what the world reflects back at you when you are reactive. When you learn to become grounded, which means to not act out, which means to come to the center even if someone calls you with ugly names or life goes to hell, can you still remain grounded? Can you still remain at your center? That is the lesson I see you can take away from this, because this is a pattern that I have seen multiple times over your posts, that does you no good man. 

[Thought Art]

19 minutes ago, yetineti said:

@Thought Art

So, ‘just don’t be needy or weird’ becomes increasingly poor advice in a world where competition is driving more and more interactions with strangers to seem naturally ‘needy’ and ‘weird.’

People literally won’t have to talk to other people, in time.

Think about that.

I think you are over exaggerating a lot in this thread. 

You don’t need to be perfect when speaking to others for sure. 
 

But, it helps to be warm and kind. Take it easy man. The whole world isn’t reading my post, and my advice is sound. It’s not meant to be the ONLY advice. Sometimes you gotta be willing to feel needy and weird. But, you’ll have best results being someone warm and emotionally attuned. 
 

And people aren’t weak little snowflakes like you make it out to be. 

The internet lies about social interaction too. Fuck influencers. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Thought Art

[yetineti]

19 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

I think you are over exaggerating a lot in this thread.

I don’t like generalizations. If you think someone is exaggerating, you tell them when and where—otherwise, you’re exaggerating.

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You don’t need to be perfect when speaking to others for sure.

Of course not. I can have issues trying to word things for others but I don’t think anybody has to be perfect. If I did, I wouldn’t have walked up to a random guy in a parking lot and asked him how his truck bed worked lol.

That doesn’t change the fact that everybody has a public interaction limit and the limit has historically been going down.

That is all I’m saying.

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But, it helps to be warm and kind. Take it easy man.

Who is this advice for? I’m warm and kind. You just seem to be disagreeing with me and not liking it ? But also I think we kind of are agreeing too ?

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The whole world isn’t reading my post

That is where we disagree.

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and my advice is sound.

It was.

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It’s not meant to be the ONLY advice.

I didn’t mean to imply that it was. I was just trying to further dialogue. 

The public interaction problem is real. You could acknowledge it. I could have acknowledged your sound advice and furthered the dialogue to my concerns better.

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Sometimes you gotta be willing to feel needy and weird. But, you’ll have best results being someone warm and emotionally attuned.

Sure.

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And people aren’t weak little snowflakes like you make it out to be.

If that’s how you view me, that’s good feedback.

Have you considered I think I’m a snowflake and what you think is me trying to make others out as snowflakes is actually just me making sure I’m not one?

Because I don’t think other people are snowflakes.

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The internet lies about social interaction too. Fuck influencers.

Actualized.org is the only social media account I have held for 10 years now. I’m 25 and basing this off of experience. Social media is poison and to be used only as reference.

@Thought Art

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[Thought Art]

@yetineti

😕 We are in different universes.

[yetineti]

@Thought Art

Ha—yeah—in my universe I just acknowledged you and you evaded real conversation. Take care  

Edited 1 hour ago by yetineti

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Majed Yes. I gave you a warning. I stand by it, and you can perform whatever mental gymnastics you like to justify it but the below markup in bold are the false parts of your statement:

This is what you need you address in your thinking and deductions. 

👏

[Thought Art]

@yetineti I didn’t enjoy it honestly. It was combative.. 

Not warm. 
 

I stand by what I said. 
 

People enjoy when warm, socially attuned people smile and talk to them often. Common sense I think. 

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[Ulax]

59 minutes ago, cetus said:

You don't deserve to be here, and this forum has no place for the likes of you. @Leo Gura

Bro tryna ban Leo from his own forum

[Jirh]

Cold approaching strangers never worked for me either.

Social circle worked automatically without even trying.

You're in Beirut, you can enroll in Goethe-Institut for a German language course. Lots of cool girls there. And it's not expensive.

[Olaf]

@Ulax thats funny 

1 minute ago, Ulax said:

Bro tryna ban Leo from his own forum

 

[Ulax]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Ulax thats funny 

 

[yetineti]

@Thought Art

16 minutes ago, Thought Art said:

@yetineti I didn’t enjoy it honestly. It was combative..

You’ve now made two claims, about me, without citing or referring to anything specific. If anything, that is combative. I have actively acknowledged your points and conceded to some.

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I stand by what I said.

People enjoy when warm, socially attuned people smile and talk to them often. Common sense I think. 

I never argued you were wrong here. Where is your hostility coming from? I made a separate point, clarified I made a separate point and you’ve begun telling me I’m combative and exaggerating things—while simply not acknowledging my point or explaining yourself at all.

That is combative.

And I made a good point. A point I have experienced myself, out in public, firsthand for years.

So, if you think I’m being combative maybe it has something to do with your own resistance to even acknowledging my point, while insisting on yours.

That is an investigation for you—not me.

Thanks for talking.

 

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 hour ago, Majed said:

@cetus Yeah i agree, i took it too far here, sorry. 

Thank you 🙏🏻

The understanding & exploration of different perspectives is not the issue. 

Calling woman animals that deserve violence and equating them to chickens IS the issue. 

Don't confuse the two things. 

We already have an issue with women feeling unwelcome, crushing out femininity and feminine expression from the forum. This contributes to that. Statements like the above cause me to hide my own feminine expression here. I can't possibly imagine what it might do to women who aren't as prickly.

Edited 21 minutes ago by Natasha Tori Maru