tomorrow I am gonna challenge myself

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 so what do you do when anxiety starts to come up in the conversation? Like 2 mins in or so

Let her talk while you compose.  I love the ones who like to talk. You don't have to do shit but listen after the first few questions.  In fact, they all like to talk. So you set it up. You ask a few questions and then you let them just talk. And talk. You be the  guy they can lean on. That's really what they want. 

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[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 Yes I noticed today, I was talking with a set for like 20 mins or so and I barely said shit, they just talked and atleast 4 times I wanted to walk away, because I felt like I was wasting my time. I literally walked 2 steps away and then was like, okay maybe just a little longer. Maybe I should just chill and ask questions as you said

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 Yes I noticed today, I was talking with a set for like 20 mins or so and I barely said shit, they just talked and atleast 4 times I wanted to walk away, because I felt like I was wasting my time. I literally walked 2 steps away and then was like, okay maybe just a little longer. Maybe I should just chill and ask questions as you said

No. Stay. That's precisely what you want. You want them to be talking. If they're talking and you are listening.  Then you have them right where you want them.  Ultimately you will find they just want to spill their guts out to you.  All you have to.do is two, maybe three things.  

Listen

Fuck them good.

Listen some more.

Cut the grass.

We have a simple job but we must do it properly.

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[Inliytened1]

@Leo Gura right bud?

 

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 do you feel you are even interested in woman? Today I was talking to the woman and I was like, you guys are so boring. I don't know never had it this much, but because I wasn't interested I felt it helped me allot to make them interested in me. 

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 do you feel you are even interested in woman? Today I was talking to the woman and I was like, you guys are so boring. I don't know never had it this much, but because I wasn't interested I felt it helped me allot to make them interested in me. 

Sometimes yes sometimes no. But you always have to act like you're listening.  Because if they ask you what they were saying you better be able to repeat it back. Haha

 

[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 haha yeah, that is important. I don't know woman chase those who walk away and are disinterested, when I am very interested in her, I put her on a pedestal and she loses interest. It is a weird thing. 

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Inliytened1 haha yeah, that is important. I don't know woman chase those who walk away and are disinterested, when I am very interested in her, I put her on a pedestal and she loses interest. It is a weird thing. 

You can't do that.  Not ever. You can never make it seem like you are too interested.  A little. But not all the way.

Women are extremely counterintuitive.  If you try too hard it just turns them off. I dont grasp why that is.  But it is.  So you have to always remain a bit elusive. I think it keeps.the game alive for them.

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[Olaf]

@Inliytened1 yes and if I am totally not interested, they are totally interested, it is so strange, I mean it makes sense, but it is strange. 

[Olaf]

I think that is why it is also easier to get a girl that you are less attracted to, simply because you act less interested

[Inliytened1]

12 minutes ago, Olaf said:

I think that is why it is also easier to get a girl that you are less attracted to, simply because you act less interested

Yeah.  That's how they work.  So now take a beautiful girl you want and behave the same way.

 

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[Zen LaCroix]

Bro go ahead and do it. Its an amazing idea and you will learn so much from doing this

Edited 1 hour ago by Zen LaCroix

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Zen LaCroix said:

Bro go ahead and do it. Its an amazing idea and you will reap many rewards from doing this

Doing what exactly? He already did it.  Read the thread. 

[Zen LaCroix]

44 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Doing what exactly? He already did it.  Read the thread. 

I ain't reading all that. I'm sure it was an emotional journey he went on if he really did. And I'm sure he learned a bunch too

[Rishabh R]

@Olaf What happened during your challenge ? Could you describe ? I am curious .