Shit tests and compliance

[AION]

Nobody will tell you but game has cardinal principles and two of them is compliance and shit tests.

But here is the crux. Compliance and shit tests are two sides of the same coin.  Basically what happens is that she is shit testing you if you comply to her frame or maintain your own frame. So are you going to be a pussy and bend to her will with the hopes of getting some or are you going to stay firm as a d.

Best way to deal with shit tests is to throw them back at her. I developed some an arsenal of them and they work excellent. 
 

The thing is that women have natural game. They are already testing men on compliance , qualify them, disqualify,  let them jump through hoops and some more toxic ones which I won’t share here. You basically have to learn how to shit test from women and turn it back on them. 
 

Some of you might feel too elevated to learn it. But the thing is that humans are already testing one another subconsciously. So it is good to learn the basic patterns of it so you can recognize it in others and yourself. And even craft it in a skill.

Edited Saturday at 10:08 PM by AION

[Olaf]

I like to say `I just wanted to say the same thing to you`

[Ulax]

That is reactive

[Miguel1]

Best way to pass shit tests is to just find it funny

[Rafael Thundercat]

Carry Toilet paper with you. 

[Raze]

Wrong. Compliance is just when she complied with an escalation. She doesn’t have to be in your frame to just agree to do what you requested.

Shit tests are testing your congruence and self perceived status through negativity. Throwing it back at her is reactive and demonstrating you lack congruence because you were affected by it.

 

Edited 8 hours ago by Raze

[Rafael Thundercat]

Your anima is shit testing you

Watch out 😂 

A little bit redpill in tone, but by experience some points make sense.

Edited 12 hours ago by Rafael Thundercat

[Natasha Tori Maru]

3 hours ago, Raze said:

Wrong. Compliance is just when she complied with an escalation. She doesn’t have to be in your frame to just agree to do what you requested.

Shit tests are testing your congruence and self perceived status through negativity. Throwing it back at her is reactive and demonstrating you lack congruence because you affected by it.

This is a really good distinction.

[AION]

4 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

This is a really good distinction.

 

7 hours ago, Raze said:

Wrong. Compliance is just when she complied with an escalation. She doesn’t have to be in your frame to just agree to do what you requested.

Shit tests are testing your congruence and self perceived status through negativity. Throwing it back at her is reactive and demonstrating you lack congruence because you affected by it.

 

Frame does help though

Edited 8 hours ago by AION

[Schizophonia]

@AION There is no test it's an attempt to explain women's behavior through a male logic.

Unless you vote for the left Being far less socially constrained than a woman thanks to your big hairy balls you naturally navigate your relationships with others and the world in general in a more "boolean" manner; true or false, like or dislike, tests, and so on because you have far less to deal with an "ambivalence" arising from the various sensibilities that come into play when a woman enters a collective subject even just a simple human interaction between two people.
So when a woman does something weird you interpret it as a "test" because you fail to see just how much of a Terminator you are compared to her and just how twisted and stretched out she is.

It looks like a test due to the enigmatic nature of the interaction for our logic, but there is no intention to test; it is the male mind that "gets straight to the point" and may indeed test.

It’s like the idea that "you shouldn't be too nice". To the male mind it doesn't seem logical; one would naturally prefer someone who gives more after all, as my grandpa used to say what’s better than one cake? Two cakes lol. But for the female mind which is socially vulnerable "more" can actually be problematic, because there is a danger inherent in having power.

When you watch a documentary about gangs women are usually aware of the dangers whereas men tend to show off.

As a man unless you're hysterical you rarely block people unless they’re really spamming you, whereas women will block for all sorts of reasons. You’ll follow just about anyone on Instagram (or elsewhere) and accept their follow requests "might as well" while women don't.

 

So you might interpret a positive response to keeping your distance as "don't be nice," but the real logic is that by maintaining some distance you give the woman room to breathe, a sense of control whereas being too "nice" can become overwhelming.

[Ulax]

9 hours ago, Raze said:

Shit tests are testing your congruence and self perceived status through negativity. Throwing it back at her is reactive and demonstrating you lack congruence because you were affected by it.

 

Bro knows ball

[Schizophonia]

In a way you could call it a test by the universe.

[Spiral]

Does this make me look fat? That’s a classic. Or “if I die, how fast would you start dating again?” 
 

Would you still love if I was a worm? For a more modern twist.

[Raze]

13 minutes ago, Spiral said:

Does this make me look fat? That’s a classic. Or “if I die, how fast would you start dating again?” 
 

Would you still love if I was a worm? For a more modern twist.

Those are more often testing comfort.

[Spiral]

@Raze Not if she’ll intentionally make a big deal of out reasonable responses

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[Raze]

13 minutes ago, Spiral said:

@Raze Not if she’ll make an intentional make a big deal of out reasonable responses

Because it isn’t a literal question, she wants reassurance.

[AION]

Being tested is actually something good, people don't test people who they know they are already it.

For example when I was younger, I had always random dudes come up to me and challenge me. Now they don't dare that because they can just read they will get in trouble.

Same is with women, they won't test men they know they are the real deal. That is why it is good to turn around the table and test women and put them on their backfoot. That was the main purpose of this thread but it went all above your heads.

The thing with frame is that it is only part of the story. You can tell a nerd to have the frame of a chad and it won't work for him that night. But if he keeps maintaining that Chad frame, keeps thinking like him, going to the gym like him and so on, in 5-10 years he might become it. And the end it is about your being.

Edited 5 hours ago by AION

[Spiral]

@Raze How should one say then? Let’s do the “do these make me look fat?” without being clever. 

I’ve in my youth I’ve tried. “No they look great on you”. Only to get a response like “ oh, so you think I’m fat?”

[something_else]

On 20/09/2026 at 9:13 AM, Miguel1 said:

Best way to pass shit tests is to just find it funny

Yea, this is pretty much what I've found. I can't even really pinpoint a shit test a woman has ever given me tbh, if they do it it doesn't even register to me. I just assume they're playfully teasing and either laugh or tease back.

[Someone here]

What is shit test ?