Men giving up on dating

[Mixcoatl]

I live with enough money for food, rent, and gas. So I have plenty of time to party, develop my mind, relax and do art. That's perfect for me... But not for girls. They always eventually end up telling me: "you don't have life goals, you don't know what you want in life" because for most of them, having life goals equals to pursuing money and businesses. I feel frustrated, so I decided to give up on dating. 

What do you guys and girls think of that?

[AerisVahnEphelia]

Find people with different values

[Majed]

@Mixcoatl Dude girls don't care about your money situation, if they talk about it, it means they aren't attracted to you. Plus you shouldn't give up on getting laid, most girls you'll pick up from the club to your place won't know how much money you have. 

[Someone here]

Do you have a job ? How do you pay your bills? Why don’t you have ambitions in life ? What kind of girls are you interested in ? 

Edited 20 minutes ago by Someone here

[Mixcoatl]

Just now, Someone here said:

Do you have a job ? How do you pay your bills? Why don’t you have ambitions in life ? What kind of girls are you interested in ? 

Of course I have a job. And of course I have a lot of ambitions: making my art, development of my mind. Aren't those things an ambition? Why always people think ambitions=money? 

[Mixcoatl]

12 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Mixcoatl Dude girls don't care about your money situation, if they talk about it, it means they aren't attracted to you. Plus you shouldn't give up on getting laid, most girls you'll pick up from the club to your place won't know how much money you have. 

Sex is not my priority anymore. I want a relationship 

[Someone here]

1 minute ago, Mixcoatl said:

Of course I have a job. And of course I have a lot of ambitions: making my art, development of my mind. Aren't those things an ambition? Why always people think ambitions=money? 

Well, you said the main reason you can’t find a girl is they think of you as having no goals in life .  

[aurum]

@Mixcoatl what about family?

Life goals does not necessarily just mean career to most women. Most women who are serious about a relationship will want to see that you’re interested in living together, marriage, buying a house, kids etc.

For them, a relationship not moving in that direction will feel static and pointless.

[Mixcoatl]

Just now, Someone here said:

Well, you said the main reason you can’t find a girl is they think of you as having no goals in life .  

Certainly. Bc for most of them, developing my art is not a real goal. For most of them, having real goals in life is having money. It indirectly is. I'm not denying I wanna have more money, but it has to come after my art, not before.

[Someone here]

6 minutes ago, Mixcoatl said:

Certainly. Bc for most of them, developing my art is not a real goal. For most of them, having real goals in life is having money. It indirectly is. I'm not denying I wanna have more money, but it has to come after my art, not before.

What art do you create ? You can get paid for it if you’re talented as well .

[Rishabh R]

@Mixcoatl You're doing well. What I would suggest you to give up on chasing women rather than giving up on women. There's a difference. The 1st will make you more happier and second one isolated. I too felt like this yesterday night .