Loneliness

[Miguel1]

How do you guys deal with loneliness?

Fall is arriving here in Finland, it’s getting darker, wetter and colder each day.

I have a ton of people in my circle, but none my true friend, which just makes it all the worst.

How do you deal with it? I deal with it via art, music, crying, dancing and the little surface level socializing I do.

[LordFall]

Arguing with people on the actualized.org forum of course, 8/10 therapist recommend this method.

More seriously as an INTP I have less of a need for socialization than you do and what I value is intellectual companionship so people that understand my ideas and wanna talk about them so I mean AI has kept me quite good company these past few months. I also have phone calls with friends in other cities occasionally but honestly Gemini helps more.  

 

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Imdyx4bFmQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9cc-ISAzmWs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WEQAHvD9_Zc

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2KyOG1PbXA

 

Edited 15 minutes ago by Raze

[TheGod]

23 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

How do you guys deal with loneliness?

Fall is arriving here in Finland, it’s getting darker, wetter and colder each day.

I have a ton of people in my circle, but none my true friend, which just makes it all the worst.

How do you deal with it? I deal with it via art, music, crying, dancing and the little surface level socializing I do.

As someone who lived in Canada for 4 years, I understand how the weather and lack of true friendship can affect how you feel. 
 

To be honest, the best way for me to deal with loneliness was oneness  that I could reach via 5MeO-DMT I would vape it in Canada every weekend or So but I don’t think it’s legal in your country (in Canada it is for personal possession).

Other things are exercising regularly, fasting and eating healthy. Running especially helps.

Maybe try to watch less porn if you watch it. In my experience it tends to make me feel lonely and depressed.

Edited 12 minutes ago by TheGod

[LordFall]

8 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Maybe try to watch less porn if you watch it. In my experience it tends to make me feel lonely and depressed.

Really? Does the opposite for me. If I don't watch it my sex drive becomes so huge that looking at women outside makes me feel physical pain and I will not be able to stop the impulse to try to get laid in ways that are not productive to my life.