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you are f#cked without social skills

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We live in society with other humans, forget about PUA, forget about finding a partner, being SOCIAL is so important. Like literally how are you gonna grow on social media without any social skills?? How are you gonna network with no social skills? How are you gonna lead your team without being social? How are you gonna be a leader, be a good speaker, be able to network, be able to sell?! You don't think sales isn't social skills?? So I have come to the conclusion that without social skills I am F#CKED! Without social skills you are F#CKED!

So I will keep socialising even WITH a girlfriend, because this is more important than just getting a girlfriend. This is about being able to network, find opportunities, grow on social media EVERYTHING! Literally I am scared of my future when I isolate myself, because it is bad, I have been living like an introvert forever and I am so good at being by myself, but now seeing how it is to be extroverted, I am scared of not being social, because being social is the only way to get ahead in life, business, relationships, everything. Convince me otherwise, convince me that it isn't, because I can't unsee it now.

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A lot of guys giving up on their social life when they get a girlfriend cuz what they really wanted is easy validation but that's actually the best time to build capital and legacy. Most rich men are married because it puts a hamper on their lust and they can use their energy towards scaling their career and business. 

Which is why I like social media so much because you can level up your SMV by just improving your personal brand and it'll work both single and in a relationship so if you do get into a relationship that doesn't work out you can be more in demand than ever without ever disrespecting your woman while in the relationship. 


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This is true.  But even social media can be a block to real social relation.  You have to get out there and talk to people in person.  

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@Joseph Maynor yes agreed, you don't learn social skills on social media, it happens in real life with real people, it isn't even comparable. Having social skills and then dming girls is a different story. Actually go out and then dm girls afterwards, you will have the best opening lines coming out of your flow state.

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lmao im watching Owen's latest video and he talks on this.

I'm 1 hour 40 mins in and Owen has started talking about how there are roving beta male gangs that are starting to emerge, especially in India and how there's going to be  a beta male revolution  😂

This shi is too funny


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