Where Have You Had Sex?

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

The first trans person I ever met was actually Black  Nearly a decade ago, well before I transitioned to a woman. He was extremely beautiful. I regret that we no longer are in communication. A mean joke he made towards me severed our relationship, and sadly we couldn’t resolve it. I didn’t have the communication and relationship skills back then to talk it out in a mature way.

Me too actually! I worked at a clothing store and she presented as a man originally and then told me they were trans and when I left that job and moved away they were going through a full transition. We were sexting back and forth but idk what happened lost touch. Gotta hit her back up! 

I think going through emotional volatility happens to everyone to varying degrees. Some people seem to suppress it and then it leaks out as random passive aggressiveness. I'm thinking about a couple of people on this thread that seem to not be confrontational but just drop jabs here and there sometimes unprovoked. I won't name them but hopefully they can learn from it 

Edited 56 minutes ago by LordFall

[Inliytened1]

@yetineti I don't take any pride in beating you, i just want you took into the multipe women thing, I'm on board with Lordfall.

[Oppositionless]

18 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

OCD and Calthoicism. Man, what a combination.

 

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Oppositionless said:

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

Watch out for Lordfall that little batstard.  He can be a wily one.  Now Carl, well, I haven't figured him out yet.  MIght take me a while.

[LordFall]

19 minutes ago, Oppositionless said:

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

Rumination is a killer to self-esteem and overall mental health. Why tf does what happened however long ago stop you from approaching or messaging a cute girl tomorrow? 

Level up, pull baddies and build an awesome life.

Dwelling on the past apart from introspection is useless. You're clearly overthinking it bro I made an AI generated image of a castle I would build with homeless women and princesses.

The point is to have fun and achieve your goals. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Not to say I will not one day own a castle and it'll be the best place on earth.) 

Etienne Balsan had a castle that he inherited from his parents and he used it to throw parties and meet all kinds of women. He was a theatre fan and met a smart girl that he liked and invited to his castle to be his official mistress.

That woman was Coco Chanel who built the fashion empire we know of today.

One of the most inspiring stories I've read in my entire life. The Lord Fall Castle is happening boys and girls 

Literally a true story

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Étienne_Balsan

Edited 19 minutes ago by LordFall

[Carl-Richard]

28 minutes ago, Oppositionless said:

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

If you want to help them and you do, that is completely ok. If you don't help them, what is your excuse? Do you have something better to do? Are your aspirations such that they could outweigh the action when spending time/attention/resources on them instead?

But why help them and not their friends? "But being helping in local interactions is something you want to cultivate". That is one factor. "But having a sense of personal respect and personal life and right to one's own life is a right you should have, and respecting other people's choices". That is another factor.

The answer really is aim at things you find valueable and do what you think is right with respect to that. That might help somebody locally or it might not; it might help more in a spread out way, or more locally again.

As for JP "but if you're a psychopath, you value other people's demise if it benefits you in the short term, and that's a moral problem", you should probably factor in that too.

Edited 5 minutes ago by Carl-Richard