Where Have You Had Sex?

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

The first trans person I ever met was actually Black  Nearly a decade ago, well before I transitioned to a woman. He was extremely beautiful. I regret that we no longer are in communication. A mean joke he made towards me severed our relationship, and sadly we couldn’t resolve it. I didn’t have the communication and relationship skills back then to talk it out in a mature way.

Me too actually! I worked at a clothing store and she presented as a man originally and then told me they were trans and when I left that job and moved away they were going through a full transition. We were sexting back and forth but idk what happened lost touch. Gotta hit her back up! 

I think going through emotional volatility happens to everyone to varying degrees. Some people seem to suppress it and then it leaks out as random passive aggressiveness. I'm thinking about a couple of people on this thread that seem to not be confrontational but just drop jabs here and there sometimes unprovoked. I won't name them but hopefully they can learn from it 

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[Inliytened1]

@yetineti I don't take any pride in beating you, i just want you took into the multipe women thing, I'm on board with Lordfall.

[Oppositionless]

18 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

OCD and Calthoicism. Man, what a combination.

 

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Oppositionless said:

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

Watch out for Lordfall that little batstard.  He can be a wily one.  Now Carl, well, I haven't figured him out yet.  MIght take me a while.

[LordFall]

19 minutes ago, Oppositionless said:

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

Rumination is a killer to self-esteem and overall mental health. Why tf does what happened however long ago stop you from approaching or messaging a cute girl tomorrow? 

Level up, pull baddies and build an awesome life.

Dwelling on the past apart from introspection is useless. You're clearly overthinking it bro I made an AI generated image of a castle I would build with homeless women and princesses.

The point is to have fun and achieve your goals. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

(Not to say I will not one day own a castle and it'll be the best place on earth.) 

Etienne Balsan had a castle that he inherited from his parents and he used it to throw parties and meet all kinds of women. He was a theatre fan and met a smart girl that he liked and invited to his castle to be his official mistress.

That woman was Coco Chanel who built the fashion empire we know of today.

One of the most inspiring stories I've read in my entire life. The Lord Fall Castle is happening boys and girls 

Literally a true story

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Étienne_Balsan

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[Carl-Richard]

28 minutes ago, Oppositionless said:

My thought process has been. I'm gonna share this crazy thing that happened. Initially I'm like yeah I probably did the right thing. Then @LordFall makes the comment about not having a roof so I'm thinking shit maybe I was selfish, but then @Carl-Richard makes a joke that leads me back to thinking maybe I did the right thing.

This is what kills my game. 

If you want to help them and you do, that is completely ok. If you don't help them, what is your excuse? Do you have something better to do? Are your aspirations such that they could outweigh the action when spending time/attention/resources on them instead?

But why help them and not their friends? "But being helping in local interactions is something you want to cultivate". That is one factor. "But having a sense of personal respect and personal life and right to one's own life is a right you should have, and respecting other people's choices". That is another factor.

The answer really is aim at things you find valueable and do what you think is right with respect to that. That might help somebody locally or it might not; it might help more in a spread out way, or more locally again.

As for JP "but if you're a psychopath, you value other people's demise if it benefits you in the short term, and that's a moral problem", you should probably factor in that too.

Edited 3 hours ago by Carl-Richard

[yetineti]

Do I get a participation woman?

 

 

[Sugarcoat]

4 hours ago, LordFall said:

You're into Hinduism? I've been studying it too.

It's actually the narrative plot of the harem of the main character of the story I'm writing. It's a video game and anime based on world domination and also spirituality.

He represents the devil and the 2nd coming of Jesus christ and is the manifestation of Bhairava that dates multiple women that represent Shakti energy and his most powerful concubine being the incarnation of Mahashakti and basically the divine feminine.

@Inliytened1 

I think there’s lots of wisdom there but I don’t study it in particular more than look things up that feel relevant to me 

Cool pics

[Joseph Maynor]

@Inliytened1  Come on man you haven't had sex with 250 women.  This is ridiculous.  

[LordFall]

34 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

@Inliytened1  Come on man you haven't had sex with 250 women.  This is ridiculous.  

Why? I know many guys with body counts in the many hundreds. My roommate used to sleep with new 2-3 chicks most weeks that I lived with him. Close to 100 in the time I knew him and he's been going for long before I met him and has done it for years since we don't live together. I know another club promoter that did the same.

Someone with good game or a good setup can sleep with a massive amount of chicks while the average man is said to have slept with 7 woman in his entire life. Considering the Casanovas tilt the scale their way it's probably more like 1-2 for a lot of men. 

Don't be most men, build a legendary life for yourself that other men can only dream of.

High bodycount is only one way to have an extraordinary sex and dating life; I don't like one night stands that much myself personally so that's why I'm drawn more to polyamory and bdsm. 

@Sugarcoat Thank you I really appreciate that actually! 

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[Joseph Maynor]

If someone came into your life and made themself present to you, what would you do?  

[LordFall]

I don't really believe in passive dating so often times I actually ignore girls that seem to be interested in me because I want to focus my attention more on the women and the life I truly desire.  I want to level up my business so I can afford to date many of them at the same time and travel the world.

An average girl is quite boring to me, I like very unique women or influencer girls that are talented in many areas of life. I've been really appreciating creative women lately like dancers and singers. To me that level of expressive femininity really enchants me and takes me out of my logical brain and basically brainwashes me as long as I allow it. It's a very lovely experience. 

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

5 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

If someone came into your life and made themself present to you, what would you do?  

Many, many people would freak out and possibly run (or have a lot of trouble dealing with the general vulnerability) when confronted with the reality of someone being truly present and open like that.

I see people say that they want that. But it requires a level of exposure that forces us to step up and be better. That's a real challenge because it means claiming/admitting to all the shitty parts of ourselves. Facing them. 

Not always the case... But it's a damn good question!

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[Joseph Maynor]

 

17 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Many, many people would freak out and possibly run (or have a lot of trouble dealing with the general vulnerability) when confronted with the reality of someone being truly present and open like that.

I see people say that they want that. But it requires a level of exposure that forces us to step up and be better. That's a real challenge because it means claiming/admitting to all the shitty parts of ourselves. Facing them. 

Not always the case... But it's a damn good question!

I'm not sure.  Interesting though.  

Edited 39 minutes ago by Joseph Maynor

[cetus]

8 minutes ago, Joseph Maynor said:

If someone came into your life and made themself present to you, what would you do?  

That happened to me today and now I'm sitting here kicking myself in the ass for excusing myself and walking away. I was kind of on a mission at the time but looking back I wish I would have put what I was doing on hold long enough to investigate her true intentions. It's funny because as I was walking away, I could feel her standing there looking at me. Now I wish I would have stopped and turned around.

[Joseph Maynor]

4 minutes ago, cetus said:

That happened to me today and now I'm sitting here kicking myself in the ass for excusing myself and walking away. I was kind of on a mission at the time but looking back I wish I would have put what I was doing on hold long enough to investigate her true intentions. It's funny because as I was walking away, I could feel her standing there looking at me. Now I wish I would have stopped and turned around.

I'm sure you were attracted lol.

Edited 38 minutes ago by Joseph Maynor

[yetineti]

Let’s get back on track. The tension has been low.

In a plane, on a train…

Edited 29 minutes ago by yetineti

[oOo]

I can't believe you're all still going on this thread.

What you want is sex, and you want good sex and you want to know how to go about it.

By beating around the bush on things you want in life, it keeps you desperate and broke on the things you want, in this case sex with your preferred gender.

I express this because if you genuinely were creating topics on the forum that reflected the previous sentiment, then a thread like this would complement out of humour. But you don't, instead this place is a swamp and this thread just looks like the mud at the bottom of that swamp.

This is self-betrayal at its finest.

Some self-improvement questions:
1. What kind of relationships am I looking for? People on a sex roster, intimate relationships, monogamous or otherwise relationship, combination, what?
2. Where do I want to go for those relationships? Local community, friendship group, outer state, around the country, across the planet, what?
3. How do I filter and screen better for what I am looking for across each important category?
3. What next question could I ask that is an earnest effort to try to extract the wisdom from another on what to do in this particular situation, which is in this threads case, getting more sex? Objectively, there's nothing wrong with that, and as long as you're upfront, transparent and honest with the people involved, it can be genuinely good the better you are at filtering and screening people for the good traits you're looking for.

Asking "where have you had sex?" Is a little like asking where do you eat, its not a sustainable question as it gets pretty boring pretty quickly (beach, plane, train, while on top of an elephant, while skydiving, while in a blip, I mean fuck I think I've just out creativised right then and there this whole entire thread) and when it doesn't, it just reflects the lack of urgency you have around other issues that should be more pressing to you on important topics. 

Think more about how humour could be mixed with practicality and seriousness that genuinely positively impacts the forum as a whole.