Looks maxxing kind of makes sense after this video

[Jirh]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

There is no success in online dating unless you are good-looking. This corrupts men's understanding of women.

Yes.

Female preferences are very malleable and negotiable in real life. Most women, especially the younger ones, don't have solid preferences for anything, especially when first meeting a guy. They're mostly just exploring and trying to have fun.

So glad I've never downloaded a dating app in my life.

[Joseph Maynor]

I'm not sure looks are as important for guys honestly.  You don't want to look bad obviously.  

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@AION oh no no - this is about you being obsessed with me  you want to join my cult! 

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@AION oh no no - this is about you being obsessed with me  you want to join my cult! 

@AION You have a touch

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Ulax said:

You guys who deny this will understand when you reach Yellow

I'm sorry, but I can't help but feel intense cringe when reading this. Whenever somebody talks about 'being yellow' like this it almost certainly means they aren't, because somebody who was actually stage yellow would not phrase something like this.

[Ulax]

6 minutes ago, something_else said:

I'm sorry, but I can't help but feel intense cringe when reading this. Whenever somebody talks about 'being yellow' like this it almost certainly means they aren't, because somebody who was actually stage yellow would not phrase something like this.

Glad my comment made such an impression and apology accepted. But you will understand what i mean when you reach yellow.

[AION]

Most of the members on this forum are in the pre rational band. Almost nobody is tier 2 construct aware. That is why every topic gets bogged down with minute things. So I totally understand Ulax’s frustration. 

Edited 3 hours ago by AION

[Natasha Tori Maru]

43 minutes ago, something_else said:

I'm sorry, but I can't help but feel intense cringe when reading this. Whenever somebody talks about 'being yellow' like this it almost certainly means they aren't, because somebody who was actually stage yellow would not phrase something like this.

The statement " I am stage 2 construct aware, I am yellow" is more likely a confession of stage orange. It is a way of establishing authority or superiority, identity through achievement, status signaling, and using labels as credentials. Pillars of stage orange levels of growth. Someone with a more integrated understanding is often less attached to identifying as a particular stage.

It doesn't necessarily discount that person from being yellow or tier II - but it serves as a reasonable point to infer the above. Especially when this is a pattern of behavior: needing to state oneself as this stage when cornered in debate.

Edited 2 hours ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Ulax]

23 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

The statement " I am stage 2 construct aware, I am yellow" is more likely a confession of stage orange. It is a way of establishing authority or superiority, identity through achievement, status signaling, and using labels as credentials. Pillars of stage orange levels of growth. Someone with a more integrated understanding is often less attached to identifying as a particular stage.

It doesn't necessarily discount that person from being yellow or tier II - but it serves as a reasonable point to infer the above. Especially when this is a pattern of behavior: needing to state oneself as this stage when cornered in debate.

I can understand where you're coming from. But that is a tier 1 way of viewing it.

Once you reach yellow it will become clear

Edited 2 hours ago by Ulax

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@Ulax you little shit 

Sides in orbit lol

[Ulax]

Just now, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@Ulax you little shit 

Sides in orbit lol

😂

[Miguel1]

In reality, looks helps but it is nowhere near the most important quality in attraction for a man.

I have the luxury of playing the only looks game (real life approaching) vs pure strong game, and the results are day and night.

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

The statement " I am stage 2 construct aware, I am yellow" is more likely a confession of stage orange. It is a way of establishing authority or superiority, identity through achievement, status signaling, and using labels as credentials. Pillars of stage orange levels of growth. Someone with a more integrated understanding is often less attached to identifying as a particular stage.

It doesn't necessarily discount that person from being yellow or tier II - but it serves as a reasonable point to infer the above. Especially when this is a pattern of behavior: needing to state oneself as this stage when cornered in debate.

Exactly

[AION]

52 minutes ago, Ulax said:

I can understand where you're coming from. But that is a tier 1 way of viewing it.

Once you reach yellow it will become clear

Good job mogging these tier 1 peasants.  No need to force feed them pearls. 

[bazera]

39 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

In reality, looks helps but it is nowhere near the most important quality in attraction for a man.

Are being confident, charismatic, humorous and those kinds of traits more important?

But being confident is much easier when you know you look good.

Good looks is like a cheat-code to feel good about yourself, and that plays major role in making others feel about you the same way.

[AerisVahnEphelia]

Online dating on any app cannot work if you're too mid or worse, yeah. But also, no serious girls use dating apps, so even if it works, it's a trap. The chance of finding someone serious is less than 1%.

Find them on online chats and forums: Discord, Twitter, Actualized.org.

People should DM Natasha, for instance  . (Not taking accountability for any harassment.)

She needs a Tier 3 Coral Prince of Actualized.org.

Leo should organize a speed-dating topic. Imagine how this would improve the brand. More love is created on Actualized.org than anywhere else!

Tier 2 speed dating, meta perspectival awareness of at least 18" IU magic or scroll.

Edited 1 hour ago by AerisVahnEphelia

[AerisVahnEphelia]

3 minutes ago, bazera said:

Are being confident, charismatic, humorous and those kinds of traits more important?

But being confident is much easier when you know you look good.

Good looks is like a cheat-code to feel good about yourself, and that plays major role in making others feel about you the same way.

if you're ugly do not look a mirror for a long time that can work.
in my experience even beautiful people are rarely that "self aware".
Most people are insecure even the beautiful ones.
 

[something_else]

3 minutes ago, AION said:

Good job mogging these tier 1 peasants.  No need to force feed them pearls. 

Oh almighty stage Yellow overlord, please hand me down thy pearls of wisdom so that I may one day have an ego as large and bulbous as thee 

[Leo Gura]

@AION Behave yourself.

I am serious.

You are regularly creating drama on this forum.

Edited 1 hour ago by Leo Gura

[Schizophonia]

1 hour ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

Online dating on any app cannot work if you're too mid or worse, yeah. But also, no serious girls use dating apps, so even if it works, it's a trap. The chance of finding someone serious is less than 1%.

Find them on online chats and forums: Discord, Twitter, Actualized.org.

People should DM Natasha, for instance  . (Not taking accountability for any harassment.)

Lol

I've seen her in photos here and there she's quite pretty and nice. However her style is almost gothic or something like that and she's a bit petite/frail; you have to like that.

1 hour ago, AerisVahnEphelia said:

She needs a Tier 3 Coral Prince of Actualized.org.

Leo should organize a speed-dating topic. Imagine how this would improve the brand. More love is created on Actualized.org than anywhere else!

There are not enough women 

And the people who are here are no more interesting than random people on the street.