How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Flattered you see me as capable of both 

Chime in more over there i would love to see you.

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Chime in more over there i would love to see you.

Glad you like my chiming in 

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Ulax said:

Glad you like my chiming in 

I don't like you that much lets not get weird about this.  I have a reputation to maintain. 

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

I don't like you that much lets not get weird about this.  I have a reputation to maintain. 

If by weird you mean unique, then ty 

[Juan]

You don’t, why would you want to manipulate her? 

If you want someone loyal then you have to be it with yourself first. Having a Life Purpose, being funny and have your shit together is the ultimate attraction magnet.

[Inliytened1]

5 minutes ago, Juan said:

You don’t, why would you want to manipulate her? 

If you want someone loyal then you have to be it with yourself first. Having a Life Purpose, being funny and have your shit together is the ultimate attraction magnet.

I don't mean intentionally setting out to do it but ultimately the end goal is for her to fall in love where you don't have to worry about her going with other guys.  Because she is in love. I'm finding that.

Edited 53 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Xonas Pitfall]

If the goal is manipulation, find someone who's desperate enough to be susceptible to it. That's why con artists, cult leaders, and "loverboys" often learn to identify and target people in vulnerable situations. I feel like people glorify people like this as if they're hyper-charismatic masterminds, but a lot of the time they're just extremely predatory and good at identifying those who are most susceptible. Their "success" often comes less from some magical level of charm and more from preying on the vulnerable.

But if the discussion is actually (I hope) about building love, I'd argue that many people underestimate how powerful it is to create an open, safe environment. If you can take the lead in creating an atmosphere where people feel comfortable letting go, you'll often find that people naturally gravitate toward you.

This is also why people use alcohol or drugs. They lower your inhibitions, so you feel freer, more playful, more emotional, and more like yourself. Life just feels more fun. People love this state because people love feeling good. Fun feels good. Feeling accepted feels good. Being able to be weird, playful, or a little crazy without judgment feels good.

If you can make people naturally enter that kind of state around you, you become really addicting. You become their "high/drug/booze". That's why best friends or long-term couples can seem almost drunk together. They're just so comfortable and open that they can fully let loose. People end up wanting to be around whoever makes them feel that way.

[Juan]

15 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

I don't mean intentionally setting out to do it but ultimately the end goal is for her to fall in love where you don't have to worry about her going with other guys.  Because she is in love. I'm finding that.

Got it, well I cannot control that, if she wants to talk to guys or girls that’s her decision. I know what I bring to the table and whenever we are together we are gonna have a blast and a good time, that’s my focus at least. The more you accept her then she will trust you more right? 

Let’s turn the tables around, had you guys thought on somebody else while being on a relationship? (Let’s call it a “what if’s with X person”) I know I had but, I’m clear on my current goals so I just move on with life, I assume it’s the same for girls.

Edited 38 minutes ago by Juan

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Juan said:

Got it, well I cannot control that, if she wants to talk to guys or girls that’s her decision. I know what I bring to the table and whenever we are together we are gonna have a blast and a good time, that’s my focus at least. The more I accept her then she will trust you more right? 

Let’s turn the tables around, had you guys thought on somebody else while being on a relationship? (Let’s call it a “what if’s with X person) I know I had but, I’m clear on my current goals so I just move on with life, I assume it’s the same for girls.

I don't know I truly believe that the sexual connection binds everything.  Without that, you have nothing.  Women are very emotional and sexual - and their way of connecting with us animalis is through sex. That's how they can reach us. Or so they think. Because we are savages. 

Edited 34 minutes ago by Inliytened1