How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

You must sit back and laugh at us a lot

I just think a lot of the guys here are under-socialized and haven't had a really quality, deep and healthy long term attachment with a strong and put together woman with healthy love attachment.

I also think dating apps are horrible and fucked up a whole generation. And many of the younger crowd have this dynamic they have grown and learned through.

[Inliytened1]

7 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

My fan is back! Always popping in JUST to pay me some attention. Didn't contribute in any way but to talk to me 

This was how I understood the framing of the thread. Not to capture or try to use force. But to have her be so seduced by the thought of you she will come willingly - through healthy dynamics (and for the man to be so seduced by the dance also). I answered the question not from any sort of low consciousness perspective, where one might leverage a woman via attachment issue exploitation, codependency etc. But from the perspective of two highly conscious agentic individuals, mature with their shit in order - coming together to create something beautiful between them.

Being able to physically please a woman (body and soul) relies on fully listening to her and willingly taking direction - especially in bed. So it can be a proxy for a good man who pays attention. Quality of attention. That matters.

Listening is a challenge for everyone.

Im paying lots of attention now. I'm all ears.

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I just think a lot of the guys here are under-socialized and haven't had a really quality, deep and healthy long term attachment with a strong and put together woman with healthy love attachment.

I also think dating apps are horrible and fucked up a whole generation. And many of the younger crowd have this dynamic they have grown and learned through.

Well shit. That is becsuse they are extremely hard to come by.  And if you are lucky enough as a man to grab her while she is available you have to seize the moment.   So..its almost like winning the lottery for us.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

16 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Well shit. That is becsuse they are extremely hard to come by.  And if you are lucky enough as a man to grab her while she is available you have to seize the moment.   So..its almost like winning the lottery for us.

I mean fuck - I think we learned different social dynamics and play because of a different environment.

3rd spaces are disappearing, drinking is on the decline, everything can be delivered. We are atomized in our tiny environments with entertainment on tap. Getting out of the house for to something to do was more common. I mean how often was it we were bored and chilling, sex would fill up a whole afternoon! Distractions are everywhere now, lowering our quality of attention. We can get food delivered - groceries. All of these missing elements were situations where you could potentially meet that someone.... All opportunities. These are growing less and less for future generations. So, they learn through the savage world of dating apps that bring out poor behavior to try to get ahead. It isn't like this for everyone - but it is for many.

It is only logical than men go for PUA / cold approach and all manner of cerebral methods to try to understand. And they end up learning the wrong thing because the world of social media and dating apps is nothing like navigating a real man or woman. It creates a weird as fuck gamified artificial dynamic that leads to poor conclusions for both sexes.

Edited 21 minutes ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Inliytened1]

6 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I mean fuck - I think we learned different social dynamics and play because of a different environment.

3rd spaces are disappearing, drinking is on the decline, everything can be delivered. We are atomized in our tiny environments with entertainment on tap. Getting out of the house for to something to do was more common. I mean how often was it we were bored and chilling, sex would fill up a whole afternoon! Distractions are everywhere now, lowering our quality of attention. We can get food delivered - groceries. All of these missing elements were situations where you could potentially meet that someone.... All opportunities. These are growing less and less for future generations. So, they learn through the savage world of dating apps that bring out poor behavior to try to get ahead. It isn't like this for everyone - but it is for many.

It is only logical than men go for PUA / cold approach and all manner of cerebral methods to try to understand. And they end up learning the wrong thing because the world of social media and dating apps is nothing like navigating a real man or woman. It creates a weird as fuck gamified artificial dynamic that leads to poor conclusions for both sexes.

Fascinating.  Well.  Lucky for us there is still some good ole fashion sex in the afternoon.   And we can have more sex now that we can order in our groceries.

[AION]

*Delulu intensifies* 🤣🤣🤣

[Natasha Tori Maru]

@AION Some more attention for you - here