How do you lock a woman in to where she isn't thinking about anyone else but you?

[Inliytened1]

1 hour ago, Jirh said:

You can't stop her thinking, but you can stop her action. It's your job as a man to protect your woman from her own stupidity.

 

No its your job as a man to not be so stupid I can't believe this came out of your mouth.  What little I have seen from you has been intelligent.   We do not degrade women here. Let me be clear. If I wasn't. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Inliytened1

[Jirh]

9 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

No its your job as a man to not be so stupid I can't believe this came out of your mouth.  What little I have seen from you has been intelligent.   We do not degrade women here. Let me be clear. If I wasn't. 

The thread is about locking women in. You can't do that with freedom and democracy. You have to "own" your woman by "force". Otherwise, she will become owned by someone else who's more forcible than you.

[Lyubov]

I’m determinist and principle based. She does this by her own choice whether she does so in a healthy way or not. There are a few manipulation techniques but they only work on women who are codependent and mentally unwell, and if you are using them you are on the other side of the same coin. Negging, seeking out women who act like victim, etc. There is no broad way to do this to women in general, only seek out women who are easily manipulated or immature which is what predators like Andrew Tate do. 

Now if you wanna do it in a healthy way just be at your top, working on your money, looks, lifestyle and status. Max all that out and be social and enjoying your life. You will meet great women in the process when you go out.  

 

Edited 47 minutes ago by Lyubov

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Jirh said:

The thread is about locking women in. You can't do that with freedom and democracy. You have to "own" your woman by "force". Otherwise, she will become owned by someone else who's more forcible than you.

The point is to lock her in without force.  Through how you work your cock.  If you do that..well - you don't need force. 

[Jirh]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

The point is to lock her in without force.  Through how you work your cock.  If you do that..well - you don't need force. 

She can shop for great orgasms elsewhere too, nothing to stop her from exploration.

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Jirh said:

She can shop for great orgasms elsewhere too, nothing to stop her from exploration.

Bullshit. You give her the right orgasm and shes locked.  Its gonna take hell on earth to break her away.  

Edited 44 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Jirh]

1 minute ago, Inliytened1 said:

Bullshit. You give her the right orgasm and shes locked.  Its gonna take hell ok on earth to break her away.  

Nah, I don't think so.

Not all women have orgasm as their highest priority in a relationship. And not all women can orgasm in the first place.

[AION]

6 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

For whatever reason, and maybe I am delulu - ...

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, Jirh said:

Nah, I don't think so.

Not all women have orgasm as their highest priority in a relationship. And not all women can orgasm in the first place.

They dont consciously put it there.  But it's quite vital.  I've only been with one girl who i couldn't make cum and she ended up using a dildo with me. It only lasted a few years.  But that was quite humiliating.  

Edited 39 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[AION]

8 hours ago, Inliytened1 said:

I have some thoughts but I want to hear yours. 

Girls too.

If you are Brad Pitt you don't have to do anything to lock a woman in. But if you are not, you have to play with the toys god given you. So you either have to bring status or capital or the poor man's choice: romance aka story building. Greene talks about this extensively in his book Influence. You might want to look into it.

[Inliytened1]

2 minutes ago, AION said:

If you are Brad Pitt you don't have to do anything to lock a woman in. But if you are not, you have to play with the toys god given you. So you either have to bring status or capital or the poor man's choice: romance aka story building. Greene talks about this extensively in his book Influence. You might want to look into it.

Actually that isn't true. Looks alone isn't going to get you in her pants.  Though it's a great start. I guess if youre an ugly fuck the cards are stacked against you unless you got money. Money wins over looks all day.  Money wins over everything. 

Edited 36 minutes ago by Inliytened1

[Jirh]

4 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

They dont consciously put it there.  But it's quite vital.

Not so sure about that.

Women are different.

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I've only been with one girl who i couldn't make cum and she ended up using a dildo with me. It only lasted a few years.

Cumming and orgasming are different but related experiences for women. Which one are you talking about here?

Edited 35 minutes ago by Jirh

[Inliytened1]

Just now, Jirh said:

Not so sure about that.

Women are different.

Cumming and orgasming are separate things in women. Which one are you talking about here?

They aren't the same? I guess you'll have to enlighten me then.

[Lyubov]

10 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Bullshit. You give her the right orgasm and shes locked.  Its gonna take hell on earth to break her away.  

Yeah sex is super important in this I agree 

[AION]

2 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

Actually that isn't true. Looks alone isn't going to get you in her pants.  Though it's a great start. I guess if youre an ugly fuck the cards are stacked against you unless you got money. Money wins over looks all dat.  Money wins over everything. 

 I didn't say looks alone is enough. One is not going to get a girl while looking like a microwaved Brad Pitt, and be broke and have no game at the same time. So just being yourself is not enough. 

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[Jirh]

Just now, Inliytened1 said:

They aren't the same? I guess you'll have to enlighten me then.

Orgasm is a broader experience. It's not just a fluid release. It's both physical and psychological, even metaphysical to some extent lol.

[Inliytened1]

4 minutes ago, AION said:

 I didn't say looks alone is enough. One is not going to get a girl while looking like a microwaved Brad Pitt, and be broke and have no game at the same time. So just being yourself is not enough. 

Hehe. A microwaved Pitt. Love it. 

[Inliytened1]

3 minutes ago, Jirh said:

Orgasm is a broader experience. It's not just a fluid release. It's both physical and psychological, even metaphysical to some extent lol.

Ahh. Well shit let me in on this. You have done your homework sir.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

20 minutes ago, AION said:

My fan is back! Always popping in JUST to pay me some attention. Didn't contribute in any way but to talk to me 

25 minutes ago, Inliytened1 said:

The point is to lock her in without force.  Through how you work your cock.  If you do that..well - you don't need force. 

This was how I understood the framing of the thread. Not to capture or try to use force. But to have her be so seduced by the thought of you she will come willingly - through healthy dynamics (and for the man to be so seduced by the dance also). I answered the question not from any sort of low consciousness perspective, where one might leverage a woman via attachment issue exploitation, codependency etc. But from the perspective of two highly conscious agentic individuals, mature with their shit in order - coming together to create something beautiful between them.

Being able to physically please a woman (body and soul) relies on fully listening to her and willingly taking direction - especially in bed. So it can be a proxy for a good man who pays attention. Quality of attention. That matters.

Listening is a challenge for everyone.

Edited 21 minutes ago by Natasha Tori Maru

[Inliytened1]

1 minute ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

My fan is back! Always popping in JUST to pay me some attention. Didn't contribute in any way but to talk to me 

This was how I understood the framing of the thread. Not to capture or try to use force. But to have her be so seduced by the thought of you she will come willingly - through healthy dynamics (and for the man to be so seduced by the dance also). I answered the question not from any sort of low consciousness perspective, where one might leverage a woman via attachment issue exploitation, codependency etc. But from the perspective of two highly conscious agentic individuals, mature with their shit in order - coming together to create something beautiful between them.

Being able to physically please a woman (body and soul) relies on fully listening to her and willingly taking direction - especially in bed. So it can be a proxy for a good man who pays attention. Quality of attention. That matters.

Listening is a challenge for everyone.

You must sit back and laugh at us a lot