observational openers

[Olaf]

Today I did 50 observational openers, just to test what works well with observational openers. I had a day off so I thought why not spend some time on this social stuff. I noticed some things in my experience. When I was thinking too long to come up with something it came out stifled/tense and of course less responsive. Now when I maybe had a rough idea what I wanted to open with, like then it could work. Yet the best ones where within the moment itself.

I look at someone and whatever comes up. For example you make eye contact, you notice an ice cream, you say "its good?" like is it some genius charismatic line? no lol. Yet it can work fine as it is spontaneous and not try hard. Then later on I tried that same line, but I saw someone walking with ice cream 1 minute away from me, preparing myself 1 minute to open with that line made it come off really badly.

So spontaneously let it come out instead of preparing it 1 minute in advance or even a few seconds in advance. If I look them in the eyes and even something comes out very unsmooth for example you see someone have some creative thing on. You say "its... creative" and you point to what they have on. That is literally a horrible line, but atleast if in the moment that is all you can come up with, then it is better then some genius line prepared minutes beforehand.

This is atleast my experience: let me know how it is for you. I think for a general approach, where it is a basic hook that you can use over and over, that is different as you know what you are gonna say, you just say the same shit over and over. But with observational openers, I think spontaneous and in the moment matters, having no preparation or minimum preparation before the initial approach.

[Ulax]

Damn. Bro locked in 

[Miguel1]

This is why social flow is so important, and to allow yourself to properly warm up.

It’s also good to have some great lines to use in tough situations, and in situations where you are not in a flow.

So, nowadays I think this is an asshole move but I used to enjoy stealing girls from guys just for the challenge of it. Literally I would take the girl from him, have her chase after me, then come up with an excuse to drop her.

And one of my favourite lines to open these 1 guy 1 girl sets was: ”you guys look like you are so in love”

If there girl answers no or eww or any negative answers, you know you got him.

Even worse is if the guy answers yes and the girl answers no. After that I don’t even have to do anything than to stay firm and grounded, and to establish my presence in order to put pressure on the situation, and it’s over.

This is fucking toxic I know. One of my favourite challenges was to look for a big group of guys with 1 girl and try to steal her from them, but this is not really toxic per se, more like stupid as it can get dangerous.

[Ulax]

1 minute ago, Miguel1 said:

This is why social flow is so important, and to allow yourself to properly warm up.

It’s also good to have some great lines to use in tough situations, and in situations where you are not in a flow.

So, nowadays I think this is an asshole move but I used to enjoy stealing girls from guys just for the challenge of it. Literally I would take the girl from him, have her chase after me, then come up with an excuse to drop her.

And one of my favourite lines to open these 1 guy 1 girl sets was: ”you guys look like you are so in love”

If there girl answers no or eww or any negative answers, you know you got him.

Even worse is if the guy answers yes and the girl answers no. After that I don’t even have to do anything than to stay firm and grounded, and to establish my presence in order to put pressure on the situation, and it’s over.

This is fucking toxic I know. One of my favourite challenges was to look for a big group of guys with 1 girl and try to steal her from them, but this is not really toxic per se, more like stupid as it can get dangerous.

Lmao love it

[Miguel1]

14 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Lmao love it

I was a fucking savage. Powered by evil spirituality. A real zen devil.

[Ulax]

6 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

I was a fucking savage. Powered by evil spirituality. A real zen devil.

Supervillain Miguel sounded wild lol

[Miguel1]

9 minutes ago, Ulax said:

Supervillain Miguel sounded wild lol

It’s funny because game is supposed to be you seducing and getting everyone to like you but I was just giving everyone shit so they tried to get me to like them instead