holy shit it's all a dream, i am all alone. I awoken.

[Yimpa]

On 6/27/2026 at 10:46 AM, Carl-Richard said:

Would you say others don't even exist inside your own mind, or do they exist inside your own mind?

There is only Mind, witch imagines everything.

[Someone here]

solipsism is false if it means that the human avatar you appear to show up in the world as is the only avatar having a conscious experience at this particular moment.

solipsism is true if it means the same absolute self is inside and exists as all beings right now .
if you go for a walk and observe a bird or a cat ..the same self is looking through the cat’s eyes and the bird’s eyes and your eyes simultaneously. It’s not true that only you looking at the bird and the cat are the only conscious being in that moment and the cat and bird are not perceiving anything .

others are not empty shells . Others are you . A huge difference .

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[gettoefl]

16 hours ago, Breakingthewall said:

 

 

against the wind

 

Keep up the stellar work brother! Nice description of meditation by the way - it helped me a lot and I shared with friends. 

 

 

[integral]

12 hours ago, Eskilon said:

@integral It's like you denying the whole sannyasin ordeal. It can be outgrown, but it's uncommon. The comparison to food is foolish -- a person can survive without sex but he cannot without food. There are states of consciousness where sex and women becomes redudant -- this is the yogis and monks reality.

A person cannot survive without sex with a high sex drive, but they could masturbate it out, I don't mean they actually have to have sex. Survival is more than just living, your tormented in misery.

States Of Consciousness are temporary, higher States Of Consciousness on a psychedelic of course you have no interest in sex ( some of the time ) not all of the time.

Those yogis and monks that do manage to push their sexual drive down already had natural low sex drives, if they don't and they're actually suppressing their urges then the problem is they're stuck in conformity and group think.

Be careful demonizing any human activity, there is nothing less conscious or more conscious to sex.

The more conscious you are does not mean you have less sex drive, and being high Consciousness and suppressing a high sex drive is stupid and denying who you really are

If a person is highly creative, loves thinking,  suppressing all that because "it's more conscious not to think" he's all conformity.

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[Eskilon]

@integral What I am saying is that as you progress on the path, many things can become redundant and kinda pointless, such as sex and chasing women. Spirituality is not just some fun activity, it can and probably will rewrite your whole identity and way of relating to the world, including sex and relationships. One path could very well translate into being out sex forever, and that does NOT mean they had low sex drive prior.

When I am talking about yogis and monks I am not talking about some temporary high state -- I am talking about their baseline, which could(and often is)  be fudamentally way higher than a commoner who doesn't know spirituality.

I don't know if you know but sex drive is a thing that is studied by serious mystics -- the way of dealing with it is NOT just getting out of your system through sex or masturbation, it can be transmuted and you can circulate it in your body and chackras. You don't need to waste it by throwing it out. I speak about this because I have had Kundalini awakening and still have it with me during sober states. The Yogi usually forms an internal circle of energy within himself, nurturing himself with his sex energy. That's why I said women usually becomes redudant. This is not supression, this is seeing and understanding, be careful not to assume that every renunciate is supressing material desires -- consider the possiblity that they are out of the matrix out of understanding and not supression.

As I said, the spiritual path is not just shits and giggles, it can change you fundamentally where you are more than just an animal chasing sex and desires until you die. 

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[integral]

1 hour ago, Eskilon said:

@integral What I am saying is that as you progress on the path, many things can become redundant and kinda pointless, such as sex and chasing women. Spirituality is not just some fun activity, it can and probably will rewrite your whole identity and way of relating to the world, including sex and relationships. One path could very well translate into being out sex forever, and that does NOT mean they had low sex drive prior.

When I am talking about yogis and monks I am not talking about some temporary high state -- I am talking about their baseline, which could(and often is)  be fudamentally way higher than a commoner who doesn't know spirituality.

I don't know if you know but sex drive is a thing that is studied by serious mystics -- the way of dealing with it is NOT just getting out of your system through sex or masturbation, it can be transmuted and you can circulate it in your body and chackras. You don't need to waste it by throwing it out. I speak about this because I have had Kundalini awakening and still have it with me during sober states. The Yogi usually forms an internal circle of energy within himself, nurturing himself with his sex energy. That's why I said women usually becomes redudant. This is not supression, this is seeing and understanding, be careful not to assume that every renunciate is supressing material desires -- consider the possiblity that they are out of the matrix out of understanding and not supression.

As I said, the spiritual path is not just shits and giggles, it can change you fundamentally where you are more than just an animal chasing sex and desires until you die. 

There is a clear pattern. I'm not gonna deny that people tend to move away from pick up kind of animalistic kind of sex and go closer towards sex with someone you have a better connection with.

1. Repressed shame, avoidance, disconnection
2. "Fucking" (egocentric) taking whatever you can get
3. Having sex sex as agreement / mutual exchange
4. Lovemaking expression of deep emotional connection
5. Transcendental / tantric sex as sacred union, ego dissolves

I agree that there's different stages of sexual development, but that is separate from spiritual development and there's other lines of development that are also separate from that

The thing here is even regardless of your stage of development. You still wanna have these different types of sexual experiences.

Now when it comes to these different stages of sex, the problem with stage two stage three kind of sex is that afterwards you have a connection with a person that isn't that great, in general you're choosing a different kind of partner, but practically as people go through life, I cannot always choose the sexual development of my partner

My current relationship I can't get my partner to reach stage five and I can't get them even to be in stage four consistently

Some of my past relationships they were purely in stage two or stage three and there's nothing I can do about it.

So when it comes to relationships and how you interface everyone around you, everyone is gonna be at different stages in many different ways and you have to come together wisely

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But above all of this, you could still have stage two sex (hook up) and fully enjoy it in stage three sex and fully enjoy it. These things don't just disappear because your spiritual.

I do statemaxxing that involves the sexual transmutation, but it's a way of using sexual energy and maintaining it as a overall life force for everything in life but your sex drive doesn't disappear. You're gonna do sexual transmutation, but then still have extremely powerful sex.

Idea that your sex disappears because you're transmitting it this is not it at all

 

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[Eskilon]

@integral Quick questions: Did you have Kundalini Awakening? If yes, can you feel it not only meditating but also while waiting for a bus or reading a book for example? How many hours a day do you meditate? Since when do you meditate? Do you do psychs? How frequent? Since when？

It seems like you are too indetified with sex, biology, being human and relationships in general -- which is fine, everyone on their path. 

Wanting to have sex and wanting other humans is karma. It is a subtle habit and mental formation that will remain with you until you truly understand why do you want that.

Sex energy likely won't disappear, but wanting to have sex with others can. We can agree to disagree here.

 

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