How to stop idealizing women?

[Never_give_up]

Idealizing women makes me unnatractive to them. Also it makes me so anxious I forget how to talk and can't look them in the eyes or face in general. How to stop this? 

Also is it true that the more experience you have with women the less you think they are goddesses and you become more relaxed when you are with them and thus you are more attractive? If yes, how do I get experience if I find them so attractive I can't talk to them? 

When I see an unattractive woman I have no problem talking to her with ease. I even become bored talking to her pretty quickly. But when I find a woman attractive even if everyone finds her unnatractive I am filtering everything i say at least 5 times and I end up saying nothing and I don't know what they think, they probably think I am weirdo or that I am a snob that doesn't even talk to some people. 

This life is so hard for me honestly pfff. 

[TheGreekSeeker]

I think having a sister in life helped me demythologize women. 

It didn't help me get better at pick-up though.

[TheGreekSeeker]

Whenever I see a very attractive woman I instantly lose aura points. Imo I feel more dumb, I can't stop staring at her, I forget how to talk. It's normal, especially if you have Asperger's. I have mild Asperger's too. Life shouldn't be this hard I get it. However there is always room for improvement.

[Terell Kirby]

You can have a backbone without being an asshole about it-

^ what every nice guy misunderstands 

[LordFall]

The simple fix is to talk to hot women more often. Your brain knows what you’re in a rare opportunity and heightens pressure so you don’t fuck it up which makes you fuck it up. Prove your brain wrong and make it not a rare event. 

Find and download social circle blueprint 1 and 2 by RSD Luke and create a social circle with hot women that like to hangout around you and also do cold approach a couple of times a week which if you do it right will fuel your social circle. 
 

Also realize that most men never sleep with an attractive woman in their life so you’re blessed with the knowledge to learn this on the internet. Take action where most men don’t.