How to stop idealizing women?

[Yimpa]

“i’m going crazy, i’m going mad. i want you, baby, so bad.” -olivia rodrigo 

[Yimpa]

I almost had a mental breakdown when I discovered a local artist I used to communicate with will be playing at the same music festival olivia rodrigo is hosting in a couple months 💀 

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

Become gay

[LordFall]

26 minutes ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Become gay

I heard some guys turn trans to get that validation that they crave from the dating market. That's fucking boys. Just learn to attract hot women it's not that complicated. Fuck some men if you want to but at least fuck some hot women too.

Can you imagine following the content on this forum, realizing you're literally God and infinite and still somehow you manage to not fuck hot women lol. It would take a divine level of coping to achieve that. 

Bro you stop idealizing hot women by fucking lot of them and making friends with a lot of them and then living happily ever after with your infinite selves. Any other way will not work scientifically we can break it down any way you guys want to. 

Edited June 23 by LordFall

[Yimpa]

Me: “Say you’re God.”

Her: ”I am God.”

Me: ”Now what?”

Her: “Now, I hump you.”

[LordFall]

1 minute ago, Yimpa said:

Me: “Say you’re God.”

Her: ”I am God.”

Me: ”Now what?”

Her: “Now, I hump you.”

God saw everything that he had made, and behold, it was very good.

[Joseph Maynor]

Women are gatekeepers to community oftentimes.

[SamC]

On 2026-06-19 at 11:44 PM, Never_give_up said:

 Also is it true that the more experience you have with women the less you think they are goddesses and you become more relaxed when you are with them and thus you are more attractive? If yes, how do I get experience if I find them so attractive I can't talk to them? 

@Never_give_upHere comes some counterintuitive advice. Right now you unconsciously see woman as goddesses. You look up to them and project your sense of worth onto them and you are because of that terrified of being rejected by them (because they are litterly the one judgeing and deciding your value)

What would happen if you would do this process concioussly and own that you view them as goddesses?

I mean that you do this internally, not that you should act differently or go to her and " worship" her as a strategy. Simply within yourself, you're concious, that you right now view them as something way above you.

 

The meta-move in my experience is to focus on the way you want to feel, instead of how to make a woman love you or be attracted to you. It is not you to decide if she loves you or not.

You are the one you are, RIGHT NOW and if you love or like a woman and she doesn't like you back, either for the way you look at her, the way you express your love or any other reason - Stand stronger in your frame of who you are and your expression.

It's not up to you to justify who you are to woman. You are the way you are - Woman select based on WHO you are.

That's the ultimate game, to be the WAY you are - not the way a woman wants you to be.

Flip the script, let her choose you

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Yimpa]

On 6/21/2026 at 11:18 AM, Yimpa said:

“i’m going crazy, i’m going mad. i want you, baby, so bad.” -olivia rodrigo 

fun fact, i just learned that this song was written after a dude, who didn’t know her, tried picking her up. they didn’t go out to dinner but it did inspired a banger:

 

[Someone here]

Worship a woman . Gods temple for a man is a woman’s body.
You should stop idealizing women but you should find one woman and idealize her..and worship her ..because you are a man ..which means you want a woman ..and you won’t get out of this ditch about women and ultimately transcend it and enjoy pursuing high consciousness stuff unless you satisfy your craving for love for and from a woman .  And once you fulfill yourself totally regarding your craving for the opposite sex you will automatically transcend it .

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3tt-L2pROgk

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fIsy_HSHkKo