The dumbest collective shit test

[Sugarcoat]

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

She's probably an uninteresting sociopath

Healthier than entire porn industry at least 🤷🏻‍♀️

Edited 3 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[Jirh]

@LordFall No, I genuinely just don't feel the romantic spark until I'm close and intimate with the girl (requires knowing her on a soul level), and by necessity that doesn't happen instantly. It happens with time and proximity. Deep feelings develop over time. That's just how it worked for me. I'm attracted to authenticity and vulnerability. Pickup, small talk, and one night stand offer neither.

I tired pickup but didn't have much success with it. It doesn't feel compatible with my biology. Like I'm forcing something to happen that shouldn't. Even if a girl approached me (and it happened before I even tried pickup), I couldn't operate under that paradigm.

[Sugarcoat]

3 hours ago, something_else said:

It's how I got to over 100 partners, lol

Never had an STD, unwanted pregnancy, and I've also had two healthy long term (3+ year) relationships as well.

Its  mysterious to me how the mind of someone who would wanna do that with so many people works...

[integral]

4 minutes ago, LordFall said:

People's personalities are very weak and malleable. If you were truly a solid in yours(not saying that I'm fully there yet) then their nonsense would roll off of you and you would be able to put clear boundaries where the problematic behaviours lie and inspire towards elevating themselves if you could successfully demonstrate that your perspective is truly higher consciousness. 

Yes it's possible some of the time. Most people do not change in relationships and they will always default back to their unhealthy state weekly.

So it always ends up being a game of repeating the same boundaries over and over again. It never sticks.

This is why you have to find mature people to date and be highly selective.

It's not good enough to be mature yourself.

[LordFall]

1 hour ago, Jirh said:

@LordFall No, I genuinely just don't feel the romantic spark until I'm close and intimate with the girl (requires knowing her on a soul level), and by necessity that doesn't happen instantly. It happens with time and proximity. Deep feelings develop over time. That's just how it worked for me. I'm attracted to authenticity and vulnerability. Pickup, small talk, and one night stand offer neither.

I tired pickup but didn't have much success with it. It doesn't feel compatible with my biology. Like I'm forcing something to happen that shouldn't. Even if a girl approached me (and it happened before I even tried pickup), I couldn't operate under that paradigm.

That's fair I assume you're an introvert. I would try your hand at social circle game. It allows you to cater an environment over time and meet women on your terms doing stuff you enjoy doing and are good at. You can read more about it in social circle thread. If you don't do that and just wait for the time you magically are in an environment with women long term that you are attracted to that are also attracted to you then you'll probably wait a long time.

@Schizophonia I would be careful in assuming negative characteristics to attractive women that you can't get. In my experience famous hot women influencers are really cool and have beautiful feminine energy, they just have access to a lot of top men and thus are guarded with their energy and time. Easy to fall sour grapes part which is just getting bitter instead of getting better. 
 

@Sugarcoat I’ve slept with around 50 women and I feel like I’ve barely started to experience them. So many dynamics and different types of women to explore. I’ve mostly slept with women in Toronto and Calgary. Women are drastically different depending on where they are so doing a world I could easily add 100 body count right there. Plus different dynamics, I’ve mostly done standard monogamy or one night stands or FWBs.
 

I started working with women recently through hosting a fashion show and helping musicians with their content strategy and that’s such a fun dynamic. It allows me to express my masculinity in a way that’s so deep I highly recommend every man tries it.

I’ve also never really experienced multiple women together and if having sex/hanging out with one woman you like is amazing then finding two women you like a lot and watching them fuck eachother and you fucking both of them must be amazing. I also love social dynamics so I would love to build a polycule with many people.

I also want to experience with BDSM dynamics and specifically from a position of abundance seems a lot of doms I see are like larping as a dominant entity but are just a regular dude in regular life. So I wanna be able to build all of this from a position of financial and social abundance and also be able to share that with the woman and men I bring into my intimate life. 
 

When I had my last serious girlfriend I felt a deep sadness that I would settle down without experiencing all of this so after we broke up I slept with like 20 women since and as I said I’ve barely started to scratch that itch also building status is very fun to experience compared to cold approach. People come to you and are excited about getting to know me instead of having to try hard to meet them so I’m also excited to experience fame game.
 

That’s why I say people that claim to have been there and done that by sleeping with a few people are delusional lol, it’s an infinite area of life to pursue and enjoy.  

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall

[Schizophonia]

35 minutes ago, LordFall said:

 

@Schizophonia I would be careful in assuming negative characteristics to attractive women that you can't get. In my experience famous hot women influencers are really cool and have beautiful feminine energy, they just have access to a lot of top men and thus are guarded with their energy and time. Easy to fall sour grapes part which is just getting bitter instead of getting better. 
 

I understand; I said that about Sophie Rain’s case in particular because she has an only fan, and pretends being virgin and Christian.

[integral]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

When I had my last serious girlfriend I felt a deep sadness that I would settle down without experiencing all of this

These are your values, your putting sex above everything else.

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

That’s why I say people that claim to have been there and done that by sleeping with a few people are delusional lol, it’s an infinite area of life to pursue and enjoy.  

I have no interest in having sex with as many women as possible. What a waste of time.

This whole framing projects one set of values without any realization that it has nothing to do with the life purpose other people want to have. The criticism of other people for not "expressing their masculinity" the way a "real man" is supposed to live, that's just one narrow idea of how to live, presented as if it were universal.

It's the same as someone who wants a bunch of nice cars and a nice house and the bling bling lifestyle. There's nothing wrong with that, but it has nothing to do with the life purpose or the lifestyle other people actually want.

And it proves my point: body count is about hookup-culture brain and the incompatibility that has with other types of lifestyles and values.

I cannot express how little value I get from speaking to people. Talking to people in real life is a profound waste of time because they don't care about what is true. It's like standing there listening to someone say absolutely nothing, and then having to fake that I enjoy what they're saying.

That dynamic doesn't register for hookup-culture brain, value comes from other people because there's something to be gotten from them.

Every time I have sex with my girlfriend it's better than the last time, and it was already God-level after the first month. She has no idea how it's possible for it to keep improving nonstop. I feel no interest at all in having sex with random people I have no connection with.

Edited 14 minutes ago by integral