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[Jannes]

His aura is something else 

[Jannes]

I find the interview quite thought provoking. He turns women on by being an emotional softie, so nice guys finish last is just a stupid line in the end !? I guess the difference between him and a nice guy is that for him being nice is not a fassade to get under a womens pants. And he has the looks. 

Edited May 25 by Jannes

[Ramasta9]

On 24/05/2026 at 1:31 PM, Leo Gura said:

Ah yes, my side gig.

You Consciousness Slut !

[Carl-Richard]

17 hours ago, Tenebroso said:

Your quality as a man, how kind, self aware, evolved you are has nothing......absolutely nothing to do with attracting women.

Attracting women (or rather making them experience attraction) is one thing. Satisfying them is another. If you care about merely attracting women and dumping them after your 5-second performance, do your looksmaxxing and psychopathmaxxing and whatever. But if you care about developing lasting, meaningful and deep relationships with women, be someone they want to be around.

The desire for safety and being cared for is what underlies "eww what a creep" and dumping the attractive guy who is an asshole or is unable to provide, and perhaps paying a male escort who is sensitive and caring. When they're in the situation of willing to pay for a set and planned deal, they're already looking for safety, for care. So that need perhaps becomes more readily apparent in that situation.

That doesn't mean they won't experience attraction from perhaps somewhat of an asshole, or just a good looking guy despite of their behavior. But you have to take into account the former if you're looking for something prolonged.

Edited May 26 by Carl-Richard

[Leo Gura]

9 hours ago, Jannes said:

And he has the looks. 

If you have the looks you can do anything. Women will rationalization anything a good looking guy does.

Edited May 26 by Leo Gura

[Jacob Morres]

@Leo Gura $$ too honestly

 

Edited May 26 by Jacob Morres

[eos_nyxia]

On 2026-05-24 at 11:33 PM, Natasha Tori Maru said:

This dude is so full into it - like he wants to make a connection with these women, not just root n toot.

Probably a manifestation of knowing what women want out of a male escort - isn't it technically called a gigolo? I haven't listened to the full thing, but he seems like the sort of dude who had sisters growing up (or at least, a strong female role model who wasn't pathological). My brother is what people would term a 'natural' and my theory is it's just.... being really well socialised.

Personally I think the difference between him and many who would envy being in such a position is that he is truly committed to a service mindset, so it's like a vocational or even sacred calling, Not just the idea of it. 

 

 

[eos_nyxia]

On 2026-05-25 at 9:12 AM, Tenebroso said:

I have watched this interview in full. Conventionally attractive man working as a gigolo, there is nothing to learn from him for average men because average men get rejected before an interaction can even take place. If you are attractive you can be good, bad, selfless, narcissistic, sensitive, cold etc you get the point but the key is attractiveness.

In a bid to provide a counter narrative to manosphere/red pill talking points women and self appointed good men continue to use examples of supposedly sensitive, self aware men who always just happen to be conventionally attractive. The reason why looksmaxxing is growing because women and their male lapdogs refuse to see their own blindspots and hold onto this false just world fallacy point of view where men who are good with women are supposedly better, more moral and evolved than men who struggle when the truth is they were born with the right features, bone structure and height.

Your quality as a man, how kind, self aware, evolved you are has nothing......absolutely nothing to do with attracting women.

This is so goofy, why would you think this is onesided when people are left to their own devices? I was a tween (probably even younger) when I realized that "smart" or "nice" doesn't matter if you're not cute as a girl either, and "weird" is only ok too if it's offset by people thinking your attractive, but that also has its limits. 

 

[Schizophonia]

Most of clients are old women and non attractive homosexual men 😸

[Jirh]

On 26/05/2026 at 6:19 AM, Leo Gura said:

If you have the looks you can do anything. Women will rationalization anything a good looking guy does.

I would say perception is more important than reality, especially for women. You can be mediocre in looks, or even ugly in some cases, and still get attraction from women.

I've experienced this personally, and I'm a man. Once you get close to someone, the familiarity with them starts to affect your perception of them. A 6 can look like a perfect 10 once you're familiar and close enough.

The inverse is correct as well, you can be 10 in looks and once you're close to someone they lose the attraction if you have a terrible personality. Or if you're abusive, you will leave the scale entirely (for healthy women).

What you said probably applies to the context of pickup, superficial relationships, or one night stands. But that's not where the juice is at.

Edited Tuesday at 06:53 AM by Jirh

[BlessedLion]

On 5/24/2026 at 11:29 AM, Carl-Richard said:

The concept of a male escort, especially a high-rated one, is really fascinating. Notice the personality type. Notice the social status, the philosophy and values, the type of interactions that women want out of it. They (the good ones) seem like highly caring, sensitive heroes.

 

 

I don't know, i think anyone willing to sell their bodies and sexuality for money (especially when they don't really need to) is fundamentally pretty fucked up. I will give this a listen though, i'm sure he has some insights