How long will it take to get good at game

[Ramanujan]

i am a retard in social skills. how long will it take to get good at game

 

i have mastered "how to win friends and influence people by dale carnegie". its is muscle memmory. but that doesnt help me much. i am still lonely. it doesnt even work on my male friends

fucking hell

how long will it take to get good at game

 

Edited 3 hours ago by Ramanujan

[Someone here]

@Ramanujan Brother..you are not a retard at all . Unless there is something clinical you suffer from autism or perfectionist symptoms or abnormal self consciousness. I notice you have a thing for books. You are addicted to theory . I’m introverted too and I think most people who are active on this forum are also more likely introverted. However socializing with people is REALLY not that such a nightmare . Literally just dress nice and put on some perfume or something and go to a mall or Any place in your country where there is  mixed genders having fun in a secular chill flirty way and just strike up a conversation with a person . How to do that ? Just do it . Talking is an action step ..you do the action by doing the action . It’s like asking how to drink water . You can sit there theorizing about how to drink water until you die or you can just drink . Go to a social gathering or a party or a mall and find the most attractive girl there and literally just walk straight towards her and tell her that you like her dress …guess what will happen? She will smile. She is not gonna kill you. What if any person (male or female or anything in between ) told you randomly that they find you attractive? Isn’t that gonna Make you smile? . The rest is case by case . The point isn’t to make her your girlfriend..the point is you talked to her. Even if eventually she rejected you . It’s not the end of the world . You don’t expect to get that much lucky anyways. you have set proper expectations..low ones. But you talked to her. That means you improved . Baby steps and you will gain much more experience in short time and eventually you will have a girlfriend. It is not impossible. It’s your right as a man to have a girlfriend just as it’s women’s right to have husbands or Boyfriends. There is nothing wrong or weird or cringe or anything about that. Do not say I’m a retard again .

Edited 39 minutes ago by Someone here

[Spiral]

It’s like a muscle, you can study how to workout and that certainly helps. But getting good at it requires at lot of practice. Be really social, spend hours a day socializing and in the end you’ll be good at it. However you lose it if you don’t keep it up