I'm so glad to have renounced romantic relationships

[Mellowmarsh]

[Hojo]

23 hours ago, TruthFreedom said:

I'm tri-sexual -

I'll try anything sexual 

🤣

Stick your own weiner in your own butt.

[Spiral]

Personally I’d like a girlfriend, mostly because I’m lonely. However most of the girls I meet aren’t people I’d like to hang out with again.

It’s not that they are mean or rude or whatever. Although that not unusual. It’s more that they are not interested.

Like sure they might desire me on occasion. That’s great but they very rarely ask questions. They just talk about whatever they got on their mind.

TLDR: Women don’t make me feel seen, so I’m not excited about hanging out with them. 

[Someone here]

It’s not that we “need” a partner in the same way we need food or water..but romantic and sexual connection is still a human need..just a different kind of need. For example..you don’t need to read philosophy books.. yet people are naturally drawn to questioning life and searching for meaning beyond everyday survival. That curiosity seems almost instinctive. Animals generally focus only on material survival while humans seek emotional and intellectual ..and spiritual fulfillment as well.

In the same way..the attraction between men and women is extremely difficult to ignore or transcend and  perhaps it was never meant to be. Life can be harsh especially for men and many people feel that having a loving partner provides emotional balance comfort and a sense of completeness.  Men have what women lack : strength and leadership. Women have what men lack: beauty and love. Romance and  sex can significantly improve your happiness and overall quality of life that there is no need to mention it .

Of course everyone has their own perspective and standards. Your partner does not have to look like a perfect Hollywood “10/10” ..but most people are naturally drawn to attractive people That’s simply part of human nature.

 

Edited May 14 by Someone here

[TruthFreedom]

God, I'm so lonely....

 

You wouldn't even understand 😭😭😭

[No1Here2c]

9 minutes ago, TruthFreedom said:

God, I'm so lonely....

You wouldn't even understand 😭😭😭

You got us here. What more do you need? You got yourself over there and us in here. We are a single continuous unit.

[LordFall]

On 5/11/2026 at 7:15 AM, TruthFreedom said:

It's such a lie we are told by Hollywood that we can find some perfect partner 🤣

Literally the only way to happiness is to love yourself. If someone matches that level of self- love then fine, let's go on our merry way. But acceptance of your aloneness is what will bring you ultimate joy and peace.

That's why I bought MYSELF a wedding ring.

And I genuinely need no one else! 🤣

Love yourself and then find a great woman/man. It's a skill issue nothing to do with Hollywood. What part of it was so hard for yo? 

[Zenterus]

I've arrived at a similar point. 

After 10 years of hardcore pickup, I'm completely burnt out on dating and women.

I remember walking through the mall after having a very weird and ambiguous dream that alluded to the fact that I was chasing phantoms in relation to dating.

I asked myself: Why do I want a woman, in my life? This was a profound question that I've been grappling with for some time now as I haven't been feeling very motivated to do pickup yet I would still engage with it from an unconscious mindstate. 

However, the answer to the question above was even more profound that the question itself: I don't want a woman. 

Blew my fucking mind to come to that realization.

Women have been my life's biggest distraction. A distraction from my goals, my emotions, my emotional wounds, my solitude, my peace.

In the spirit of the above revelation, Im taking the whole of June off porn, dating apps, social media, girls, etc.

By the end, I hope to have come to some new profound answers as to what role women are meant to play in my life, who I am beyond my previous identity that has brought me til this point or -- if I don't find the answers I need -- then I'd be happy extend it further than just June.

So far, a lot of repressed emotions have been bubbling to the surface: loneliness, anger, resentment, pain, sadness, regret.

But I find the experience of them absolutely beautiful.

 

[LordFall]

@Zenterus What are you working on apart from pickup? Life purpose is definitely a big part of the life puzzle and without it you’ll invariably be bound by chaos.