Bentinho Massaro creepy acusations

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Damn, didn't watch the whole thing but...

What baffles me is that people continue to pedestalize people like this.

His is awake and his advanced teachings are solid, but still... wow

[Lyubov]

Hear about this all the time. The woman who was organizing ceremonies for the shaman who I drank Ayahuasca with (she was sleeping with him of course) had a huge falling out with him and of course a crazy tale where all the usual words like "dark entities and spells", "I was being manipulated", "narcissistic abuse", etc were used to basically explain how this guy that was like 20+ years her senior and from a sticks and stones village in the amazon jungle hooked up with her the Spanish hippie girl, and when she wanted him to get serious and move to the city with him he dumped her. And of course all sorts of drama unfolded. To be honest anyone with real integrity will keep their spiritual pursuits far away from their relationships and sex life. It's really the only way to be a teacher with integrity. If you are mixing sex/relationships with spirituality, there's a good chance it will end up like this. There is a reason a lot of powerful teachers are voluntarily celibate or some version of it. You can just noticed the difference between immature pervert gurus like Mooji and Bentinho vs people who have integrity. You don't shit where you eat. 

Edited 3 hours ago by Lyubov

[integral]

What is needed to make a woman feel loved should be intuitive to him if he has any spiritual development.

But somehow multiple women feel raped.

Even telling a woman 100% the truth will not make them feel raped/controlled/manipulated. What hes doing is beyond simple mistakes.

Edited 2 hours ago by integral

[Lyubov]

7 minutes ago, integral said:

These kind of people can't control themselves to do the bare minimum to make a woman feel good so that they don't feel raped.

What is needed to make a woman feel loved should be intuitive to him if he has any spiritual development.

But somehow multiple women feel raped.

Its not that hard...

yes and i think it would be honest to gently add a lot of these women create a whole host of issues themselves which they use to race to occupy the victim spot. how many a times has it been where a messy relationship gets tangled up in new age beliefs and becomes this knot of inner child reasoning, emotional logic and past traumas playing out? I'm not defending anyone, I'm saying that this is NOT the same as a predator that seeks out to impose his will with force on an unsuspecting person of weaker capabilities. this sounds like your typical corrupt guru and a follower of his who consented to unethical sex, lacking integrity, this how a 1 hour youtube video is born with all sorts of convoluted notions explaining how she was victimized. To a degree she was. It doesn't take 50 minutes to explain a situation like this. I am not sure any laws were broken, I'm sure Bentinho is corrupt and acts on his perversions, power is something many people are not capable being responsible for. 

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[integral]

39 minutes ago, Lyubov said:

yes and i think it would be honest to gently add a lot of these women create a whole host of issues themselves which they use to race to occupy the victim spot. how many a times has it been where a messy relationship gets tangled up in new age beliefs and becomes this knot of inner child reasoning, emotional logic and past traumas playing out? I'm not defending anyone, I'm saying that this is NOT the same as a predator that seeks out to impose his will with force on an unsuspecting person of weaker capabilities. this sounds like your typical corrupt guru and a follower of his who consented to unethical sex, lacking integrity, this how a 1 hour youtube video is born with all sorts of convoluted notions explaining how she was victimized. To a degree she was. It doesn't take 50 minutes to explain a situation like this. I am not sure any laws were broken, I'm sure Bentinho is corrupt and acts on his perversions, power is something many people are not capable being responsible for. 

I'm sure being a guru attracts a lot of crazy people and you're gonna inevitably sleep with some of them, then they're gonna play the victim card and get there in 15 minutes of fame.

In the end if your a good guru or not, if you have any sexual relations with the pupils it will turn into a smeer against you.

So ye its a loss loss.

Im not defending this guy.

Edited 2 hours ago by integral

[integral]

@Lyubov Im watching the video and the testimonie is pretty condemning.

• The "Sexual Healer" Claim: Massaro told her he could never be monogamous because he had connections with women he needed to help, often ending in sex because he claimed to be a "sexual healer" [13:54].
• Healing through Sex: He convinced her that she needed to be "fucked" in front of another woman (Corey) to be healed [20:54]. He referred to this as a form of "spiritual transmission" [21:50].
• The "Magic Penis": He explicitly told women his penis had "healing properties" [21:50].
• Post-Sex "Healing": After the act, he would tell the woman she was now "healed," which Jacqueline noted was essentially a way for him to stop "tormenting" her for a period of time [23:27].
• The alien "nourishment" excuse: He claimed that because he was an "alien," certain female body types were "nourishing for his soul" like a "baby's bottle," which he used to justify only "healing" beautiful women [25:07].
• The Negative Entity Accusation: After she left, he told the community that a "negative entity" had entered his body through her decision to fear him and that he "almost died" because of her [34:26].
• The Financial Drain: Jacqueline gave him hundreds of thousands of dollars, which he spent within two or three months on suits, fireworks, and hotels while dating other women [30:15].
• The "Gift" Letter: To avoid taxes and legal scrutiny, he made her sign a letter stating the money was a "gift" [17:04].
• Tests of Devotion: In a restaurant, he demanded she take off her shirt to prove her love and devotion. When she refused, he told her she had "failed this test of love" [18:31].

SEX DOES NOT HEAL WOMAN. believe me i tried lmfao. 😂 Unless there sexual surpressed with sexual trauma then ye you can help them grow with a safe loving environment + sex. But mental illnesses dont go away with sex or wtv he thinks hes "healing"

Edited 2 hours ago by integral

[integral]

ok i watched the video, its not possible for her to make this stuff up.

Hes a textbook manipulative narcissist. 

Edited 2 hours ago by integral

[Lyubov]

 

47 minutes ago, integral said:

@Lyubov Im watching the video and the testimonie is pretty condemning.

• The "Sexual Healer" Claim: Massaro told her he could never be monogamous because he had connections with women he needed to help, often ending in sex because he claimed to be a "sexual healer" [13:54].
• Healing through Sex: He convinced her that she needed to be "fucked" in front of another woman (Corey) to be healed [20:54]. He referred to this as a form of "spiritual transmission" [21:50].
• The "Magic Penis": He explicitly told women his penis had "healing properties" [21:50].
• Post-Sex "Healing": After the act, he would tell the woman she was now "healed," which Jacqueline noted was essentially a way for him to stop "tormenting" her for a period of time [23:27].
• The alien "nourishment" excuse: He claimed that because he was an "alien," certain female body types were "nourishing for his soul" like a "baby's bottle," which he used to justify only "healing" beautiful women [25:07].
• The Negative Entity Accusation: After she left, he told the community that a "negative entity" had entered his body through her decision to fear him and that he "almost died" because of her [34:26].
• The Financial Drain: Jacqueline gave him hundreds of thousands of dollars, which he spent within two or three months on suits, fireworks, and hotels while dating other women [30:15].
• The "Gift" Letter: To avoid taxes and legal scrutiny, he made her sign a letter stating the money was a "gift" [17:04].
• Tests of Devotion: In a restaurant, he demanded she take off her shirt to prove her love and devotion. When she refused, he told her she had "failed this test of love" [18:31].

SEX DOES NOT HEAL WOMAN. believe me i tried lmfao. 😂 Unless there sexual surpressed with sexual trauma then ye you can help them grow with a safe loving environment + sex. But mental illnesses dont go away with sex or wtv he thinks hes "healing"

Yeah, thanks for watching this cause I don't have any interesting in sitting through it.

I have no doubt this guy is a perv. It is all too alluring to be a guru with women followers that he can easily convince to have sex with him. Guru hierarchy by design will almost always lead to a lack of integrity. I had similar fantasies as well when I met my now wife, we had such a good physical connection when we met, I thought to myself that our sex is going to heal her and me, etc. It's an altered state where you are tapping into love and the physical connection and potential of things but your bias and beliefs corrupt the experience entirely. Of course a guy like this sitting on a stage will run with such delusions and sleep with horny followers of his who look up to him (women are usually attracted to men they admire).

The funny thing about it is yeah... never see these "healers" sleeping with fat women or men to heal them... odd? It's always some manic pixie type. They both are made for each other, the perverted manipulator and the wannabe victim who need to label other people narcissist to explain why they throw all their power and integrity out whenever they have a feeling about someone. These type of people will concoct all sorts of entity stories to relinquish their responsibility and of course it's no surprise this guy stoops even lower and asks for money. I've noticed there's always a guy leeching money from a woman in 50% of these cases. I have a friend who is the hyper sexual manic pixie type and she lent thousands to two ex boyfriend playboy types like this. 

Edited 1 hour ago by Lyubov