Owen Cooks Dropping BOMBS!

[bazera]

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If I was teaching bootcamps, all I would do is teach guys how to truly party.

@Leo Gura I thought that was the point of a bootcamp, I haven't been to one but if that isn't happening, what are those guys paying thousands of dollars for? Just to be pushed to approcah?

It's a great feeling when you just don't care at the party about any outcomes and are enjoying yourself with humor and playfulness. 

But of course if you are there to practice approaching, that comes with anxiety, at least for me. That's where the "work" comes into play.

[Leo Gura]

22 minutes ago, bazera said:

Just to be pushed to approcah?

Yeah. And often not even that.

RSD bootcamps are notoriously sloppy and directionless.

Depends on the instructor and location.

Edited 4 hours ago by Leo Gura

[Raze]

6 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

The irony is this:

Before pickup you are just you.

Doing pickup you try too hard to be better than you, so you come across as insecure.

And after pickup you are just you.

The notion of holding frame itself creates a dynamic where you are insecure and lose frame. Whereas someone who doesn't even know about frame is just comfortably himself.

I think all of Owen's technical game can be simplified down to: learn how to go out and party. That's really what pickup is emulating.

Why are people out at clubs in the first place? It is not to get laid, it is to party. Guys who don't know how to party are the nerds who can't get laid.

If I was teaching bootcamps, all I would do is teach guys how to truly party.

Any drunk frat boy can party with their friends. 

You still won’t know how to game sober, be confident in new or intimidating environments, and actually seal the deal beyond the drunk girls who essentially pick you up. 

[Leo Gura]

11 minutes ago, Raze said:

Any drunk frat boy can party with their friends. 

But I mean party sober by yourself.

And of course you need experience handling girls.

I was oversimplifying it.

[AION]

7 hours ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

@AION You are applying one solution to a completely different domain.

Wooosshhh

[Natasha Tori Maru]

Proper socialization and talking to chicks will do it. Social game - they call it?

You will end up desensitized to the novelty / nervousness. Which will let you sink into authenticity. Which women love.

You will walk away with skills in how to read girls. I know they teach spam approach, but I also surmise they must be emphasizing assessing women's body language, signals etc? I am also assuming you get to a breakpoint where you see less rejection because you read the 'yes' signals from the chick better and are hitting the mark.