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Owen Cooks Dropping BOMBS!

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Let's focus on the main topic that Owen is good creating attraction and bad at keeping stable relationships. Honest question to Leo and others in this thread:

How do you get your women attracted when her brain stops producing rewarding chemicals and neurotransmitters like dopamine, oxytocin, since she doesnt see you as novelty, special or a challenge?

The more she knows you, the more time she spends with you the more predictable you become, the more boring.

What Owen does as the playboy lifestyle to make the woman sense that she can lose him, taht have options and is a man appreciated by others is the only way to keep the thrill going since they are addicted to emotion or drama.

Tell me other way to get the attraction, interest or sexual tension on, without acting like an immature guy scared of compromise.

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Its basically this:

 

80%+ content about this topic is just guys living in Miami, LA, Dubai etc.. or guys just parroting it.

Also 80%+ content creators are sociopathic / autistic that are chasing the stripper/onlyfans type of chick.
 

They teach you how to handle a lion, when you need to learn how to handle a cat.

Similar, but different at the same time.

 

 

 

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Owen has said that he wants to completely remove any doubt and have a delusional level of self-belief. His rhetoric around frame control and how he wants to raise his children to be completely success-deluded are red flags. He's a traumatized autistic whose path to mastery were three of the most Machiavellian domains, pickup, sales, and marketing. He surrounds himself with narcissists and success-obsessives in LA.

The man has no chance but to be an extremely corrupt individual, no matter how hard he tries. It wouldn't surprise me if he's one of the most moral Machiavellian's that exist, but he is still stuck within that paradigm and cannot challenge it because he's so obsessed with not being affected by others, giving in to conformity, etc. He's like Homelander arguing himself in the mirror trying to convince himself to stop caring what anyone thinks while being desperate for their attention, but as a consequence locking himself in his worldview.

For example, he serially dates women with BPD and then convinces himself that all women are like that, so the only solution is to control the frame even more than he already did. It's a snake eating its own tail because he's so hungry for a super attractive woman who lives in LA, which is selecting for a very niche type of woman in a very toxic environment, and then learns lessons that would scare any other woman away the moment they become aware of how he operates. Great for quick sex, bad for healthy, long term relationships.

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2 hours ago, Shawn Philips said:

Let's focus on the main topic that Owen is good creating attraction and bad at keeping stable relationships. Honest question to Leo and others in this thread:

How do you get your women attracted when her brain stops producing rewarding chemicals and neurotransmitters like dopamine, oxytocin, since she doesnt see you as novelty, special or a challenge?

The more she knows you, the more time she spends with you the more predictable you become, the more boring.

What Owen does as the playboy lifestyle to make the woman sense that she can lose him, taht have options and is a man appreciated by others is the only way to keep the thrill going since they are addicted to emotion or drama.

Tell me other way to get the attraction, interest or sexual tension on, without acting like an immature guy scared of compromise.

You have to learn how to screen for woman who are good at relatioships and not just chasing novelty all the time.

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3 hours ago, Shawn Philips said:

How do you get your women attracted when her brain stops producing rewarding chemicals and neurotransmitters like dopamine, oxytocin, since she doesnt see you as novelty, special or a challenge?

The more she knows you, the more time she spends with you the more predictable you become, the more boring.

What Owen does as the playboy lifestyle to make the woman sense that she can lose him, taht have options and is a man appreciated by others is the only way to keep the thrill going since they are addicted to emotion or drama.

Tell me other way to get the attraction, interest or sexual tension on, without acting like an immature guy scared of compromise.

Answer: a mature, conscious woman.

Reality: one that is also phyiscally attractive is almost impossible to find.

That’s why dating for me is such a low value thing nowadays.


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23 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Answer: a mature, conscious woman.

Reality: one that is also phyiscally attractive is almost impossible to find.

That’s why dating for me is such a low value thing nowadays.

How do you see your future in that regard? If you think that combo is so rare, do you see yourself settling with less attractive woman?

Maybe we won't care about attractiveness that much as we age. But that's a big if.

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Whatever you're making money on is how your ego will show up in the world to a certain extent.  He's in the business of being a dating coach.  That's his bread and butter.

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48 minutes ago, bazera said:

How do you see your future in that regard? If you think that combo is so rare, do you see yourself settling with less attractive woman?

Maybe we won't care about attractiveness that much as we age. But that's a big if.

”A useful eight”

In all honesty, I don’t know yet how to go about it. I am not in a rush.

If it comes to it, I will be alone for the rest of my life. That’s fine.

I am not sure how satisfied I can be with a stage green who is ”7-8” in looks. Perhaps I can be happy with that. Need to try.

The issue is stage green in itself is not enough, but there needs to be other stuff developed too.

Edited by Miguel1

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3 hours ago, koops said:

Its basically this:

 

80%+ content about this topic is just guys living in Miami, LA, Dubai etc.. or guys just parroting it.

Even in those places there are many normal hard-working girls who aren't into clubbing.

The problem is that clubbing is a very narrow activity and people who do it chronically are not wife material.

Ideally you want a girl who doesn't club. But then how do you find her?

You want more introverted girls.

Edited by Leo Gura

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